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Jul 8 2020 02:14PM more by SuperDorkMan
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After being married to a total prude for years, my last girlfriend was a stripper. I LOVED watching her with other guys.

Am I the only guy with this kink? Its hard to find women into it.
      
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sherkahn
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Jul 8 2020 03:59PM     link to this

It takes a certain mindset.
Allison_Snow
Temecula, Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 8 2020 04:21PM     link to this

I feel there’s a bunch of men out there like you but they might be afraid to say something to the woman in fear of scaring them off just my opinion
ocguy66
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Jul 8 2020 05:14PM     link to this

My experience has been more on the surprised side...... I usually catch them when I come home early from work. I would say that I’m not into watching another guy with my lady 🤣
OCCityBoy2
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Jul 8 2020 05:29PM     link to this

i hear some LADIES invite another LADY into the playpen.
dual sensory overload.
OCCityBoy2
OC, CA
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Jul 8 2020 05:44PM     link to this

G E is HOT.
watching her is HOT.
Zeros
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Jul 8 2020 05:53PM     link to this

Personally I'm not into cucking myself, but you do you!


lamar
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Jul 8 2020 06:46PM     link to this

I was with a lady while her female friend sit on the other bed watching TV.
ofeelie
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Jul 8 2020 06:47PM     link to this

You are not alone. I shared my wife, I share my girlfriend. I like watching her get off.
NacNacBoy199
Huntington Park, LA, CA
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Jul 8 2020 08:01PM     link to this

i've been to many gang bangs and swinger parties where husbands or boyfriends enjoy watching their lady get plowed by other guys.
trust me, you aren't the only one.
TNBE
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Jul 8 2020 11:28PM     link to this

My friend likes to watch me do his wife, even sends her to my house with a camera and tripod so

she can record us for their viewing pleasure later..


P.S. It's not just me but others as well...He's had her made "Airtight' before.
Sxyvictoria
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Jul 8 2020 11:39PM     link to this

When I lived in Miami I use to go to swingers clubs almost every weekend specially one in Fort Lauderdale where we stay until 4 or 5 pm , have breakfast then go home .
I love to watch and I miss all the clubs in Florida ,
I think I am still a swinger and don’t mind sharing my parter but have to be in front of me ☝️
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Jul 8 2020 11:49PM     link to this

Supercuckman

You are not a man if you let other men sleep with your significant other.
Mozis
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Jul 9 2020 04:50AM     link to this

That is so fucking hot to me
vss4
Vegas, NV
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Jul 9 2020 07:18AM     link to this

^^^
RainMaker1964
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Jul 9 2020 08:04AM     link to this


I find it absolutely fascinating and understand people get to this desire for various reasons. Personally, i found my wife stunningly beautiful as did most people that met her. However, she was a very non sexual woman where I always initiated 25+ years to be rejected 9.5 out of 10 times. To keep my interest alive in this woman that rejected me for so long, it became more of a fantasy that she can be a more sexual woman. When finally sharing this fantasy with her, she was appalled and sent me to counseling (i went).

Found out that many people have these fantasies but we get their for different reasons. For some of us, it's a goddess worship; true love and the desire to see their partner pleased. For others, it's power and control as the man will often try to arrange the encounter. For some others, seeing your wife desired by others aids stimulation. As for us, my wife just thinks i'm a pervert but is more understanding...

Anyone want to nail a 50 year japanese milf, size 6, with full "C" cups. lol.


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Jul 9 2020 08:21AM     link to this

i like to share and be shared in the same room.
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Jul 9 2020 08:32AM     link to this

Huh, didn't know what the word meant until now. I'd say if I was married watching someone nail my wife isn't for me; technically it's like watching porn but you know both people which makes it weird. Although it's weird for me; I'm ok if you like it.

I do find it endlessly amusing to listen to people quick to insult others hiding behind a keyboard; the irony of pseudo bravely insulting another in a manner safe from in person reprisal (something I need to remind myself as well). Kinda like thinking your on this moral high ground on this site of all places. :-)

jazz51
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Jul 9 2020 10:22AM     link to this

Rainmaker....is your wife in for a banging...LOL
gaspingbill
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Jul 9 2020 11:37AM     link to this

Rainmaker, we're here to "lend a helping hand" where needed...
sherkahn
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Jul 9 2020 11:56AM     link to this

It all depends on the relationship.

I’ve had three “partners in crime” I’ve experienced this with.

One I exciting and fun to watch, list inducing. A true joy to share.
One was mindless, find new ways to fuck and have fun.
The last got me envious in places I did not know existed in me. I could not see her with anyone else but me, and I have to admit I became a troll after the experience. That was a great regret in my life.
davelowe2004
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Jul 9 2020 01:50PM     link to this

My wife will never go for it but I had a couple married FWB and we did it several times. Both with solo guys and swinging with couples. It was awesome!

