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Locked. No further comments permitted.I befriended a girl I met from an hx party 4-5 years ago and now...
Aug 25 2020 03:28PM more by Energizer_Bunny
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Hi everyone I hate to do this cause I really dislike drama I had a formal agreement with a girl, myself, and my sibling to go on a trip to Brazil in December but with the covid we will not be able to go anymore. So 50% of our payment for Airbnb will be non-refundable , I paid upfront so I’m taking the big loss and out of the $1600 she paid $200 and now she’s harassing me to exploit me and threatens to harass me at my home to do pretty much anything to try to get her $200 deposit back. I have receipts on everything so please I want to warn anyone else to be careful with doing business with this person. Her handle is ‘Sugarbabymea12’
      
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Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 04:17PM     link to this

Yeah I continued to explain to her if I get the deposit back for sure I will give her, her money back. But she says that’s not her problem 😫 ugh, last time I’m ever in this position, because this sucks. And thank you for that advice👌🏽
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Aug 25 2020 04:21PM     link to this

Sometimes reality suck and is not fair.. Sometimes is just better to cut your losses and move it.
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 04:40PM     link to this

Thank you guys yeah I’m just gonna cut my losses and keep it moving. I really appreciate the advice 👌🏽
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 04:42PM     link to this

@Goddess hehe I appreciate the advice girl ❤️ And yeah I really thought she was my friend but no friend will try to ruin you over a petty $200. I guess that’s what the friendship was worth, but I’m moving on now ☮️❤️ Muchas gracias
TheMythTheMole
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Aug 25 2020 04:45PM     link to this

Yup definitely what goddess said. 200 bones is not worth your life being flipped. And nice seeing you post Bunny. Miss ya!
Dr.Fate
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Aug 25 2020 05:06PM     link to this

$200 is a bargain to get her out of your life.

Pay her and have something Priceless........

Peace of mind
lamar
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Aug 25 2020 05:07PM     link to this

She's treating you the same as she would treat one of us dudes. You really find out who's a friend when money is involved.
NickSgv
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Aug 25 2020 06:09PM     link to this

@Energizer_Bunny
Considering your network I suspect you’ll be able to recoup your losses many times over during your visit in September. Karma. Hopefully I’ll have the chance to contribute myself.


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Aug 25 2020 06:21PM     link to this

Sorry that happened to you E_B, but $ sometimes brings out the worse in some people. No matter what the amount. True friends will always trust you to do the right thing, so at least you got your answer if she is a “friend” or not.
And I agree with everyone here, just part ways with her and you’ll have peace of mind.
Cuz when you do visit, I’m pretty sure you’ll recoup any loses and gain find a real friend out there in the world.

Glad to have you back,
Z
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Aug 25 2020 07:16PM     link to this

At least you can make the 200 back in half an hour?
NutandBolt
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Aug 25 2020 07:40PM     link to this

Kind of like when you (maybe not YOU, but still) exploit someone to pre-pay or help with a bill or pay for a room...


Just sayin.
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 07:52PM     link to this

thanKs everyone yeah I’m just gonna PayPal her and move on. I just wanted to warn people maybe it can save someone else’s time. I wouldn’t want anyone to go through what I went through.
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Aug 25 2020 07:56PM     link to this

Sucks! Sorry it happened to you!
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Aug 25 2020 08:01PM     link to this

Extortion can be a felony
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Aug 25 2020 08:03PM     link to this

We miss you and hope you are doing well
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Aug 25 2020 08:10PM     link to this


Energizer_Bunny give her the double and send her to hell, don't waste your time and energy .
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Aug 25 2020 08:12PM     link to this

I think you made the right decision. Put her in the rearview mirror and move on. Kinda like the old saying, before you loan money to a friend, decide what you value more, the money or the friend.

sugarbabymea12 so this blog comes up in searches about her.
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Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 08:44PM     link to this

It’s okay, I learned a lesson. I never had anyone act like that before, so it really caught me off guard. But I appreciate everyone’s support and advice it helped. 🙏🏽
Sxyvictoria
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Aug 25 2020 08:51PM     link to this


Energizer_Bunnygood , better aline than in bad company (-:
SubSlutSlayer
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Aug 25 2020 09:14PM     link to this

If you give her the $200, and you get your full refund from airbnb, you'll be square, right?
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 25 2020 09:25PM     link to this

Technically I’ll lose 50% since it’s booked for December but I was gonna try to aim to get full refund back but most likely it won’t happen. But if I magically do get a full refund than nobody loses money. But it’s whatever Life goes on.
NickSgv
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Aug 25 2020 09:35PM     link to this

Maybe try and sub let it to some locals? In my limited experience (renting in Barra da Tijuca for the World Cup) Brazil has a really active Air b & b type economy. If you're committed maybe just sub let?



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SonOfAdams
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Aug 25 2020 09:51PM     link to this

Nice to hear from you again, sweetie. Sorry it's about this drag of a situation. The Air BnB told you only 50% refund even with no flights coming into Brazil? Seems like come your December reservation, they're the ones who might have to prevent you from coming even if you were wiling, because of COVID-19 restrictions.

