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kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 02:21PM more by kaceeleigh
Tags: Inland Empire , Technical Site Stuff (All tags)

I know this isn't a new topic, and sorry for posting about it, but I've come across some issues that I was hoping for help with:

What if I'm trying to get feedback from someone for safety reasons and they don't have access to mail? My safety is now at risk because people don't wanna buy points?
We are enouraged to reach out to people's networks for reference but I feel we're now limited by the new regulation.

I understand it's not hard to buy points but for people who aren't regularly active or have a built network with phone contacts, I can see why they wouldn't

Does anyone have any tips or suggestions for my concern?

Please and thank you 😘

      
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HawaiianPunch
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Mar 21 2017 02:26PM     link to this

Reach out to people with mail privileges.

Boom!
bwana
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Mar 21 2017 02:29PM     link to this

They can read PMs, but can't respond. PM them your email address or text number.
MUNK
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Mar 21 2017 02:40PM     link to this

Example -^^^


lachineseguy
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Mar 21 2017 02:58PM     link to this

"Does anyone have any tips or suggestions for my concern?"

dont bother with those people. is it that hard to figure out?
RJOC
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Mar 21 2017 03:10PM     link to this

What's the benefit if getting in contact with a guy who's going to be a cheapskate over something as small as $5?
kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 03:12PM     link to this

I appreciate all the positive comments.

And I'm ignoring all the negative ones.

It was a general question.

And no! See you don't know if that's why they didn't respond.
That's my point.
How do I know if they don't have mail privileges?

But again I appreciate all the advise! Some good stuff to keep in mind, and the normal be to throw away 😘
lachineseguy
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Mar 21 2017 03:16PM     link to this

"And no! See you don't know if that's why they didn't respond. "

so you sent PM to random people?
kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 03:25PM     link to this

Lachineseguy: Ya....... if I want information about you, I'll contact girls who have rated you. Who I don't know, it's a crazy concept I'm aware but if it comes to my comfort or safety, then I'll do whatever I need to.


kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 03:27PM     link to this

Thank you Rent.

kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 03:46PM     link to this

Thank you Ashlynn and of course this is all on a "exaggerated" scale but the fundamental question lies with what I asked.


interface
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Mar 21 2017 03:51PM     link to this

If i understand correctly you are sending pm to female in male's network about the male but not getting any response. If the guy's network is so small that there is a very limited number of females you can ask and you cant get an answer from any of them then your decision is to err on the side of caution. If you aren't getting answers from someone you can look to see when they posted last either by blog or ad. If they show nothing they maybe busy doing something else.
AlexisSweet69
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Mar 21 2017 03:51PM     link to this

In that case I try to Google emails and phone numbers and try to contact that way.
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Mar 21 2017 03:53PM     link to this

if a girl is active she will have PM privilege

if she's not active she wont reply anyway



its no rocket science.
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Mar 21 2017 03:58PM     link to this

If they are so cheap that they cannot buy points.

They are not supporting the site so let them fuck off.

kaceeleigh
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Mar 21 2017 04:12PM     link to this

Thank you interface!
HawaiianPunch
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Mar 21 2017 04:22PM     link to this

Much ado about nothing.
MrWhoa
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Mar 21 2017 05:32PM     link to this

That reminds me....I need to reup too. Looks like a stop to the post office is on my schedule tomorrow.
artnjazz
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Mar 21 2017 06:32PM     link to this

Hey kacee...what's cracking.
AlexisSweet69
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Mar 21 2017 06:56PM     link to this

Am I reading it wrong? Isn't OP saying she's reaching out to females for references that aren't active here and now they can't respond?
CoachMila
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Mar 21 2017 07:14PM     link to this

K, how about just leave the inland empire. Come to OC
741tahder
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Mar 21 2017 07:42PM     link to this

I understand what Kacee is saying. I have been a member in good standing for several years but my mail expired last year and I would rather share my fun bucks with the ladies. The rates for mail have gone up considerably and so have the rates the ladies spend on their postings. Some members have gone as far as putting their non Hx email addresses in their profiles. I have also seen that some of the ladies include their contact numbers in their postings to expedite the contact. While I enjoy the site I don't see myself restoring my mail anytime soon.
lachineseguy
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Mar 21 2017 08:04PM     link to this

Omg if you can't afford 12 cents a day you need to pick a different hobby
lachineseguy
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Mar 21 2017 08:05PM     link to this

Oh you are from IE


artnjazz
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Mar 21 2017 08:29PM     link to this

Give her your pizza with some pineapple....pizza.crap, she'll love it.
Mia_BellaStar
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Mar 21 2017 08:41PM     link to this

I love pizza! 😆
eliteviews
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Mar 21 2017 08:55PM     link to this

Kaceeleigh,

Get a job at at Taco Bell. You are in the wrong career here.
artnjazz
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Mar 21 2017 09:04PM     link to this

You better take that back ev
eliteviews
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Mar 21 2017 09:05PM     link to this

Art and gay jizz,

Get back to the bus stop
artnjazz
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Mar 21 2017 09:06PM     link to this

Which one?
interface
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Mar 21 2017 10:43PM     link to this

I think some of the ladies put other contact information in because they access their phone or email more easily especially if they are moving to different cities or have nobody to help answer phones or emails.
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