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Apr 22 2020 08:09PM more by Sxyvictoria
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Some guys are really bad, bad as humans.
We know this situation is affecting all of us.
We know we are HX girls, We know we like to play but
We also know we can do many things and not only to be a HX girl .

To those who sent me bad messages because I just want to give my opinion as a human and a mother and not only as a HX girl , to those who told me "To get a "real job" where I will really work "
I have been marry for 10 years , I have been an American citizen for years now and I worked and payed taxes in this country for years , I have been working in Miami in a "real " job in a big restaurant for years, in a warehouse for another year ,in a retail store for more years and with my ex husband for more years. I have been working and living with a montly check for a long time and I know what is a "REAL JOB" .

After many years of being a "good person " a good employee I got divorce , after an abusive relationship and after a long time of recovering period I found Hx because a friend of mine,
I was in Los Angeles right after my divorce , working I a horse farm ( I ride horses) .
I didn't know how HX was but then I realized that was fun and I needed to get some extra fun.
Since I was already divorced I told myself, well I am single now so why not meet new people?

And the most important reason I became a HX member was because I F....want it and because I F...loved it so don't tell me What the F do .......

That is little part of my story , I know nobody care.... but I want to tell something and he know who is and why he insulted me, I wat to tell you....that I really had a lot of fun here in HX and was really happy getting to meet new souls and human beens and I don't going to get a " REAL JOB" because I already have one and is to make people SMILE.... and if for some reason I can't be part of HX no more I want to tell everybody that know me " Thank you , because all of you have been part of my life, I learned a lot from all.

But the most important thing learned is "to Understand a human been and to respect everyone .
And last thing , to the one who wanted to offend me... I have a question ..... "Why you are here in HX?
Why ask me why I don't get a real job?
I ask you what are you doing in HX? why you don't go go and get a "Real woman and leave me alone"

      
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Apr 22 2020 08:19PM     link to this

what can i do for you?
Sxyvictoria
Pomona, Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 22 2020 08:46PM     link to this


Hello , just let KARMA take care of it , many kisses!
instigator05
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Apr 22 2020 09:31PM     link to this

Keep doing what you think is best for you. Don't let others bring you down or tell you otherwise.
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 22 2020 10:03PM     link to this


instigator05 Thank you for your words !Karma love, Karma..
Reaper_1
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Apr 22 2020 10:38PM     link to this

Sorry to hear that gorgeous. Some men are just stupid and ignorant. Don't take it personally. They're the one's with the problem. Not you hun. Very low and inconsiderate. Be proud of yourself in your life's endeavors. Again... don't take it personally gorgeous. I'm still looking forward to meeting you.🤗🤗
R2d26
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Apr 22 2020 10:42PM     link to this

Thanks for sharing. You are a real sweetheart. So honest and giving. Sincere and fun.
You have every right to choose your own way in the world. Don’t let some jerk make you feel bad.
That’s right on what you said to him. Block his messages and calls. Maybe he thinks he owns you.
Well he’s a got some serious issues for sure.

Big hugs for you . You are a wonderful lady.
Reaper_1
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Apr 22 2020 10:50PM     link to this

Smells like arrogance on his part.
NPembrush
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Apr 22 2020 11:25PM     link to this

There's always someone out there who's going to be an ass. Eh, I had parents who looked at my career and how little it paid (Science fields don't always pay huge sums...) and said "We love you but wish you would get a real job"

So from one person to another person without a "real job" more power to you.

Also from your blogs, I think you're a fascinating and beautiful lady.
Reaper_1
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Apr 22 2020 11:45PM     link to this

Sxyvictoria my dear... Keep a stiff upper lip.đź‘Š
1776hardon
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Apr 23 2020 12:40AM     link to this

Just “wow”. Don’t let the ignorant posts from those who have no idea dissuade you. There are plenty of men, like me, that look forward to experiencing your pleasures
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 01:32AM     link to this


R2d26, I know, you know how I am.... you always make me laugh , you always sweet and true gentleman, many kisses!
You know my Spanish-Italian personality is kind of difficult to argue with me lol !
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 01:34AM     link to this


Reaper_1 sure you will (-:
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 01:38AM     link to this


1776hardon so sweet (-:
juliuscaesar1
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Apr 23 2020 04:20AM     link to this

I prefer to think of myself as a Classy Pig, rather than a Fucking Pig.

But there's a good chance I'm delusional.
TyTran
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Apr 23 2020 04:55AM     link to this

Christina baby your the hottest girl on HX hands down.we won’t let a hater get in the way .
lachineseguy
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Apr 23 2020 08:37AM     link to this

Darling, you should either

totally ignore him. why bother wasting even one second of your life for no reason?

or just put him on total blast. name names

SugarPuss4u
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Apr 23 2020 09:06AM     link to this

^ solid advice

Sorry to hear about the DB who has no class and shows it by insulting you. You’re gorgeous!! He’s probably just mad because he doesn’t know how to use the parts God have him to please a woman and he’s embarrassed.
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Apr 23 2020 09:20AM     link to this

Don't let people who are jealous of your beauty and freedom try to bring you down.

Keep doing what you want to do...

