| There are 46 comments on this blog. This blog is locked and no further comments are permitted. |
|
|
Sorry...but that sounds like a recipe for disaster.
Every Time, did I mention every time? I've done something like that, it just ends bad and one jaded.
Last time I did something like that. I comment to the lady that it has always gone wrong.
She says "I'm not like the others, I won't hustle you" well she did.
|
|
|
Bad idea. Bad bad bad idea. For the guys.
|
|
|
I have to agree. this will not end well!
|
|
|
I used to have a very steady long time girl I knew and dropped a monthly into her bank account directly. It was great and it even ended well but because I'm a generous understanding guy and she was "worth it"...
But this doesnt work for most people much less this site for sure.
How could you go about implementing that now?
For girls it's like trying to buy life insurance when your about to die. nobody gonna sell it to you.
|
|
|
that's ok for an arrangement, but for a standard practice, it doesn't work. I had an arrangement once, and would do it again with the right one. last time it took us both off the site for over a year. but that is a special deal, it shouldn't be a standard practice for the entire site.
|
|
|
I helped out a lady here bc she was down on her luck. I had never met her before but yet felt the need to help. Not even a thank you.
|
|
|
Gotta be careful who you decide to help out, and never help more than you're already prepared to.
You only ever hear about it when these things go wrong, but they go right every day, too. You just have to use discretion about who you come into contact with, just like when it comes to anything else in life.
|
|
|
Sorry to say but an honor system never works out
|
|
|
*rarely
It often works out for the one receiving the pre-payment.
Speaking of that.... Anybody heard from Pre-pay lately?
|
|
|
Something like this worked out for me with someone and it's still working out 2 1/2 years later. It's not an "arrangement" and it's not exclusive. She continues to see other guys and I still see plenty of girls on here.
The entire "deal" we have was not planned, negotiated, or worked out in advance in any way. It just ... happened. She would call and I would go. Or I would call and she would make herself available. If she feels she needs money I give it to her whether I'm available to session or not. Then we set something up later when we are both available, even if it is weeks away. Nobody owes anybody anything and neither of us has to continue if we don't want to. But we somehow became friends and built trust in one another. So we keep seeing each other, helping each other, and having fun.
That is the "deal" we have and I like it.
|
|
|
LOL...I have to laugh that we get hustled like we do. Most of us know that's more likely the out cum...come. Mine even sent me her receipt of her payment, with her real name, address, time of payment....the next morning at 2am she sent a text that she is giving her boyfriend another chance....I didn't even know there was a boyfriend!
LOL I swear, that was the last time. 123 bad apples ruin it for all of them!
|
|
|
Didn’t we already have a situation like that go horribly bad earlier this year???
Please let’s not go down that road again.
|
|
|
Maybe if it's not a I.O.U
Guys can contribute to monthly things like
1 pays
The
Phone bill $50
Utility bill $50
Cable bill $50
And can volunteer to pay that a month.
To just help out.
Then later! We can look at how much U did, and consolidate then. Or not.
But im sure many are maybe saving there play money where
Maybe they can volunteer to help a girl or 2 by paying a few revolving essential bills
Oh and car insurance etc.
|
|
|
Bad Idea
|
|
|
Agree.
|
|
|
Why dont you all just send me the money to hold as the arms length disinterested third party banker?
Then down the road, you set up the meeting with the lady of your choice
Then, I stop answering your pm's
But you're still on good terms with the lady you'd like to meet
I call that win win
|
|
|
2 of u above
Have no value in what u say around here.
|
|
|
Let's reverse it
If any guy or girl is a displaced worker during this time.
Please pm me
Happy to send 20-50 to someone who needs it to keep the light on or food for their family
|
|
|
Gina, you're alwayze amazing n thoughful!
|
|
|
Here's a thought, traffic is sooo lite now, take the Billions of $ for the "bullet" train and provide shelter, food, and comfort to those in need...
|
|
|
Gina you're so sweet....
|
|
|
A partial prepay would work better than a full one. But in all seriousness, some people on here aren’t going to have the money to live because business is so bad, and they’re not going to be getting much help from the government. Guys could step in and help. I rather err on the side of being swindled than letting someone starve — to a point. Have a heart.
|
|
|
GinaGalaxy, please send 50 dollars to my cat. He needs litter.
|
|
|
OP, it's a really stupid idea. I've been here for over a decade & I have never, ever, ever heard of a long term pre-pay arrangement (including those which includes bonus visits or discounts, etc.) working out. EVER. Even with girls who're supposed to be reliable. Why? Probably because they're whores at heart. It's all about money. And when they get it too ahead of time... suddenly, they're too busy for you. And when you remind them of the agreement, they accuse you of being too annoying, too stalker-ish, any excuse to not comply with the original arrangement.
|
|
|
OP is just stupid and or ignorant...
|
|
|
@OP, Really? 🤦🏻♂️
You are better off just “donating” to those in need and hope you get a reward for your generosity. But don’t be upset or mad if you get no “reward” for your trouble. This is the real world and not fantasy land! (But sometimes this site will help you get to fantasy land with no guarantees)
|
|
|
I agree with sonofadams. I have experienced it way too many times. The term "take of me and I'll take of you" hasn't worked for me.
|
|
|
"Take care of me and I'll take care of you" I meant to say
|
|
|
I have "contributed" many times for help with the rent, phone, car, airplane ticket, and sometimes it worked out, and sometimes it didn't. I just let it go when it didn't. One must be in dire straits to swallow one's pride to ask. I felt they needed it more than I did.
|
|
|
Gina.... a breath of fresh air
And hot as hell
|
|
|
OP is just putting up a blog topic...
