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I feel like the article hits some important points and is valid but it gives the feeling that you shouldn't really take action if what people think of you is displeasing to you. However, I feel it should've emphasized the fact that should you happen to feel displeased with what other people think. You may want to take a step back to agree or disagree and should you agree...make changes be the action that you do take.so I'm not sure I fully agree with the article but I still feel like it's beneficial to be reminded of what they're trying to say in the article...
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Nice post đđ»
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Thursday
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Ty!
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Great article and very true. If you fully understand what is saying.
Basically your thoughts or opinions of you from others, should not be allowed to affect you. If you ethically feel in your own mind and thought that you are a good person then opinions of you should not affect you. On the other hand if your thoughts of yourself in your own mind feel that you are doing something bad or are not morally right in your own mind, then maybe you need to take a step back and look at yourself and decide if you truly are a good person. No one is allowed to judge you but yourself. Judgment belongs to the almighty and thatâs the only time you should worry.
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But what if your self is really okay and there's nothing wrong with yourself it's just that people perceive you in a way that they find is pleasing and really there's nothing wrong with you so you end up changing yourself just to please other people but basically it's just only because they couldn't understand you I guess it helps you out because then you'll fit in and the quality of your life will be better and easier for you but you totally lose like who you are basically and just throw it in the trash and on top of that it makes you feel like trash because basically nobody wanted you when you were the way that you were so that would make you trash right?
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In a way that they find displeasing*
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Boy could I have a conversation with you on that. But it would take more than an hr. 
There are 8 Dynamics in life, first one being of self. Take care of self first. It's not meant to be self-ish.
Everyone has there F'ed up shit about them selves, even I do. And for someone to tell me how I "should be " ? lmao. cause they have not reached the "State of Clear" as a Scientologist. Only they can get away with that to me. And most importantly ! They do not operate that way. They lead one to discover about one's self. In that way, change happens.
You can't just tell someone what's wrong and expect change, the human mind does not work that way. One has to want change for change to happen, you just can't be told. Well you can, but don't expect change to happen.
Ethics and Personal Integrity has been thrown out the window these days and a lot of people do just what ever and not think of consequences of there actions. Smfh.... Could be, they just don't know.
If one goes around trying to please everyone or the ones that matter to you. It's only going to cause more problems in your life.
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I think you have to take into account that different people that live in different places in the world have different type of lives because that's the way life is where they're from or that's the way that they grew up so when they go to other parts of the world and people are different over there that's where things get mixed up for instance I'm from Las Vegas out there people are very obnoxious inappropriate rude cold sneaky and that's the way life is out there that is the normal way you do everything you can to go out of your way to do the wrong thing to each other and that is survival if you don't do it you will not survive out there however in Orange County it's a complete flip flop out here people are patient kind they do the right things and basically go out of their way to make sure that they did the right thing for the person it's like a big huge teddy bear giving you a gigantic hug totally two different places me being my own self I had to learn how to adapt to both situations basically to survive but what does that say about me here I am acting in a way that's acceptable to my surroundings so that I can survive through it but then where am I at the very end of it all I really don't know so that's something to think about maybe we just don't even know ourselves at all and we just act out of our surroundings at the end of the day though who are we
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" Could be, they just don't know" ....
The human subconscious always knows right from wrong. Unless they are truly mentally ill. Ask the right questions and they start to feel uncomfortable. It takes a lot of courage to confront ones own case.
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Those are valid points. And it shows the difference of peoples Ethics and Personal Integraty depending on location and survivability. Does it make it right ? No.
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Does it make it wrong?
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@SweetMelissa I think your a sexy Shape Shifting reptilian alien hybrid.
How bout that 
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Ray Bradbury wrote some great Sci-fi books also
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and @SweetMelissa your not from Vegas. your actually from section 139 underground facility that was the 90th extension of what we know as Area 51, and although you do not look a day over 24 in reality your actually 68 years old .
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Melissa
Donât slow anyone to audit you. It is a scam
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Donât allow anyone to audit you
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I really like this blog..................and here I thought, I was the only one who thought of food.
I think about food all the time.
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Mmmm I like sausage
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It is good to lead a life of not hurting oneself and not hurting others. If we do this we will be fine.
So often we strive to be someone different or have naive expectations that if I just have this relationship or this house or this job etc. life will be perfect. Really we are ok, we are fine just the way we are.
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Mel I think youâre missing the point of the article. If you are true to yourself and you're a good person thatâs all that really matters. Trying to change to be acceptable would be unacceptable. Unless of course you already think of yourself as not being acceptable. But that has to be only to what you think yourself. No one should be able to judge you! Judge yourself only!
Everyone is a product of their own environment. But thatâs another story.
If you were born in the Middle East you will likely be Muslim, born in China probably communist. Etc. etc. but you donât control where the start of your upbringing was.
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We need to meet Mel and have some deep.....conversation!đ
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@vss4, and all this time I though she was a fish. Don't forget to have lunch at the Li' Alien.
Mel I already answered that.
