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Locked. No further comments permitted.Black men with white women
Jun 23 2020 09:15PM more by heliman
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

With everything all about black (s) these days i have to ask.

Seems alot of black men are with white women these days . I know it been going on since the 70's
or 80's but seems more common these days .

Is there something about black women that you don't like? Do they scare you? Are they crazy?

Is it bragging rights to other black men that you are dating (being nice here) a white women.

Inquiring minds want to know.

      
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Jun 23 2020 09:21PM     link to this

😳
GoBallsDeep
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Jun 23 2020 09:25PM     link to this

Maybe they just like each other
You know, like people do

Maybe he got the right tool for her toolbox

Maybe they saw you coming and decided to get into your head

If they have those long sticks and a dog, maybe they're blind


It's kinda like saying you've noticed a lot of short men with big breasted women, what's up with that?
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Jun 23 2020 09:43PM     link to this

Yeah I've also noticed a LOT more green eyed women with bald men.
I'm sure we can all see what is happening there!
happyguy63
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Jun 23 2020 09:45PM     link to this

could heliman be ANY more stupid and racist?

Geez this IS the problem... right f'n here
wyatt
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Jun 23 2020 09:54PM     link to this

Some of the White Gals i know are Size Queens and like that 4 D Maglight that is supposed to be standard issue, that is a huge draw. Being Italian American i was issued a AAA mini maglight

Sometimes your the windshield

Sometimes your the bug.
Mr.Horndog
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Jun 23 2020 10:51PM     link to this

"In some cases white women are brainwashed by black men. When they end up as a single mom they will learn there lesson though." Hahaha
heliman
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Jun 23 2020 11:15PM     link to this

I knew someone would say this was a racist blog, it was just a simple question .
bwana
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Jun 23 2020 11:16PM     link to this

I predict a "Yellow Fever" thread coming soon.
jackrabbit33
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Jun 23 2020 11:21PM     link to this

I haven't seen much of it but you do see it ocasionally.

What I cant stand is the required mixed race couples in TV commercials. I almost puked my dinner when I saw a white guy paired up with a fat black gal.

Sorry but That was offensive.
DudeLebowski
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Jun 23 2020 11:23PM     link to this

"I almost puked my dinner when I saw a white guy paired up with a fat black gal. "

That right their is racist!
happyguy63
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Jun 23 2020 11:24PM     link to this

heliman: "I knew someone would say this was a racist blog..."

And yet you started it anyway. Can't make up that kind of racist stupidity.

And then he says-- it was just a question... a fucking racist question.
happyguy63
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Jun 23 2020 11:25PM     link to this

Yep jackrabbit same level of ignorant racism.

People like jackrabbit and heliman are what make me puke
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Jun 23 2020 11:33PM     link to this

Jackass you better jump over and use one of your other profiles because you are totally fucking this one up.

That shit you posted above was obviously very racist!
OVAHERE
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Jun 24 2020 12:07AM     link to this

I'm not supposed to respond to this right?

This is another keyboard hero who wouldn't ask that question at bar or work or something like that.

I know we can all disagree on what's going on in the Country today.

But ain't Pussy universal?

Black Pussy...White Pussy...Latina Pussy...This Pussy, That Pussy, Good Pussy, Mo Pussy.

Have one the ladies he has seen out his ass.

We can start a Go Fund Me page for any information that leads us to his whereabouts.

I'm out Guys.


DudeLebowski
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Jun 24 2020 12:12AM     link to this

^Yeah dude thats right Jackass use that profile^
That one or your Angler1 profile cause you royally fucked up that jackrabbit33 one with that racist comment.
OVAHERE
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Jun 24 2020 01:26AM     link to this

What if you could GPs these bitches?
They would have no voice.
They couldn't use social media ever if we could GPS that ass.
TNBE
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Jun 24 2020 01:59AM     link to this

Bwana, Funny you should mention that.. I Love Asian Women...lol

Btw They have pussies so tight that they squeak when they walk..and I got wd40 in my back pocket.
Tatiana36dd
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Jun 24 2020 04:55AM     link to this

