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Thats exactly right
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You know I love that
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Sorry I would have commented on this blog earlier but I was not available
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Available that's another good one your availability like when
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I will definitely be available to you on your next visit to San Diego! Prebooking is always good by me.
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This Friday
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Or when the gentleman on here p.m. you and you send the menu and you never get a response back until like two months later LOL
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Lol exactly. I just think its a useless question but I do love when the menu is 2 months old
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Or they could text and ask. Just sayin
They again I could be wrong
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thats how it is on this site, its irritating
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also YES to what lucky said. verrry true
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I think we are afraid of you... You're kinda hot...
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From my experience, a lot of girls post ads 4-10 hours before they're available while others get booked up and don't take their ad down. I would ask, "...details and how soon are you available for either 30,60,90?"
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...and can I borrow your shower and a clean towel?"
I've had one tell me that she didn't have any clean towels. Went to Target on the way on got some new towels.
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Not complaining just giving another side.
Allison_Snow et al
I am from Santa Barbara. I play during the work day when I have a meeting that pulls me south. I do research ahead of time, because the ladies are not there at our beck and call because they have a life. I have no idea when I will have an upcoming meeting.
I ask for a ladies info ahead of time so that this will cut down on the back and forth when we might get together. On the left side of messages I create folders for each lady that I have info from. When she sends me her info, I do reply "Thank you" to her, but I am not booking since that was not the purpose of the question about info.
When I do have a meeting south and have time to play, I look to see who will be on my path of travel. I send out an inquiry hopefully a couple of days ahead of time (of course this is a possible problem since they may not still be there in a couple of days) asking if they will still be around. I will reference the previous PM to verify if anything has changed.
I am not trying to waste any ladies time. I am just trying to get info on who I might like to visit. More often than naught I am sitting at my desk in Santa Barbara. Meetings is a very small part of what I do.
I know this does not apply to all males, but it does let you see how some guys might not be wasting your time.
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Pming is to verify who you are. Texting will get you the rest of the way.
And please and thank you go a long way when communicating.
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^^^^ KissMeLucky... how so? explain ?
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^^^pm here and find out, say something like
Hey good looking what u got cooking
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@KissMElucky......"Hey good looking what u got cooking"??
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Im wondering what times you might be available this weekend?? Like I dont know what im doing 4 hrs from now
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^^^ True... I'd imagine a girl often can't project how the day will pan out. many no-shows, unplanned, planned, and huge gaps between appts...
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Some people juggle a lot and some people have extremely busy schedules.
It's good to plan ahead and ask if you're going to have availability.
That's why I did it, but it certainly made sense to me to plan ahead.
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.... And prebooks, feel like a fast food , get in /get the hell out because of a schedule kinda thing.
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Correct.. it's all a game of chance, and the dudes are all suckers for some good booty, cookies, and cream...
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To be honest, I don't understand how someone is supposed to get the ball rolling if you can't send a pm asking about services and availability. I never pm someone for info unless I'm interested, but whether or not I see the person depends on many variables.
Kissme, I used to reply with thank you, but I often received snarky responses like, "For what?" Or "So ya gonna book or are ya just wasting my time?"
Someone mentioned having 2 hours. Lol. I usually need a very specific time maybe an hour later, and I'm so busy at work, I can't spend time texting, etc., the day that I see them. If I don't get info in advance, often weeks in advance, I'd never be able to see that person.
This is one reason I like Asian agencies. They don't get offended. They screen you and you them way ahead of time. Then one or two texts, and your all set.
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*you're
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I would have thought that most ladies would welcome a guy's interest but I guess some do not. Maybe the same one's who complain about hx guys. I've been on the site over a decade and it's been great. Don't know about other sites because there are more than enough beauties to keep me happy here, so I never had a reason to use them.
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I miss my birds. 
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Or they are looking for a specific option on said menu and on said menu it said
"Absolutely no"
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@Goddess Euuphoria gets it. Guys do fish around not only just for rates but availability. I like how I text or pm a girl and ask if she is availible right now and then u get a response like 12 hours later????
It's actually a lot worse than that and one of the reasons I barely if ever use HX
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@vss4.... What site do u use now? Since u don't use hx as much.! I can see what you're saying. Looking at the hx landscape..over last the half year. WOW!! Man it's time for an alternative site...it's just of bunch of (fill in the blank)...
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Ok, so if I ever PM BeBunny all my message headers will start with "Are you available?" 
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