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Harpooner
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Locked. No further comments permitted.Asexual
May 8 2019 01:33PM more by Harpooner
Tags: San Diego , Random (All tags)

My SO recently informed me she is asexual. I looked it up. It’s a real thing. Not considered disorder and it’s fairly common. Explains a lot about our “love life.” Anybody else here in a relationship with somebody who is asexual?
      
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notsofast
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May 8 2019 01:47PM     link to this

Tell her to Bsexual or GTFO
MUNK
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May 8 2019 02:15PM     link to this

Dang ^^^ The I know who you did snaps
notsofast
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May 8 2019 02:23PM     link to this

I know what you did last summer...
MUNK
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May 8 2019 02:41PM     link to this

lol Don't give a rat's ass who OP does

But I will research who rated him on what dates and what not
MUNK
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May 8 2019 03:04PM     link to this

I got gas
MUNK
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May 8 2019 03:17PM     link to this

Wow I paid 3.95 on Sunday

Where are you seeing those prices ?
MUNK
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May 8 2019 03:35PM     link to this

Well thanks for tell me what you were pumpin on that date and where
Galen
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May 8 2019 03:43PM     link to this

I explained to my wife years ago that I felt she was Asexual, she has no interest with me or self etc...

She got angry but after some research agreed. The therapist I saw back then didn't believe in it, he insisted I need to wine and dine her.....

I still get depressed at times when she totally rejects my advances, she becomes slightly interested once a month if I play my cards right, but really it is not worth the effort anymore after 29years.
lachineseguy
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May 8 2019 04:38PM     link to this

oh good to know i can blame her instead of internalizing and rationalizing me being ugly. thx
MUNK
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May 8 2019 04:50PM     link to this

Who’s your man ? Can I wine n done him?
Grumpy
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May 8 2019 04:55PM     link to this

I just wanna go full Aztec on Opies ol lady.
MUNK
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May 8 2019 04:58PM     link to this

Carpool ?
Grumpy
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May 8 2019 04:59PM     link to this

Attaboi!
Harpooner
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May 8 2019 05:46PM     link to this

Rick - makes me wonder what sex in the “real world” is like. I look around at couples my age and wonder how often they are doing the deed. Not something I ask my few friends. I just have a feeling there are quite few guys getting little or none at home. Hell, that’s why places like this exist.
rickx
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May 8 2019 05:50PM     link to this

Harp - I have a theory....show me a couple that's been married for 50 years, and I'll show you two people who are not obsessed with sex. Think about it, the drive and obsession for sex, great sex, is probably the biggest reason for chaos in most relationships.
lamar
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May 8 2019 06:08PM     link to this

If you didn't get a prenup it may be cheaper to keep her and just the ladies of enjoy HX.
thebacknine
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May 8 2019 06:55PM     link to this

That’s a great reason to be on Hx!
yellowB2
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May 8 2019 08:59PM     link to this

Asexual means she just hasn't found the right dick yet.
TNBE
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May 9 2019 12:13AM     link to this

Idk about Asexual but I dated a chick who said she was Bi-sexual and I said all excited "really?"

And she said "Yeah, buy me something and I'll be sexual"...Still "date" her. Good arrangement.
Ms.Maggie
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May 9 2019 07:18AM     link to this

☹️
jimmmyz
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May 9 2019 07:29AM     link to this

Asexual, the definition of a trophy wife who has no prenup.
MUNK
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May 9 2019 07:54AM     link to this

I can be your therapist
Grumpy
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May 9 2019 08:06AM     link to this

I can take him over.
vss4
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May 9 2019 08:13AM     link to this

women are usually ASexual until she ends up with or finds a big enough Dick that makes her not Asexual.
vss4
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May 9 2019 08:24AM     link to this

OH!!! SHIZZ!!!!! , 69 degress is really Tevin Campbell !!!!!!!!!!!!

Mr. Trisexual
OCCityBoy2
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May 9 2019 11:05AM     link to this

more time in the man cave.
she always haa a constant headache.
i say she's a pain in the neck.

take two Advil and leave me alone.
theVesper
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May 9 2019 02:11PM     link to this

Lesson learned from this thread (and this site):

Just never get married.
TheWickedWitch
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May 10 2019 12:34AM     link to this

Guess ill google it but before i do...i thought asexual meant u reproduce from yourself like a flower. With a stamen... I'm gonna SEARCH IT Up!! Stay tuned
TheWickedWitch
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May 10 2019 12:41AM     link to this

Ahhh yes. A human with no sexual desire.

While learning more about that...i also learned i myself am autosexual. Means you turn yourself on.
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