Arrangements work out between two people where they make sense. It doesnt need any sort of affirmative action to make it happen and it's not for everyone.
|
|
|
Or they can safely earn it now—naughty video chat.
I saw one HX lady on Chaturbate the other day.
She posted her user name on her page. That was hot and
Away of getting some type of human connection.
Another suggested that she could use an internet enabled toy
That could be controlled from home in a private chat session.
That would be fun and with the right gal I would be supportive.
Money earned right way and both are happy.
|
|
|
UE, unfortunately that attitude and sense of honor is not as prevalent as it used to be, here or in society as as a whole.
Times like this tend to reveal a persons true character. In the market when I’m shopping I’m amazed at people that are revealing themselves and don’t realize it or care. I’ve seen people take stuff out of their cart and give it to someone else when a shelf was empty. I’ve also seen people push others aside so they can get two MEGA 12 packs of toilet paper, instead of just one. I think as others have said, right now if you want to help someone out, and you can, just do it. Don’t try to make it a business transaction. You may get some kindness back, or not, but you won’t be disappointed in the end.
Someone above made a statement about how bad of a situation someone has to be in to ask for help. I’m going to disagree. There are people of both sexes who thrive on trying to get the most they can for as little effort as possible. That could mean offering Wimpy Specials (I’ll let you visit Tuesday for the rent money today) or guys who leverage their level or influence for better prices or freebies. Unless you really know someone and their situation none of us can really know what other people are going thru, let alone evaluate their character.
|
|
|
More situations will probably end up sour than sweet, for the guy.
|
|
|
I am wondering what the percentage is of arrangements that go bad.
For me, 25%. I have in all the years had 4 "prepay/arrangements" All 4 were people I knew well and trusted, all 4 were in real need, and all 4 times I knew the possibility that the funds were gone as soon as they left my hands. The 1 that didn't work out was a legit situation with a family member who was very ill. 1 of the good arrangements turned out to be one of the best sessions of my life. We went out for sushi before our sesh; small world, ended up seeing another provider we both knew very well there at the restaurant with a civie family member. After a few discreet texts between the ladies, and smiles across the restaurant, we all ended up hooking up later.
The point is that Delaine is correct, these arrangements are many times good, we only here about the bad situations.
That being said, I would not do it unless it is someone you know very well and have allot of trust in them, AND are willing to lose that investment, whether it be paying a bill or $$
|
|
|
People should be calling their landlords, utility companies, banks (for their mortgages), cell phone providers, etc., and ask for a deferment (pay at a later date).
They will often will work with you, some (landlords, banks, and utilities) are often forced to work with you by law during this extraordinary time.
|
|
|
I do taxes, lots of them and have several either current or former providers as clients. One of them had a long term exclusive deal and it worked for many many years and it allowed her to get an education in a medical field that has her currently self sufficient. Several others are currently in school getting degrees that will ultimately be very employable and I hope the best for them. Another had training in a medical field and is now doing something else that keeps her self sufficient, though she does have 2 or 3 "special" supplementary friends.
It can work out but as others above me have said, keep your expectations low and don't give anything you cannot afford to lose if it does not come back as cash or a service.
I think we're all humans and somewhat sensitive, but common sense must be the final arbiter.
TA
|
|
|
At the of the day I was taken for $300.
It was for her rent, and am actually happy that I was able to help her.
She's off the site, and i will probably, hopefully never ser her again.
Which I hope means she is not in need of this site.
Good luck to all of us...
|
|
|
If the "Honor System" worked, we wouldn't have 3 different credit bureaus.
People need motivation to repay debts to strangers.
|
|
|
Sometimes that motivation is honesty and integrity. Just sayin.
|
|
|
"2 of u above
Have no value in what u say around here."
which 2? And, don't be cruel
|
|
|
"take of me and I'll take care of you"
aren't quid pro quos impeachable these days?
Weird to think longingly of the impeachment days prior to the virus, that was way more fun
|
|
|
Just assume any pre pay money is down the tubes. If you get something for it at a later date...look at it as found money. Remember some of the younger women only see that money for an instant, but it may save her from a big problem. I once took a provider grocery shopping as i truly believed she needed the food. Do what you can as this situation isnt going to end soon.
|
|
|
Some people have a Good Heart! 
All people are Not thieves! 🙄
|
|
|
"All people are Not thieves! 🙄"
HUH?!
|
|
|
All people are not thieves. Grammar is shoddy, but the logic is sound.
And Alexis, from my experience, is a good person.
|
| There are 46 comments on this blog. This blog is locked and no further comments are permitted. |
