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Usually means the interaction was not memorable.
Just keeping it real
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A notice used to be sent to/when someone received a rating, IIRC with a link to the rater.
Bringing that back might help.
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If my network was outdated I would ask for a rating and I would reciprocate the favor.
The more common case is meeting up with someone and interaction not being that good.
If that is the case I kindly ask them not to rate me and I do that same.
I’d much rather be up front and direct. Rather then receiving pm’s about that person, once networked
And saying negative things about the interaction that took place.
Now, if they beg for me to rate them back. I’ll do it out of good heart.
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If I have a less than good experience, I do not rate a lady. I would rather not be asked about her because I would be honest in my comments. And who am I to damage what is probably her livelihood.
Happy to do ratings when I have a great experience and very willing to tell others if they inquire.
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Chucklaylo +1000
To add to this I’ve had White Knights hit me up about individuals who I didn’t have that good of an interaction. The Whiteknight told that person word for word what I said...after that I implemented this rule of not rating if the interaction is not that good.
As always blame the white knights who think they are getting special points for BACKSTABBING their brothers.
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The rating system - as I interpret it is to verify the legitimacy of the person.
Not to say that she didn't deliver as promised or the place was a pigsty - or he was late and acted like an ass.
That is what the review clubs are for.
So when someone says they did not rate because it did not go as planned - that is not what this is all about.
Was he safe?
Did he leave what he was supposed to?
Were you threatened?
You saw him, you both did what you did, there was no chemistry (awww, this aint Match.com) but everything was legit.
Rate!
I miss the old days when both parties could comment on each other.
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IMHO every in person encounter should be given a network rating. The 2 minute rating is a more through representation of your overall experience and benefits our members the most. Most of the reasons for not rating being shared on this blog seem to fall under the category of Karma. While we are sorry you didn't have a good time we would still like to know if a lady is Safe, Reliable, in Compliance, and has Integrity. The BIG 4. Karma falls under the YMMV heading and in my opinion the least important rating of your contact.
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If I have a good experience, I rate her.
If I have a bad experience, I rate her.
If I have a so-so experience, I don’t rate her. Just because it didn’t click for me doesn’t mean she won’t click with next guy.
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As long as you’re willing to rate me first I have no problem rating you back I think it’s a great way for people to communicate with each other and figure out who is good and who’s bad.
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I've figured if they don't return a rating then 90% they may not want to see you again.
There is so many differences between us all, it's not always going to be good.
+1 Chuck and Alter
Checking there out going may be telling.
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I used to think that if I was texting a girl, I was actually
Talking to her. Once and a while the girl would have no
Idea what I was talking about when I mentioned a text I had
Sent thanking her for a wonderful time when I saw her before.
I would also have problems communicating about rating and getting
Rated back. Well the ugly truth was that I was communicating with
Her booker, who I later realized I was also flirting with via text. To add
Insult to injury, I also found out the booker was a guy.
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As a twist to this conversation, what always bothered me is that when someone rates you, even highly as a level 5 lets say, and then she leaves ...her entire network goes with her.
And then the next lady wants recent activity.
Its a shell game, so I just don't get wrapped up in it.
I rate fairly, hope she does the same, and in cases where someone new needs more references, I try to explain that I'm just a loley level 0 that has been seeing fantastic ladies for a decade or more.
If it clicks it clicks, if not, their loss. LoL
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>>> her entire network, and all the ratings she ever provided that is...
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Depending on who you see you need to let them know to have their booker rate you. Girls that actively blog are independent, those that do not usually actually have a life and use a booker. I have met girls that do not even know what this site is, they just see whoever the booker sends their way.
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Personally I won’t comeback for another visit. If you take the time to rate me even if it’s just to let the community know I’m okay and not harmful with answering a few simple questions I’ll see you again. If you can’t do that i just move on to the next... Fuckem...
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Some ladies will swing by & chill more than once, and still won't rate back.
Perhaps I'm a dirty little secret.
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What I have always thought is funny, you need to have 3 recent ratings to see me. So I gotta go bang three others first?? 😂
I have never understood why some don’t rate but honestly, they don’t have to and I wouldn’t send multiple PMs asking for it. Kindly ask once or twice then move on. I had one that would say she would rate me each time after three visits and never did. You can tell if a girl will rate by looking at their rating history. If they have 100 ratings and have only rated 20, there is a good chance you aren’t getting rated. It is what it is. I’m not seeking to be a level 5, just want to have some good times 
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Blame the white knights, who silence a lot of good guys line myself!
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If you need to be rated, simply reach out nicely. It may take a couple reminders but it will happen.
Communication is key.
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Why is it so hard for women to rate back? I would rate them immediately after a meet and text them I have rated and ask for them to do it back but a lot of time the rating never happens. Sometimes I just feel like taking the rating off the women that don’t rate back.
What’s the difference between a 2 second rating vs a 2 minute rating?
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I honestly just get so busy and forget to rate the gentlemen I’ve seen. It’s something I actually need to spend like and hour or 2 doing soon. But I do let everyone know that I’m the worst when it comes to ratings. And please if you e seen me and I haven’t rated you yet feel free to remind me. I won’t get mad or irritated I’d actually be super grateful for the reminder.
From a ladies point of view it’s not that the experience wasn’t memorable, it’s that it’s not easy to juggle the stresses or daily life on top of providing and all the other curveballs life throws at you at the same time.
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there's no notification you get when someone rates you
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”What’s the difference between a 2 second rating vs a 2 minute rating?”
Compliance, reliability, integrity.
Answer the two second questionnaire and your results will be limited to safety and karma. Basically are they safe and do you like them.
Answer the two minute questionnaire and the other three attributes of compliance, reliability, and integrity might get filled in to the good, bad, or indifferent. Just depends on how you answered the questions.
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Does a step by step explanation exist as to what question choice affects the rating.
ie. 1 Do you like the lady
a. Yes
b. She is alright
c. No
2. Has lady made commitments
a. No
b always
c sometimes
d yes
3. Does lady protect community members
a. Stays out of drama
b. Yes
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