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Take whatever steps you need to minimize your risk. If they are unwilling to obey you requests, then move on.
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I’m not sure I understand. You don’t want people to contact you?
See people you want to see. Don’t see people you don’t want to see. If you don’t feel comfortable seeing people with little to no networks, then say as much in your advertising. Just write something to the effect of “must have X number of recent ratings” or “sorry but I’m not newbie friendly”.
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to add to what what already said......
This site seems to be primarily focused on So. Cal. It's weak in other areas.
Perhaps your two gentleman are from somewhere else that are rated on another site??
When I travel for work, I use other boards that are better in those regions - and thus have different level of reviews on several different sites.
Just saying that you might ask them if they can verify via another board/ source.
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I'm a perpetual 0; I see one lady here (Though I ask once in awhile other ladies).
Be safe, see who you want to see, guys who have an issue can go cry to Mr. Handy.
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I started on trothsayers back in the day made it to level 3, attended many foodies, halloween, xmas socials, etc.
Iirc when it was switched to hx, lost a level, back to level 2, something about formatting limitations, then some girls retired and deleted their accounts, have been a level 1 for years.
When someone does not want to see me because of my level, it used to bother me and it’s sad when they post a level 4 or 5 ripped them off or business is slow.
Thankfully I have some regulars and tend to see them over and over.
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I dont mind guys w a level 0. Just 0 ratings sets off alarms because im not from here.
Thanks for your posts and advice.
B
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I’m attempting to get you access to join some clubs that will help you out.
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The gent ur referencing didnt do any harm to me so whatever ur issue is w him leave me out of the drama. Thanks.
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Thank you Jones. Appreciate that. 
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Bless your heart.....
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In my sweet Texan voice 
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Gawd I love those accents.
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Advice to the world…. When anyone (male or female) is considering meeting a new friend, one should always check their networks to see if there are any red negative safety ratings. If there are, one should enquire with the individual who rated your potential new friend to see what they did wrong. Sometimes it’s something trivial like they don’t like their political beliefs while other times, it could be they were raped and beaten. They may be OK with you if you see them but that also may mean you just dodged a bullet, sometimes literally. And now that bad person is potentially using your new rating to victimize someone else.
The network is there for yours and everyone else’s safety. It only works when people use it.
I don’t know any of the folks above and I don’t know why anyone has red. So what I wrote is just an example.
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I would think a newby Zero without offering up a verifiable reference is high risk. When I was floated in here I had a couple girls I'd met before and the men that referred me here to back me up. In my opinion coming in without referral contacts willing to say you're cool is a red flag.
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Bethany,
Let me take the baton from Perfect-Circle for a minute because he is right. If somebody hits you up with a bunch of Red, and his is recent, you owe it to yourself to contact those people and get the scoop on the guy. Those are called red flags for a reason, don't ignore them. Just because you had a good time with him does not mean everybody will, some have found him unsafe and rated him that way to warn YOU.
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I just said exactly what CJ said, I should read better.
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I get what ur saying NSFast
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Lmao... ^^^^ This guy right here LOL. I feel bad for the guys that are on your bad side. I thought us women were ruthless...
And sweetie I already Blessed your little heart early this am LOL
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I want to thank ALL of the gents who replied to my 2blog.. Those who reached out via pm with additional info & invites to safety networks. I have meet some really nice gents since I have been here in LA/OC and I always appreciate gents outlook on hobby issues.
Thanks again,
Beth
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lol excuse the typo....
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I wish I was as clever from this account as I am from my Perfect Circle account
Don't think my network and level is getting me a date with Bethany anytime soon.
But, I might try from my one of my level 4 accounts
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At least you have 2 ratings from 2020 lol
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I do?
How did that happen, lol
Maybe somebody mistyped the handle they were rating
Some very good advice in this blog, though
Anyhoo
Bless my heart
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I didnt say that. Reread plz. Oh and that sounds like alot of drama lol. Hopefully ur having better luck now.
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There's a difference between level zero and zero ratings... some guys don't play like that.. js
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@Bethany...
you been a member since 2008 and seem to know what it means to check a network and for someone to have no network ads
your account is 13 year old......... why r u still a level 0?
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^^
Always jumping to conclusions.
Perhaps she made a personal decision for herself during those 13 years (2008-2021) to not be here.
Did you not do the same? A shorter period, but in line with why folks aren't active for periods of time.
Trouble maker you are....smh.
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@artnjazz
Btw using "^^" 2times means look two comments up.
I'm sure you were referring to me.
So you should have
Used 1 "^"
No-one probably remembers seeing this girl in 2008.
And this account could have been recycled to the new "bethany" posting today as a pretty informed/expert
In my opinion.
Which is no big deal.
In other terms many sites offer woman to pos their number as a directory and callers have to all be screened
Just as a level 0 with no reviews need to.
I screen no network sometimes but it's painful to ask for so much info, and actually get it...
My 2 cents that's all.
And happy hx-ing every1
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^ no
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Look chick IDK wtf is wrong with you but... I have never been recycled and I have my old pics & albums from when I first got on this site. I dont need to validate myself to you. From what I have read in other blogs regarding you.... I wouldnt be throwing stones at any other ladies on this site.
You do know that it's free to not say anything if you dont have anything positive to contribute simply STFU and move on.
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Oh and btw it is because I LIVE IN TEXAS that I am a level 0 and I haven't had any issues seeing gents here since I have been in town. I have meet quite a few really n ice gents & providers.... and there is you LOL. Smdh. Also if a guy had any issues wanting to verify me I am WELL established in Texas and have been on p411 for shit for 9yrs. Also before the "Blackout" In Texas which is when all the sites went dark... there were a lot more avenues to verify gents nationwide.
What I was references is guys who have 0 established accounts anywhere, 0 references and 0 network on HX. So.... I hope that answers your question ma'am.
Now moving forward if you have any positive input I am all ears. I'm not with all that trash talk & drama. So please think before you type and come at me in a disrespectful manor again.
Oh and just to add one more thing.. my account WAY BEFORE I even came back to Cali was reverified by site admin. So if you have any other "recycling" questions about Bethany feel free to pm them with them instead of making flamboyant accusations. In other wards speaking about shit you know nothing about !
Now... I hope you have a great & Prosperous day !
Beth
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Well said Bethany.
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P-C I was leaving that for you to do sweetheart Since you speak southern as well as I do
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Thank you Artnjazz
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Lmao perfect circle
What’s your opinion on white knights Perfect-Circle?
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Add ass kissers to that P-C.
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