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Those who are didficult to get a hold of
Mar 16 2020 04:28PM more by ogten
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Should I keep trying or just give up?
      
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Allison_Snow
Temecula, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 16 2020 04:28PM     link to this

You could always give me a try I’m very reliable.
AlexisSweet69
Corona, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 16 2020 06:52PM     link to this

You should keep trying!
longwalker
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Mar 16 2020 08:33PM     link to this

Move on the next.
They all feel the same.
GoBallsDeep
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Mar 16 2020 09:49PM     link to this

If the corona got 'em, you should use a medium to call the spirit world.
AFMadness
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Mar 17 2020 12:27AM     link to this

Give them a few days, never really know what is going on. Don't bug them everyday.
Ms.Maggie
Buena Park, OC, CA
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Mar 17 2020 06:07AM     link to this

ALWAYS KEEP TRYING! I personally do not ignore anyone's messages intentionally. Sometimes if I reply days later I get sarcastic responses. But I still try to
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Mar 17 2020 08:19AM     link to this

Keep trying
LondonLuxxe
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Mar 17 2020 08:55AM     link to this

Keep trying love. A lot of us don’t reply to text messages especially after a few hours have passed...

I know I won’t unless I have received explicit instructions that it’s ok to send texts...this is just a courtesy for the sake of your privacy.

Same with PMs... I try to send a messages if I missed you but all that red in our inbox can get overwhelming.

Don’t give up

Xoxo
lamar
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Mar 17 2020 10:32AM     link to this

I assume that after two PMs she's just not that into me. Normally I only try once.

I do think some ladies don't pay close attention to their PMs. I talked to a lady at a gathering. I told her that I PMed her a couple of months ago but never heard back. She said she never saw my PM and to contact her again.
LondonLuxxe
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Mar 17 2020 10:35AM     link to this

@UE yes girl!!! I will PM you my info <3
LondonLuxxe
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Mar 17 2020 10:46AM     link to this

@Lamar ... not to sound more bitchy than normal ...but not into you?

How would a woman decide if she’s “into” you, (or anyone from our lovely site), without any prior interaction with you?

Should we go by the blank humanicon , the information on profiles or by word of mouth ???
Supermanloversfv
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Mar 17 2020 10:50AM     link to this

I keep trying but I gets me nowhere lol
bwana
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Mar 17 2020 11:18AM     link to this

Flood her inbox with requests, works every time.
longwalker
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Mar 17 2020 11:35AM     link to this

As I said:
Move on the next.
They all feel the same.
PetiteSkyler69
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Mar 17 2020 12:48PM     link to this

Some are having major NETWORKING ISSUES LOL
ColossusJones
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Mar 17 2020 12:54PM     link to this


Send enough messages to let her know you’re interested but not so many you seem like a stalker.

ArabianQueen
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Mar 17 2020 04:16PM     link to this

Hiya babe 👋
lather
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Mar 17 2020 04:20PM     link to this

I'd like to be there for a UE - LondonLuxxe linkup myself.
AvaAllure
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Mar 17 2020 10:25PM     link to this

Give it Time, Don't Quit Just Yet Though
Supermanloversfv
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Mar 18 2020 05:14AM     link to this

Ava will you be my quarantine buddy lol
KaiserSoce
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Mar 18 2020 06:40AM     link to this

When I find a lady hard to get a hold of... I usually try to chase her towards a corner in a small room. Rubber gloves help with the grip... and lessen the possibility of leaving behind finger prints and DNA.

Just a helpful tip.
June.Moon
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Dec 7 2022 05:33AM     link to this

Keep trying



We absolutely appreciate it
pinetree101

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Dec 7 2022 08:06AM     link to this

Keep trying,
God gave women only two hands, one brain and one pussy.
If they are good, then by popular demand we have to wait our turn.
Hang in their...
pinetree101

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Dec 7 2022 08:07AM     link to this

Hang in there...
bwana
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Dec 7 2022 08:16AM     link to this

Judging by his network history, it looks like OP gave up trying a year ago.
HotStuff69
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Dec 7 2022 09:32AM     link to this

Never give up on things you want That goes with every aspect of your life. I doubt it's intentional if they take a bit to respond.
Petite14u2use
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Dec 7 2022 09:49AM     link to this

