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TemptedHub29
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Is it degrading if you're into it?
Apr 25 2019 03:09PM more by TemptedHub29
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Taking a human sexuality course right now and the topic of aggressive/vocal sex came up. The professor was a female and she held firm the position that any type of aggressive degrading comments during sex should never occur. That it is demeaning towards women, and it's something that the pornography industry has perpetuated, the idea that women are ok with vocally aggressive and/or aggressive sex. An example used was, a guy being vocal telling a woman to suck my ducking fick(*intentional), during intercourse, and cusing and demanding different sexual actions in a vulgar manner. However she did recognize that things such as hand placement and physically rough interaction done in a safe manner can be a stimulus and is acceptable. I tried to explain to her that it's the same concept just verbal, how do we know some people might like being put down? She held firm that no it is mentally abusing someone, what's your thought process?
      
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lachineseguy
SGV, LA, CA
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Apr 25 2019 03:28PM     link to this

Those who can, do; those who can't, teach
billinirvine
Irvine, OC, CA
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Apr 25 2019 05:26PM     link to this

What's the Prof's handle?
taxartiste
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Apr 25 2019 06:06PM     link to this

Uptight bitch got no business teaching that. Between consenting adults if it's all good it's all good.

TA
socaliam
CA
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Apr 25 2019 10:23PM     link to this

$10 says the bitch is a dominatrix.
sleepyone
CA
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Apr 26 2019 05:09AM     link to this

Your teacher sounds like a feminist.
bigseekersb
Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 26 2019 05:16AM     link to this

Consensual and safe between adults, without actual physical harm, is always okay.

The teacher is bringing her own prejudice to her teaching, as many do.

rickx
SFV, LA, CA
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Apr 26 2019 07:45AM     link to this

"Wash that fucking dishes".... Now that would be degrading....
jammerman
Central Coast, CA
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Apr 26 2019 08:32AM     link to this

What position did she hold firm in ? Doggy ? Mish ? Standing ?
quarante.sept
Denver Metro, Colorado
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Apr 26 2019 10:25AM     link to this

I see old Fubar is back.
TongueLick
Irvine, OC, CA
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Apr 26 2019 02:18PM     link to this

"that bitch has got a stick shoved up her ass or some shit... "

I think she doesnt have anything in her ass, that's the problem. Her man giving her a good ass pounding and she will change her attitude.
TongueLick
Irvine, OC, CA
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Apr 26 2019 02:27PM     link to this

Forgot to ask, is she good looking?

As the late great George Carlin said, paraphrase, these women are women u wouldn t want to fuck in the first place.
hotsamantha4fun
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Apr 26 2019 02:57PM     link to this

Has anyone checked out Bonding on Netflix yet?

I feel like it's more acceptable for a woman to degrade a man than vice-versa, but unacceptable for a man to be caught being degraded because 'equality'.

Liberals love double-standards.
Ryan.Jones
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Apr 26 2019 03:25PM     link to this

I have watched a couple episodes of that show, not sure if I am interested in it to continue yet.

and as far as what's said in the bedroom, as long as

both parties are ok with it
there is no malice behind the words being said

then the words are used for arousal and not degradation of the other person.
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Apr 26 2019 03:40PM     link to this

RJ!
victoria_ann
San Diego, CA
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Apr 27 2019 07:44AM     link to this

Sounds like she has ptsd verbal abuse its a trigger for her . lol

Idk about her but as for me

TALKKKK CRAZY TO ME CHOKE ME .
If not it's boring.

Good morning !!

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