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One answer is keyboard courage.
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I totally get that and women have the same things going on with themselves but it’s no need to be rude to people especially if I’ve never been rude or done anything to you.
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Well hopefully you are never rude to me because honestly I’m never rude to anybody regardless of the situation and when I signed up for this it wasn’t a shit hole and then actually cared about women on here and treated them with the upmost respect.
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Me either.... never rude! MANY of the ladies here are really nice people... I don't get it either.
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Hey bb
How much?
You avail?
Give me your address.
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^^ BB??
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I’m surprised no one has given the “I need to get laid” excuse for poor behavior. All that pent up sexual frustration.
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"Why are some of you men on here so rude to us women?"
Given that you posted this after our recent PM exchange, should I perhaps share that with the rest of the HX community so they can determine who was being rude again?
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"A lot of guys here, if not the majority, don't really like women."
Or maybe they have their preferences and aren't interest in every woman who contacts them out of the blue wanting something or other. IMHO HX would be far more useful if we could just block accounts in the "People" section if a cursory view of their profile makes it clear we're not interested. This wouldn't reflect in any type of negative Safety or Karma rating, but it would be a convenient way of making sure that the same 25 or 50 profiles of people who I would NEVER have any interest in contacting, simply don't appear when I do a search. It would be doubly effective if that resulted in a two-way blocking so those same people don't ever see my profile either. Just my $0.02 worth.
Tony
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"Yes please, post the pm or text exchange and we will give our collective fair reading of said exchange and who off anyone is to blame for any malfeasance or disrespect. Thank you in advance for providing the materials in question."
Per your request, here it is:
Hello (4 items)
Last received from Allison_Snow at Oct 2 2020 08:37PM
Allison_Snow Level 2 Oct 2 2020 05:27PM Sent to You Level 0
Hi how are you?
You Level 0 Oct 2 2020 06:58PM Replied to Allison_Snow Level 2
OK, not sure why you are contacting me.
Allison_Snow Level 2 Oct 2 2020 08:37PM Replied to You Level 0
I didn’t know it was a crime to ask you how you were doing but I’ll put a note next to your name to never hit you up again
You Level 0 Oct 3 2020 07:49AM Replied to Allison_Snow Level 2
I just asked a question but OK, thanks.
Hope that helps...
Tony
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Fair enough.
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I don't think you intended to be rude. I completely get your response because I too have a no bullshit approach (what do you want? why am I being bothered right now?). Could you have been nicer? Sure. But people tell me I should be nicer all of the time and I tell them it's not my job to coddle their balls, so.....
I agree with you that Allison was a bit oversensitive (by bit I mean way oversensitive). I also would never contact a man without invitation. I may flirt, but direct contact? Nah. You know why I'm here. You know what I've got. There's no need to fish in folks inboxes.
Here's my closing:
Allison, if you think that women in this line of activities have ever been on the receiving end of the utmost respect, you are sadly mistaken. You have to draw your boundaries and gauge your sensitivity accordingly. If you want respect, demand it. If you don't get it, move on. It's not something that's just given and it sure as shit isn't given out liberally here.
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I wouldn’t call this rude but idk what’s to be annoyed about.
99% of the PMs I receive from initial contact are dudes asking about my experience about a person. Not gonna lie, it gets annoying with so many sometimes, but I’m not gonna tell anyone that I’m annoyed.
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Oh the irony!
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Bob.... this is off topic (unfortunately some clubs nickle -n-dime this concept). BUT did u get that
big cup yet? or did you get a case of cups?....... LOL!!!
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"Men have always been mysognistic here since I joined and I'm quite certain they were the same way long before that time as well. It fucks with men's emotions that they are forced to purchase companionship when some of them are actually accomplished in their real lives professionally and feel they "deserve" a woman's companionship add they can "provide" a financial component to an inferior weekends earnings capabilities and therefore should garner more respect because of that. "
I fail to see what this has to do with this particular incident, seems like a lot of projection going on here.
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Not sure exactly what you're even talking about, or why my reply even raised a big fuss here in the first place.
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Perhaps your being nice. They really are not men.
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Seems like a lot of amateur psychoanalysis going on here.
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"I took psych 1a at UNC chapel Hill and it interested me so I enjoy opining on the subject."
I could never understand why one would waste time on that type of stuff. I was already up to my ass in core subject matter as an undergrad chemical engineering major, I certainly didn't have time to waste on touchie-feelie stuff like that. Seems people can come up with all sorts of wonderful theories about how things work when they don't actually have to prove their assumptions with any type of testing or research.
Tony
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it's called required coursework in a well rounded education. General Education requirements.
1 year of lab science.
1 year of behaviorial science.
2 years of math, 2 years of English, etc.
every school has them.
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IIRC Macroeconomics counted as a "behavioral science" at Cal, and economics is actually something useful.
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Not meaning to block you personally, you can post your opinion all day for all I care. It would be nice however to have some type of scorecard for drama queens so HX can institute a
"No Drama" setting allowing individuals to block people who seem to be offended by everything.
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Some people from HX create an account in USAsexguide to write very bad comments a it girls
They are very bad men’s , they hate women’s , they have a big problem .
I invite every lady to go to the website and read what they write .
Some guys pretend to be nice here in HX but they go and became very evil in the otter site .
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They hate everything including themselves,
I wonder why some guys from HX need to go there and complain about the ladies from here ?
Why they can’t be just honest and write in a blog or complain here ? Instead of going and write shut in that site ?
Some of them are here ...
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UncleSpongeBob Yes , like they will fix the issues posting in that ghetto site .
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"Some people from HX create an account in USAsexguide"
That site still exists? It was considered low-end even back in the day...
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http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?10075-Humaniplex/page2
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"It still exists, although in don't know when it was created lol."
It's history can be traced back to WSG and ASP (alt.sex.prostitution), a Usenet newsgroup from the 1990's...
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I am very disappointed with some HX members who go and talk shout about HX and otter members in that site , even if the contents are not specifically about me but they are about other members , ladies and guys .
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?10075-Humaniplex/page3
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Most people From California are dicks. I think it's the traffic, the constant weather and high stress of the way we live here.
Im a nice dude, I see all the girls on here as girlfriend's that give me the affection I lack in life due to choosing to have a career over love.
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http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?10075-Humaniplex/page5
By Bjojo
Fatfukk is that you ?
Why worry about the ladies life ? There can do whatever they feel like ,
Nobody quip change anything posting in that stupid site and I think what happen in HX have to stay in HX
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