Prayers and love.... you got this!!!
felix78
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Apr 23 2020 09:24AM     link to this

You girls are the best keep do what you like and what
Allison_Snow
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Apr 23 2020 09:39AM     link to this

Who cares what they say you know your a good person and that's all that matters.
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Apr 23 2020 09:47AM     link to this

@Sxyvictoria Just know this, haters gonna hate. But, lovers gonna love. Many, many peeps here appreciate you and feel the same way as you. Place your focus on these folks and ignore the ones that judge.
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Apr 23 2020 10:31AM     link to this

@Sxyvictoria....

You area total sweetheart and sexy as heck......

We are all adults here and can make our own decisions. We don't need anyone disrespecting.

Don't let haters get you down.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Apr 23 2020 10:33AM     link to this

Miss Vicky I know I offended you.

Everyone that has ever seen me turns their head away.

I still love ya
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Apr 23 2020 11:12AM     link to this

That was nice to read.
I've known many ladies over the years here and the ones who have an attitude like yours are the ones who are the most fun to hang with.

Kudos to you!
One, in particular, had a high paying job in Big Pharma, but wanted to play more and figured she may as well get paid.
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Apr 23 2020 11:56AM     link to this

Take care and keep taking time with horses. Thet make all who love them happy.
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Apr 23 2020 12:20PM     link to this

I just did a search and there are 33,949 listed on the site. So if this is the only male that has said something like less that is less than .001% of the males on the site feel that way.

More than likely has was having one of his many bad days and decided to lash out at you because he could hind behind the internet and not worry about any backlash.

You showed how strong you are, keep it up.
Erika.James79
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Apr 23 2020 12:59PM     link to this

It’s refreshing to see a woman speak a little on real life. I don’t comment much in blogs but , I felt compelled. You’re awesome. Keep doing you girlfriend. Nothing is more valuable than a piece of mind, unequivocally.

Xoxox
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Apr 23 2020 01:22PM     link to this

Only a coward talks shit about a female !
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Apr 23 2020 01:40PM     link to this


These are difficult times for almost everyone. People have to put food on the table and a roof over the heads for themselves and for loved ones as well.

This is a time to be kinder, nicer, more understanding of one another not the opposite.

A little kindness and a little understanding at times like this goes a long way!



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Apr 23 2020 01:50PM     link to this

You do what's right for you.
Take this as a learning experience.... You just learned about all of the assholes that you don't want to deal with. Take notes and remember.
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Apr 23 2020 02:40PM     link to this

Im sorry you had to deal with a user here who feels hes entitled to certain things or talk down to you because of his "level". Alot of high level people here feel they can treat people a certain way because of level 5 lmao. Levels should be removed in all honesty. They know who they are and you girls know who they are too. They act like this is highschool and theyre part of some cool kids club. Anyway do whatever makes you happy and dont let these people get to you there are plenty more sites other than HX
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Apr 23 2020 03:40PM     link to this

Nothing like being anonymous to embolden people or free up feeling judgmental. You should not let the obnoxious few darken your day.
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Apr 23 2020 03:44PM     link to this


He’s only anonymous because she has failed to put his ass on blast.

Post the whiny little bitch’s name.

OCCityBoy2
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Apr 23 2020 04:02PM     link to this

I, for one, have been lucky to meet Miss Victoria a few times.

Miss Vicky is a very SPECIAL LADY.
SHE gives her BEST, and takes us lucky guy to fly with HER in the clouds...

SHE has a tender, generous, and loving HEART.
i should have been back more often to see her more often,
but i have problems of my own.

YET, SHE sends my flirts and PMs, asking me "how i am"?
SHE treats me like a friend... i am NOT worthy of HER.

so, anyone who has something to say,
KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. say it, and WE KNOW YOU ARE AN IDIOT. YOU criticize SV and criticize YOURSELF.
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Apr 23 2020 04:46PM     link to this

Sxyvictoria,

I am sorry you find it necessary to publicly defend yourself.

I have always been amazed and in some respects amused by the how some male idiots that participate on this site or other sites believe they are superior to the ladies who participate on this site or other sites. It always seemed like hypocrisy to me.

As others have already stated as long as you feel good about what you are doing and treat people honestly and fairly then ignore the idiots that just want to bring you down to their level.

Personally I always thought one of the strengths of this site and it's predecessor sites was the site seemed to attract ladies that started on this site at the age of 30 or 35 for the first time instead of ladies that had been working on sites since the age of 21.

Based upon what the people that have met you say it seems like you are one of the ladies that confirms that strength.



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Apr 23 2020 05:28PM     link to this

Sxyvictoria, sorry you're being disrespected by a few losers. Some guys need to learn about the Golden Rule. Some other guys are just no damn good. Best to ignore them.
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:01PM     link to this

TyTran Thank you (-:
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:06PM     link to this


KissMeLucky,Goddess.Euphoria,Peaches619, Erika.James79
Thank you girls, you are al sweet and beautiful!
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:35PM     link to this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rid5sE93axA
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Apr 23 2020 08:39PM     link to this

The guy is an ass. I hope you do not leave HX I would like to see you.
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:43PM     link to this

https://youtu.be/7JONA_6ZCrE
Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:46PM     link to this



Good night all, many kisses!
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Sxyvictoria
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Apr 23 2020 08:49PM     link to this


Thank you guys for all the kind words , I wish the best to all!
Have a great night everybody, tomorrow is another beautiful day to live!
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