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Rarity909
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Ladies, a question about sending a PM
Sep 26 2020 07:06AM more by Rarity909
Tags: Inland Empire , Random (All tags)

Ladies. If we have sent you a PM and not received a response, how long is a reasonable amount of time to either send a follow-up or another PM? I realize you ladies have lives also, and I don't want to be a pest overloading your mailbox.
      
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ocguy66
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Sep 26 2020 07:09AM     link to this

Take a hint 🤣
Rarity909
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Sep 26 2020 07:13AM     link to this

I figured someone would come back with that. Lol
Rarity909
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Sep 26 2020 07:23AM     link to this

Thats what I do now. I usually wait a few days. Unfortunately, most of the time the girls have already moved on to their next location. 😔
Rarity909
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Sep 26 2020 08:03AM     link to this

Thank you to both ladies that have responded so far. This information is very helpful. Helps me not to be that asshole that sends 20 rude messages. 😉
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Sep 26 2020 09:41AM     link to this


You also need to check to see if she has PM rights. A lot of gals don’t. So sending a PM can never be responded to. Site allows you to purchase PM rights for another profile in I believe 1, 3, or 7 day increments for relatively small amount of FX. However, it does start immediately as soon as the purchase is made. So if you buy her mail for 1 day and she doesn’t logon for two, so sorry.



Rarity909
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Sep 26 2020 10:51AM     link to this

I did kind of think about that. So I've been sending flirt around the same time. If I get responses to flirts I at least know they are on and getting alerts.
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Sep 26 2020 12:25PM     link to this

A lady here we had been chitchating for about a year then I asked to see her that's when she stopped responding. After sending her a couple more PMs I took the hint and left her alone.
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Sep 26 2020 12:50PM     link to this

Making the title of first pm interesting and mysterious usually gets clicked on b4 others.

Usually wait 2 or 3 days. But they have moved on. Then there are those that never leave the valley or other places. I get your comfy where your at. Then all of a sudden a few are in the same area.
AlexisSweet69
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Sep 26 2020 12:55PM     link to this

Don't give up! Please try again!
Audrey101
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Sep 26 2020 01:06PM     link to this

Yes trying again is a good idea. Some don't check their messages daily when they are busy with their personal lives.
Rarity909
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Sep 26 2020 01:49PM     link to this

Thanks to everyone for their comments by the way. Its refreshing to get everyone's feedback. I realize that we all have personal stuff going on in our private life, and don't check our mail as often as we would like. The question was posed to help me figure out a little better about when a message got missed/unchecked/buried or when I'm getting blown off completely.
Mozis
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Sep 26 2020 04:15PM     link to this

there are way too many women on here, possibly even more than you could see in a lifetime. I say make a note in the notes section "no response" and move the fuck on
FATFUKK
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Sep 26 2020 04:36PM     link to this

^^^ Not a bad response at all dude ... It makes a lot of sense.
sexystephie
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Sep 26 2020 10:46PM     link to this

Well I haven't had mail for awhile and I did buy bitcoins but I don't know what I did . I guess I sold them so I still didn't have mail. So a nice friend on here gave me a few days and I just answered all the mail I couldn't answer. It's on here so I don't think it matters if it's awhile later. I wouldn't call someone a day after they called me, not usually unless I know it's ok.
But even if I have access to mail I don't always log onto the site so I won't even know I have received mail. So it's good to send mail and then a text that says I sent mail to you on hx. At least that's what I would like you to do.

XOXO
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