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They want a nappy headed cool brotha like me.
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I always like a simple thank you. If it’s a thank you with nothing behind it, I get the hint. If it’s a thank you with more behind it and that’s always good news. I think it’s just polite.
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My question is "What would you like them to do?"
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I always prefer an answer. No hard feelings, just a thanks with a simple explanation. Sometimes there may an option to discuss things for a future meet up. But to say nothing, is rude (in my opinion). Manners are never a bad thing to have.
And to the point, many people, men and women, do not have them on this site.
It is becoming a lost art.
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An answer is always nice, that way we know if we should keep you in mind, or not, if more than one person is inquiring at the same time.
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Hmm I get it, and I am very guilty of not replying if I don’t like what I see or just not interested after initial inquiry. Better than “thanks, but no thanks”, or “haha you crazy”, but I understand about leaving people hanging and will reply from now on.
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@BrookeBunny - thank you.
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A simple reply of thank you. That is all we need.
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OK, I will just reply thank you. I am curious as to the replies I will be getting.
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A simple thank you is always appreciated. Some times there is wiggle room so it never hurts to give a small explanation of what or why you are no longer interested but not necessary just helpful so we know why we are losing a potential booking and maybe it’s something that we can work on or change etc.
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@jimmmyz
Oh the possibilities are endless baby!!
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lol I actually prefer no reply if hes not interested.
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They want red envelope and the men get the fuck out
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Actually I respond, regardless, I consider not acknowledging someone taking the effort to reply to your inquiry as rude.
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Totally agree with MsMariah ...a little explanation is always appreciated.
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I dont mind if they dont respond as long as they dont send me 39 other separate messages asking the same questions
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).gif) phyre
U get us
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I love getting flirts from my friends 
Flirts from people I've blocked not such
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A thank you would be nice. It's understandable if it doesn't appeal to you, but we would still like acknowledgment of our efforts. Plus it's good manners that society should still practice.
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OK, I have been shamed. I guess PMing a “Thank you” when I am not going to be interested was wasting the ladies time. But you are all right about simple courtesy. I will do better in the future.
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I agree with Sexy_Dayna, to know what was a deciding factor is good. can speak for myself, and say I am always learing and growing. So it is helpful to me to learn what I may do differently and such.
It really never hurts to politely ask anything.
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If I was eloquent in my replies why would I be on HX? I always use the same number of words as the number in my IQ.
Thanks
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It’s a judgment call. All you ladies are different. Some don’t want us wasting their time with follow up pm’s with no intention to book. Some take offense when they ask why we are not interested and we tell them why their details are not to our requirements. So there really is no right or wrong way to handle not wanting to book.
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Well, I’m gonna say Thank You for your reply anyway. I am not about to tell a lady she doesn’t meet my requirements. Yikes.
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If I started PM'ing people on HX when "they don't meet my requirements," I'd be PM'ing a LOT of people on these blogs...yea, you know who you are. (Unfortunately, I'd have to send a PM to myself every once in a while too. No one's perfect.)
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I usually don't reply because I don't want to cause the lady to have to read another PM for nothing. But I see from this blog that I should change that up.
Good blog. Thanks everyone.
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++cm. I used to always say "Thank you," but several times I received pms like "thanks for what?," or even snide responses so I generally stopped. However, a lady shouldn't assume someone is not interested just because he doesn't book immediately after the first pm. For me, anyway, it may mean I just can't book right then but plan to in the future.
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Isn't the question what do you need?
Right now, I need a Mickey's fohty oz. of liquid bliss
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So far, I have not gotten a lot of positive feedback after saying thank you to ladies I don't want to meet.
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I think after you say thank you they assume the conversation is over..
Or do you mean you get negative feedback after?
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Thank you, although I’d be in favor of busting a move all over you, at this point in time I find you either geographically incorrect, or financially burdened. Thank you for your time though.
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I like not interested dont repy
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I also think that all guys should know that what is stated is not always what the full expectation should be it's just what would cover the majority. That is how I usually state what could happen doesn't mean that's all it will be everybody is different so I think sometimes when you just look at what is stated to you in the p.m. and go off of that you might miss out on a really good experience with someone really special
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Keep it real nobody truly wants feedback
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I have gotten a few negative comments, like they think my "Thank you" was sarcastic.
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*unable to interact with retards and hos here?
FIFY!
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