And actually had an HX ATF that went on several swing party dates with me. Would love to find another one like her! That worked out really well. Ever since CL went away it has been really difficult to find a new FWB.
RainMaker1964
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Jul 9 2020 03:34PM     link to this

Jazz, Bill,

Sure, she can reject you like she's done to me for the past couple of decades. In all seriousness, she's not interested. I had a swinger friend of mine (female) even try to coax her out. Of course, once my wife found out that this girl was fun, she tried to make me sever that relationship. That is not happening.
juliuscaesar1
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Jul 9 2020 04:36PM     link to this

I'm so glad I've never been married.
vss4
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Jul 9 2020 07:02PM     link to this

@Sherkhan is a cuck!!!! CONFIRMED!!!!!
NERDWBBC
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Jul 10 2020 06:49AM     link to this

I'm secure in my own person and at one time secure with a gorgeous female who would get turned on during pillow talk at the mention of being doubled up with a mutual friend of ours. On one particular visit to his boat, I initiated the action and it was one of the most epic experiences we shared. It was an act of unselfishness to allow her the freedom to experience a fantasy without guilt and with two skilled gentlemen. Her climaxes where explosive as we took our time arousing her in every way imaginable. She was overwhelmed with joy and lust with the abundance of hands and hard girth available for her to indulge for hours. No regrets whatsoever for the gift of pure pleasure to a woman i loved. We trusted each other enough to allow the experience something quite amazing.
calIvan
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Jul 10 2020 11:01AM     link to this

I married a woman that would keep me from spending money, help raise rugrats right and ground me when my artistic side wanted to develop things that my head came up with in the clouds. I knew that coupling up with someone like me would leave me penniless and without a retirement plan.
It has worked so far but I have to be sexless or here for 8-9 months of the year. Every spring she gets frisky and wants to bang like we just met and the rest of the year it is once a month at best.

Before her I dated a girl who was willing to share me with friends, gave me shows before letting me indulge in her friends and showered me with sex at every turn. It was fun but I KNEW it was A. not sustainable and B. sure to lead to cheating because she was so sexual. One of the girls we shared and a professor of hers we invited home during her PHD program both started seeing her on the side and I hung in as much as I could but walked away once I knew I had to move on. She stayed with one of those women for years, until she cheated and went with another younger model. Still emails and asks if we could bang once in a while but I know better than to play with fire.

SuperDorkMan
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Jul 10 2020 01:37PM     link to this

You wouldn't think it would be so damn hard to find a hot wife that loves BBC.

I even have a nice home and make decent money. LOL
Sxyvictoria
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Jul 10 2020 09:05PM     link to this


uliuscaesar1 are you still single ?
Reaper_1
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Jul 10 2020 09:07PM     link to this

I've never been married myself as well.
Castle714
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Jul 10 2020 09:08PM     link to this

It's all about trust.

Both partners must be aware and want it.

Can't have one doing it without the others knowledge.

I've been with swingers/hotwives/ before and those couples are some of the happiest I've seen
Reaper_1
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Jul 10 2020 09:12PM     link to this

@Castle... Got that right. So very true. The hot wives & swingers are the best.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Holler when ya need an open minded boyfriend.
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Jul 11 2020 10:26AM     link to this

I drove a couple home that I just met, in an Irish Pub. The guy is 40+ but I didn't take a good look at his wife. It was pretty dark throughout and I was fixated on her legs in short shorts. The husband is very sober but I don't know about the wife. I understand they were inviting me for something that involves 3 people. I couldn't do it though she was hot, at least her legs. At the destination, she refused to get out of the car like a kid when her husband did. I wish I her husband told me to take her home. If I can PM her, get her nude pictures and full menu, I might be willing to perform.

As for watching, sure, better than watching porn. But I don't want to due with the woman after.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jul 11 2020 02:17PM     link to this

I believe that stated cunt on cunt.
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Jul 11 2020 03:06PM     link to this

Sxyvictoria, I think you were directing a question at me....

Yup, I'm still single.

I've been single for quite a while now. I spent my 20's and early 30's in long term relationships. My last girlfriend I lived with for 7 years. I was so relieved when it ended. And I was so glad I never had kids with her. Soon after we broke up she went straight to shacking up with some other guy, has 2 kids with him, then leaves him because he's abusive to the kids. When I heard she put a restraining order on him I remember thinking, " So many people willingly set themselves up for drama".

I've been single for a while now because i knew if there was a chance I would betray the commitment I have to a woman I have a relationship with, then I should not be in that relationship. I was so relieved when my last girlfriend and I broke up because even though I never cheated on her, had it gone on longer I would have. I did not want to have sex with her anymore, and I sure as hell did not want to marry her.

If I had a girlfriend now, there is no way I could share her with another man. And I would never expect her to share me with another woman.

For me, the only exception to that would be if my girlfriend wanted to have a 3 way with another woman.
GoBallsDeep
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Jul 11 2020 04:31PM     link to this

Isn't "Hot Wife" an oxymoron?
rkavman
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Jul 11 2020 04:54PM     link to this

After my first marriage I went looking for examples where couples spoke nicely about each other, there was mutual respect, love and kindness.... was surprised to find that at swinger parties. The most interesting dynamic at these parties is how much control the women had. If you hooked up with another couple and all you got was a BJ then that’s as far as it went with my girlfriend and the other guy And these things were usually worked out ahead of time by the women. Single women were commonly referred as unicorns because they rarely existed.

I always told my girlfriend who eventually became my wife that swinger parties were the icing on the cake. Our relationship was the cake and all good cakes need a good foundation. In order to have a good foundation you needed rules, Hers for me was no kissing with other partners, but the main thing both of us enjoyed was watching each other enjoy ourselves.

It was also understood (because we discussed it) that getting a better BJ from another woman or getting fucked by a guy with a bigger dick would never be a deal breaker and so my advice to other couples was if you are in a secure honest relationship swinging can enhance your feelings but it can also bring out your weaknesses. There were plenty of times when we did nothing but watch and being selective also meant having really hot experiences when we did participate.
juliuscaesar1
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Jul 11 2020 05:06PM     link to this

I would like to explore BDSM.

So if there are any HX ladies out there that would like to show me the "Ropes", please do.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jul 11 2020 05:45PM     link to this

Luo is always available
818_cum
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Jul 11 2020 07:30PM     link to this

Goddess.Euphoria My type of gal 😈
TheAlterEgo
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Jul 11 2020 08:04PM     link to this

^ simp
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