I see a lots of married interracial here in the south. I think white women like being sub most of the time. For myself because I like nice little sub men they just happen to be extr vanilla lol. Only white boys like they bum played with and kissed lol.
Tatiana36dd
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Jun 24 2020 05:01AM     link to this

I can also attest to the latin chicks with White D. Vanilla boys know how to playvthe game...even if they don't like something a crazy latin gal like myself does, they go along with it..very accommodating and act like my little bi*ch boy. I think latin men and other cultures try to act in control and that doesn't work for me.
GoBallsDeep
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Jun 24 2020 06:28AM     link to this

OP
It's one thing to notice but a different thing to actively put voice to the question in the way you did.
It's not like you're using negroes as tree ornaments but yeah, that was racist.

The question of racist vs. preference comes up all the time on the site.
Personally, I like slim women and have no interest in a plus size encounter.
I guess that makes me a "Fatist", for lack of a better word.
That's my preference though.

I'm open to the reality that SOME women prefer light skin or dark skin in the same way I prefer slim women without pre-judging that they are necessarily a racist.

If somebody tells me they don't take note of the physical features of someone they meet, I'd call them a liar. We all do that, just as we all note their mental, emotional, intellectual features. Its what we do with that information and how we treat that person that makes the difference.

Imho
Tatiana36dd
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Jun 24 2020 06:43AM     link to this

Oh goodness GBD would definitely not be a fan but he is right it is about physical appearance for most, yet forcme it is more about attention to my desire for sub men and my being in control. Most of those men for me just happen to be white.
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Jun 24 2020 06:45AM     link to this

Also, as I have mentioned, I have a successful surgeon friend who loves seeing his women with BBC. It is a visual for him to make up for his short comings.
GoBallsDeep
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Jun 24 2020 06:56AM     link to this

Lol, frankly the sub thing puts me off more than the weight thing.
I prefer driving over being a passenger tied up in the trunk
No offense intended

GoBallsDeep
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Jun 24 2020 07:00AM     link to this

Trying to get the image out of my head of a woman coming at me with a BBC strap-on

I wouldn't care what color it is, that shit is no bueno!

KaiserSoce
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Jun 24 2020 07:01AM     link to this

I don’t know Heliman.... it seems like he had a question in his mind. And when you have a question... you ask. Is it a “racist” question? Yes. Is it mean spirited, intentional racism? I don’t think so.

This kind of “racism” is usually born out of lack of exposure. An honest ignorance. It’s something “new” to HIM (at least in quantity), so he thought he would ask.

I think this is part of the problem in America today, we judge a man/woman by a split second moment in time and attack... rather than try to answer the question with an explanation of the problem with the question.

Heliman, the reason the question is racist is because it gives the impression (not saying that was your intention) that what you are seeing is strange or unnatural. There has to be something unique going on... because two people who are “different” from each other are together.
The racist it part is that it starts there... as if it is strange or unnatural. What makes it racist is that you don’t think that when you see a white couple or black couple. They are the same in your mind, so... that’s normal.”

‘Mixed” couples are together for all of the same reasons same ethnicity couples are together. Some are good (love, attraction, connection, ...) some are bad (money, pressure, rebellion, revenge, status, etc...)

The “racist” part is to see it and wonder “what’s up with that.” When you wouldn’t ask it about a white or black couple. Again, racism comes in many forms and mindsets... it’s not all evil and mean... again... it’s often simply being exposed to something new.

Hopefully we (Americans) can have more conversations like this.

To answer the question.... every couple is unique and are together for different reasons. So... that question has to be asked of each of those individuals. There is no answer that covers “the group.”

Now... there are some positive/negative stereotypical answers as mentioned above...the only way to know if they actually apply is to talk with that couple.


KaiserSoce
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Jun 24 2020 07:06AM     link to this

Like GBD mentioned... he prefers his black men with little weenies
KaiserSoce
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Jun 24 2020 07:14AM     link to this

Brother... get used to it.

There is what is called “the browning of America.” America becomes less “white” everyday. The population of blacks and Latinos continues to grow... not to mention the growing “mixing.”

