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Locked. No further comments permitted.What is sexual harassment anyways?
Nov 30 2017 10:51PM more by bmwfive
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Someone please pull out the definition because all these elites are falling...
      
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Magick
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Dec 1 2017 12:41AM     link to this

Its the thing that gets u slapped upside the head if you decide to be rude and overstep boundaries.
Angler1
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Dec 1 2017 12:48AM     link to this

Grabbin the Pussy once is fine, grabbin it a 2nd time unwanted = Sexual harassment.

Hope that helps.
DelilahRose
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Dec 1 2017 07:28AM     link to this

It's apparently running rampant around. Pussy grabs back brah
CoachMila
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Dec 1 2017 08:16AM     link to this

Hahahhaha ^ true!

I’m like a professional rock climber now!
notsofast
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Dec 1 2017 08:20AM     link to this

In the corporate world it's harassment, complaints, HR meetings, suspenions, firings, blah, blah blah

In the real world if you overstep you get tuned up in the parking lot
misterwa
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Dec 1 2017 09:00AM     link to this

I thought “her ass” was two words.
OCCityBoy2
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Dec 1 2017 09:34AM     link to this

Isolate yourself.
Wear 5 pairs of mittens.
Not gloves.
Straightjacket.
Blindfold men.
Gag men.
Earplugs.
Lock into solitary cell.

Now 4 square feet of Earth's area is safer for women.
That's what they want?
OCCityBoy2
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Dec 1 2017 09:35AM     link to this

Asking anybody for anything!
Taking something from somebody.
Crossing the personal boundary.

Mandatory execution?
lamar
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Dec 1 2017 10:04AM     link to this

A woman told the story of her husband's pursuit of her. He asked her out on a date ten times before she said yes. They now have been happily married for twenty five years. In this day and age the second or third time he asked her she would have had him up on sexual harassment charges.

Is the line in a different place now than where it was twenty years ago?
flynta
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Dec 1 2017 10:06AM     link to this

Idk about this one.......... People may as well say it's all fair until it's not fair for you. I'll explain my thoughts from what I have seen personally...

It's always after "I got mine". There have been incidents in the office where everyone knows that the new girl banged the boss and got a promotion that would take a year or two to get and that chick won't complain that she got harassed because there was something to be aquired from the situation.

Everyone knows that shit aint fair but the joke is to call it affirmative action and that really is how people should see things. If you are on equal footing with someone else in a race then you say fuckit I'm going to pull out my minority trap card and use that to get ahead; be if you are a person of color or have nice tits and vagoo. I'd say it's easier for a woman to do this because they don't even have to try most times; guys are just willing to fuck regardless and in every sense of the word. Your goal is to get something out of it and not walk home butthurt, broken and compromised. Treat these situations in life like a game of hot potato except that instead of a spud it's a dildo covered in glass and the the loser has to go fuck them self. Fuck and don't get fucked.

Anyway, the reality is that it's only harassement when a person of similar or equal power is put down to a level that demeans them and makes them feel uncomfortable. So that aspiring actress won't complain now, BUT if she now established a career, then it's deemed innapropriate if you were to pull this shit on her.

The sad fact is that there is too much at stake. No one wants to lose their job over some shit no matter how serious because there is still a lot of step climbing to go. You can't afford to take the hit, financially or careerwise. If you are established and stable then that call that shit out whenever you can because you are now able to afford to take the hits however they come to you.

I get tired of hearing people talk about the idea of workplaces vs the reality of work places. As a whole, things are waaaaaaaaaaaaay better than they were 10, 20 or 30 or more years ago and to not say that things haven't progressed is to stick your head in the sand and cry bullshit with your ass cheeks flapping in the wind.

I'm not saying what's going on is good, by all means it's not, but it's part of a moral and legal gray area that we all walk in every day.
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 10:07AM     link to this

Lost me at dildo covered in glass
Magick
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MUNK
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Dec 1 2017 10:21AM     link to this

Magick
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Dec 1 2017 10:59AM     link to this

The only thing married men like more than their wives is other women lol
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 11:05AM     link to this

Chloroform is the way to go now. Don't ask me how I know
Magick
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lamar
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Dec 1 2017 11:21AM     link to this

I have the hots for BOD, I'm thinking about asking her out on a date.
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 12:45PM     link to this

BOD I hope you're having a lovely Friday
flynta
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Dec 1 2017 01:10PM     link to this

Marriage is a sham anyway. No one here is a farmer living in the dust bowl so there isn't the need for a wife to shit out a few more helping hands. No one here is royalty, or has property or wealth that a group of lawyers couldn't help broker deals with so need to be married for that.....unless some have not gold digging birch wants to dip out of the hoe game.

Guys do it simply because they can and why not? All I hear from married guys is how their wives just stop putting out. When it comes down to it, marrying a woman is like buying a Porsche that turns into a gremlin over time. The upside is that it can make cars too but you really don't know if you'll have a family of photos. Maybe one of them will be a Ferrari, who knows. I'd rather lease fwiw. Maybe I'll eat my words when I'm 60 and lonely.

Anyway men are bad and hoe life is the high life just don't be upset if the man you settle for is also dipping out on you to see women on the side. He paying your bills too right? What would the meta be on that?
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 01:14PM     link to this

+1 on marriage is a sham

Yeah let me decide to deal w a shitty sex life, and someones cheating and lying and bullshit for the rest of my life.

Id rather die alone lol
Galen
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Dec 1 2017 03:13PM     link to this

I can see a marriage with Nila being pretty open or short.

I would die shortly trying to keep her satisfied or having to let it be open.
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 03:41PM     link to this

Lol Galen
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 03:45PM     link to this

Not jaded. Realistic.
I don't need to be traditional or live my life according to some sort of social expectation of me. That's not what makes me happy *shrug*
And while other women are waiting for their husbands to come home from an exhausting day of cheating, I'm spending all my time and energy on myself and my future
Magick
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Dec 1 2017 03:47PM     link to this

Yes? Lol
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