I agree, NEVER GIVE UP! For me personally..... Not only do I not get out n about to play very often but when I do I only tend to stay overnight before I have to head back home to my real life.
I do try to reach out to those I missed when I return to the area but sometimes that may be weeks, months later.
Wish I could be more attentive to the site and although wonderful people in it but real life takes priority.
Beachdude4
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Dec 7 2022 10:04AM     link to this

Well said Petite. Life and work unfortunately cum before pleasure
Marrisa_G
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Dec 7 2022 10:11AM     link to this

I honestly TRY to respond to every inquiry, but sometimes it gets so busy that someone will inevitably slip through the cracks. Girls are not available 24/7. We still have to go grocery shopping (and now xmas shopping), go to the bank, go to the Dr. or Dentist, visit sick family members and friends, get the car serviced, and once in a great while we might actually do something fun like go out to dinner or a movie with a friend. Or, we could be in session! There are a lot of reasons that someone might not respond right away, and when that message gets buried behind 8 - 10 other messages then it is quite easy to get overlooked. And to be quite frank, some girls are just better organized about handling incoming and outgoing messages than others.

But remember that there can be a fine line sometimes between being persistent because you really want to see a particular person and being viewed as a stalker. Being polite in your approach is the best advice I think. And try to show some empathy as to why they may not be able to respond right away.

I know that the subject of deposits is kind of a sore spot on this site but if you really want to see a particular person then proffering a deposit is a great way to get their attention and let them know that you are serious.
DahliaLove
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Dec 7 2022 10:21AM     link to this

Are you taking time to read their profile and ads for up to date availability?
Kissaprilska1981
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Dec 7 2022 11:04AM     link to this

I’m available
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Yourbaby_Fiji
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Dec 7 2022 12:44PM     link to this

Lots of girls have careers outside of sex work . Try booking an appointment in advance if possible for girls who aren’t as active on the site
Yourbaby_Fiji
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Dec 7 2022 01:18PM     link to this

Specially being independent without a booker it’s hard to reply ASAP unfortunately
June.Moon
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Dec 7 2022 04:37PM     link to this

Especially !! Us who are independent


Let's say hypothetically I post that I'm available and get a call to hang out. Now that's time I have to get ready, about an hour spent driving to them, an hour or more hanging out, an hour driving back, 30 minutes to eat and unwind and by the time I'm able to check messages again at bare minimum 4 hours out of my day that I'm going to be occupied and unable to respond, and that's just if I hang out with one person. Add another hour or 2 if I need to be somewhere else. To top it off we all have private lives, civi jobs and some ladies even littles to take care of


Sometimes I'll be driving and see a message and tell myself to reply when I safely get to my destination and forget. It's not that I'm ignoring you at all ! It's just that at times my mind and is on 1000 miles per hour. We aren't robots and us ladies do the best that we absolutely can without the luxury of having help or assistance.


Also I never text people first. I love you guys and appreciate every one of you for being a part of this wonderful community but because I don't text doesn't mean that I don't care about you. It's just so many people who are private and discreet and out of respect I just don't reach out. If you want me to reach out first just ask, I'll even send pics if you say that it's okay.
RickyRed
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Dec 7 2022 05:48PM     link to this

June.moon - send as many pics as you want. You’ve got my number. 😈
Yourbaby_Fiji
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Dec 8 2022 08:09PM     link to this

I find it’s kind of a rag flag when someone will reply 24/7 ASAP and are ALWAYS available to meet now
Yourbaby_Fiji
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Dec 8 2022 08:10PM     link to this

^for providers
TheWickedWitch
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Dec 8 2022 09:33PM     link to this

I think it depends on your relationship with them. If it’s someone you have known for a while and they are just not getting back to you then don’t keep trying. If it’s someone you’ve never met but would like to- try here and there. But don’t bomb them with messages cuz it’ll prob push them away 👍

Idk
Dakine_grrl
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Dec 29 2022 08:01AM     link to this

Give up.
Some are just terrible about communicating. Others are just rude or lazy and ignore what they don't want to see.

I'll try twice - first with a polite question and then a follow-up a few days later if I don't get a reply. If still nothing, I move on.
yyzed
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Dec 29 2022 10:02AM     link to this

have a plan B, C, D - Z

or an effective right hand
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Dec 29 2022 10:35AM     link to this

When they're hard to get a hold of, means they pretty much hate your guts.
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