Me and my family are doing our part

So what may feel/seem unique now will be the norm in years to come.
Mr.Horndog
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Jun 24 2020 07:56AM     link to this

"he prefers his black men with little weenies" hahaha

This comment must be about luv.bj
KaiserSoce
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Jun 24 2020 08:58AM     link to this

Are you an ugly, goofey white dude (Napoleon Dynamite’s brother Kip) or a good looking smooth white boy (Maybe.. Robin Thicke type)

I just want to know who is representing us to women of color.
dtedc
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Jun 24 2020 09:02AM     link to this

I guess my first thought is.... why do you care? My next thought is, most black me are with black women. My next thought is, I don't see you asking the same question of black women who date/marry white guys. Oh, and why don't you ask the white women who are with these black men why they are with a black men.
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Jun 24 2020 09:18AM     link to this

Kaiser did such a good job running through all the stigma of the question that I just have to add that while yes, there are always complexities and individual things that go into how and why relationships work... there is also race based curiosity based on decades of innuendo about black men's dicks. Straight out. So white, brown and every colored woman and man that falls into believing stereotypes may act on their curiosity.
Racism doesn't have to be a racial slur or a derogatory thing....in this case it is a complement of sorts that turns a racist stereotype into a "positive" for black men and a "curious experiment" for those interested in finding out for themselves if the rumors are true.

Yes it's racist. Yes it is, any way you look at it, but it is also a stereotype worth addressing in a manner devoid of humor (which is difficult in this case) because it is a serious thing, despite it's lighthearted aura. Despite the instant middle school giggles coming out.

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Jun 24 2020 10:55AM     link to this

People have preferences with relationships. Period

You cant stand around and judge people as either being or not being racist because they DO or DO NOT have an affinity towards certain pairings.

Stop it

I'm so delighted to know I make someone puke.
OVAHERE
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Jun 24 2020 11:14AM     link to this

Remember that "Cheerios commercial during the Super Bowl?

coolhotavi50
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Jun 24 2020 11:23AM     link to this

This blog is more anti feminist than racist
Why you think it’s only black men’s choice to be with whites women
It could be white women tired of their white small dick, cousin fucking Redneck ass who chase Asian chick and women want real anaconda lol
Sxyvictoria
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Jun 24 2020 01:14PM     link to this


I don't think is ignorance to talk about preferences or with who somebody get along with..
If you don't offend nobody is all good

Tatiana36dd I was married to a white guy from the south for more than 8 years , before him my first husband was Argentinian with German decent,
Maybe I get alone with a particular kind of mens,. I don't get alone with latinos because they want to be the boss always and I won't let them , they are very "Machistas like we say " my personality is to strong to be with another hot -blooded person like me ,

No everybody are the same of course but well this is just me ...
Vicky



Smarty
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Jun 24 2020 01:20PM     link to this

I especially like Latinas!!
BOOM!
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Jun 24 2020 01:24PM     link to this

@jackrabbit33 said " I almost puked my dinner when I saw a white guy paired up with a fat black gal. "

Dude the statement here that you posted above in this blog isn't a matter of preference.

Its just blatantly racist.

From what I gather this is part of the mission of Black Live Matter movement to bring attention to this mindset.

This type of ignorance.

You have shown the whole HX community who you are and how you think.

You and all your other the profiles, handles and HX personalities that you post from on the site.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jun 24 2020 01:33PM     link to this

I am and always will be racist.
I cannot stand blonde haired blue eyed white women.
I am also racist cause I like thin women.
I also still believe as a motorcycle rider BLM stands for bureau of land management.
BLM Has been around for over 50 years a federal agency
I'm glad black guys are taking the blonde haired gals out of circulation.
Black guys out there just leave the Asian women alone you can have all the rest.

I could be wrong because I bought into Neil Ferguson.
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Jun 24 2020 01:38PM     link to this


My best friends in Florida are a interracial couple , they are very happy ,
When you like someone it doesn't matter what the ethnicity is
I like and respect everybody , I just like to have fun and have a good time !
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jun 24 2020 01:40PM     link to this

I also love Argentine women. That was for you Vicky some serious ass-kissing
cardinalnic12
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Jun 24 2020 01:46PM     link to this

Hey Goddess I sent you a PM, trying to find out about meeting up.
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Jun 24 2020 01:46PM     link to this

wait a minute, that's legal?
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