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Fubar . lol. It's not your fart. Lol. Haha...lol..omg...u silly
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Af. I know my phone was dying and that's all I could write at the moment but coming back...I did have a point. I recently was telling an uber driver about a time in the pastwhen one of my Buddys did something wrong to someone. He said well he'll get his karma but I knew the whole story and yes what he did was wrong but I know that in his mind he didn't know any better and at the time it was the thing to do. Anyone would've done the same . I'm sure he was only able to because of the fact that he didn't know better so would that then warrant bad karma? I think not because he himself wasn't doing something wrong to hurt anything he did it to help other things so. It's tricky. I think all I can say is you never know who or what you're dealing with wether they're old young pretty ugly fat small smart or dumb so be careful and have faith lol bless you all. I hope I get to one day speak more about this and other things with you personally. Until then...apparently I don't use commas . I know that is wrong. I'm not sure if I'll ever change. Commas or no commas that is the question. Goodnight!
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tl, dr
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Karma?
i get everyone's bad juju.
only luck i have is bad.
no one has to f... me.
situations make me f... myself.
once you realize: ONLY your own LIFE sucks,
nothing can bother you.
because no one knows what you are talking about,
and no one REALLY CARES!
MURPHY'S LAW? Murphy is watching me, and writing new axioms! DO YOU KNOW what to expect?
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No that doesn't warrant bad karma. Often times karma doesn't come about by one action, it takes a series of events and or a poor disision . and usually when it hits, it hits 3 fold or 3 times as hard.
Hmm...
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Donât know much bout Scientology, donât know much about history. But I do know about cults and scams. Science fiction religion shams
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Read my book on Amazon . the book emergency evolution by a lordess of evolution
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Gotta search it up exactly like that
The book: emergency evolution
Gotta read the whole entire thing to understand it.
It's a good quick read. Free on kindle
Its black with a moon on cover
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Link here
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A review of @SweetMelissa's book
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Butt there is still time.. you can save yourself today and be one of the chosen elite of the future..
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@sadi and @sabina_sins, what you ladies are experiencing is what I call the socal life style. Ppl in socal are full of hate and would gladly knock you down a peg or two, do they can feel better. Most of the haters do not have a life. If they did have a life, then they would have no time to hate.
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A few thoughts:
People are more comfortable and have more fulfilling lives when the people they know value and appreciates them.
Everyone has the power to shape how they are perceived by others. If you claim most people dislike you, then ask yourself why is that (maybe youâre selfish, mean, insensitive, etc) and make changes.
If you admire someone who is also admired by others, notice the things they do and mimic their actions. Only change for those who you value.
To say that you donât care what people think of you will lead to your sadness and despair.
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Empathy and kindness go a long way in this world, everyone is trying to sort through the varied waves of trembling beauty and wrenching stabbings that life can give.
Itâs wonderful just to be a loving and compassionate person. The power of attraction really manifests as well, itâs all just a part of the spiral way. I believe that reading some Carl Jung would be a great start for all when it comes to appreciating lifeâs subtle magick. đ
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I think salespeople and extremely self-conscious/insecure really care about othersâ opinions.
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While it is impossible to touch upon every scenario in a short post, there is a difference between which people we are talking about.
I only care about the opinions of those who matter to me. If someone you admire thinks you make stupid decisions and has little confidence in you, I am sure youâre going to be disappointed and you will likely alter your behavior to gain acceptance.
However, you also shouldnât care what people think of you who you donât respect. Your goal in life isnât to make everyone happy. It isnât to gain acceptance in every group, or to win the affections of every person. Only the opinions of those who matter count, and you want those people to affect you in a positive way.
And again, I am not talking in absolutes. There are always exceptions. You may appreciate your family members, but they may have beliefs that are diametrically opposed to yours and you wouldnât necessarily care about what they thought of you in many aspects of your life.
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Follow your Passion. Remove those who suppress it from your life. You will be glad you did.
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Honestly there's so many people out in the world and so many different variables as to why somebody would like you or dislike you they could like you because you have good credit they could like you because you remind them of somebody they could dislike you because you have bad credit or they could just like you because you remind them of somebody it doesn't matter really because everybody's just has their own problems and everybody is just freaking going nuts and especially the ones that look like they got it together they probably don't really at the end of the day and the ones that don't got it together maybe they have a broken heart you never know so just I guess we got to be kind to each other but we got to be careful cuz it's some people out there that just are literally crazy and you know it just sucks cuz we're just all mixed up into one big old pot and it's hard but keep your head up and those are my words of wisdom good night ladies and gentlemen
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See, everyone has case, ^^^
And then there is this.
Todays insite;
Women hate this. They hate to be judged by others, and often
silently brace themselves for it. When they meet a guy, theyâre
waiting to see if heâs one of the judgers.
Strangely, this is good news. Yes, you should be a
âqualifier,â but if a woman is not for you, you disconnect and
politely move onâyou do not give her any unsolicited advice or
comment on her life. You just move on.
Everyone has their issues, problems, and failures, and if they
donât have their failures, they arenât risking anything. And if
theyâre not risking anything, they know nothing about how the
world works, and arenât accomplishing anything.
The women I find the most attractive are the women whoâve failed
the most. Theyâve failed in business, often multiple times,
theyâve failed in relationships, and theyâve failed in every
other aspect of life, just like I have.
That failure is not a reflection on them being a terrible person,
merely the normal and natural result of desiring to succeed in
this world. They would not pass the test of the judgers, who
would sniff and snidely give them advice.
But, when you present the absence of judgment and acceptance of
them as they are, they tend to find you attractive because youâre
so different from the average males they run into. They know
they can open up, trust you, and they understand you get the
concept of âemotional safety.â
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