So they're the ones who should refund you 100%.

Uh, not to switch the subject, but it's been a long time. Can you show us pictures of you nekked?
Sxyvictoria
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Aug 25 2020 11:48PM     link to this

If you go to Brazil...I been there many times, by car from Argentina, I suggest you a hotel always,
Booking.com and Expedia are always the best.
I am also waiting for my flight to Corrientes and because of the cases in Brazil now my ticket is open ,
I am not flying to Brazil but we are neighbors and the airport is closed until further notice ,pain in the ass Covid but hopefully I will be flying any time inSeptember or October
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Aug 25 2020 11:52PM     link to this

Sorry that happent to you
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Aug 26 2020 12:30AM     link to this

@ Energizer_Bunny.... That 's terrible!!! I guess you can chalk it up to a "lesson learned". ..Next time!!! If you can't get an equal cash contribution from all parties involved , "upfront". You might be better served by going with those that can pay the needed cash upfront. Otherwise, if you pay , or cover for someone else until they can "pay you back".. You might as well write that off as a loss. Unfortunately, some people , and not all. Are deadbeats when it come to paying back money.
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Aug 26 2020 02:33AM     link to this

you’re gorgeous..
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Aug 26 2020 02:38AM     link to this

Where did Energizer_Bunny come from? She hasn't been here since 2015.
Only a $200 issue? That seems rather minor compared to all the other
crap that HX members encounter while traveling on the YELLOW BRICK ROAD!
She was a very pleasant and nice young lady when she was here.
Sorry to hear about this issue.
You seem to have moved on. 👍


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Aug 26 2020 03:48AM     link to this

I hope your little old friend here that wants $200 from you does not get it.

You guys agreed to go on a trip together
You guys planned and booked and agreed you guys will go together and put money together

She took the risk, you took the risk.

Covid caused you to lose your $1000 and her her $200

And she needs to know AS A GROWN ASS ADULT you are not responsible for her funds. Period.

And she will be crying here on hx, this blog or another how sorry she is she "outted" you.

And then we will all excom her.


the end.


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Aug 26 2020 03:50AM     link to this

maybe no refund because it is out of the country but what kind of shit is that that air b n b is doing.

Did you book your trip before covid?

Why dont you just go. Your like in your 20's, if your running around here, go run around there.

I say GO!

and send her a post card.
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 26 2020 06:06AM     link to this

Sorry I fell asleep early and honestly it’s not about the 200 dollars but how she was going crazy and threatening me that’s what really bothered me. I didn’t think something so small would be such a huge issue.

And yeah I’m doing well, I’ve travelled a lot now and living a good life hehe and I’ll plan to host sometime in the coming months I’m just trying to stay clear with covid and all.

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Aug 26 2020 06:10AM     link to this

^ I'm curious about the stamina your handle implies...
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 26 2020 06:10AM     link to this

And thank you Gina shoot I only hope I can go still but right now all I can do is wait it out and I didn’t get a hotel cause the Airbnb is beautiful right in front of Copacabana.

And I don’t mind putting money in plus I was trying to be nice and help, but yeah no más!
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Aug 26 2020 06:12AM     link to this

@Julius hehe those who know me...knows!
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^ you leave a trail of exhausted men in your wake.
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^^ been quite a while but I remember....
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Aug 26 2020 08:45AM     link to this

Sucks to hear that happened. Good you've moved on somehow.

Definitely miss you EB
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Aug 26 2020 10:21AM     link to this

Thank you guys I officially paid her so she can disappear from my life ❤️👌🏽 Gracias everyone
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Aug 26 2020 11:02AM     link to this

invite her over for some antifreeze
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People here might disagree with me but, this is not the industry to have friends, just business associates. True friends, if any, are outside of this industry, remember that.
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Aug 26 2020 11:46AM     link to this

Gina, can't you do math either?

"out of the $1600 she paid $200"--EnergizerCutieBunny

That means ECB lost $1400, not $1000!

Ah, hey, i'm glad you've resolved this, ECB but I'm afraid you're missing the real point of this blog! We need to see new pics of you nekked!


Please?!

Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 26 2020 12:08PM     link to this

Well yeah it’s hard to make friends here but I definitely know some that are totally nice and I’ve known longer than that mea chick and who never threatened me in any kind of way.

Lol I’ll post pictures only when I host but soon I’ll be hosting and maybe I’ll open up that one app where people suscribe for a fee lol that’d be interesting
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Aug 26 2020 12:33PM     link to this

Don't wait that long. You gotta build anticipation, silly!

Nekked pics NAO!






Fee?! What the...?
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Aug 26 2020 01:19PM     link to this

Don't hang out in Copa after dark, head over to Ipanema. Also, don't wear any jewelry in Rio.
Energizer_Bunny
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Aug 26 2020 01:38PM     link to this

Lol

And yeah I wouldn’t even wear jewelry in Mexico so I understand plus my Brazilian girl friend was suppose to meet me in Rio. But now who knows we’ll see with the restrictions
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