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I would marry you if I was 40 years younger!
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If you set your sights low enough you'll never be disappointed. Words to live by .....
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I don't agree that lowering standard can bring you more happiness, it is the opposite in long run; and compromise may be necessary in relationship at some point under certain situation, but definitely not in the beginning of your "hunting" stage
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Marriage rates among millennials are plummeting. I think a lot of it has to do with people seeking perceived perfection in a spouse. Specially since social media, influencers perpetuate manufactured images of happiness, which is easy to internalize. I'm not saying less marriages is good or bad, just observing.
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SelinaHB can understand english well? cool!
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^^ it started with one word...... \o/
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Let me lose 30 pounds firstā¦.
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@Selina_HB indeed. My point is that if you don't set them too high will you never have to lower them. Compromise is necessary in a relationship at every point and definitely in the beginning of your "hunting" stage. You need to give people the benefit of the doubt for a while to get past the veneer and to get to their essence.
As the potential talent pool becomes global and expectations from "The Bachelor" etc. become the norm the danger of nobody meeting your expectations greatly outweigh the risk of a compromise. Nobody is perfect for you ( except @ADIPCA 30 years ago ) but many could be great if you give them the chance.
xXx
Nick
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Still looking for the ONE
2 foot tall midget with no teeth and a flat head
Where I can set my beer
While getting a blowie
DM me if she opens an account
Thanks in advance!
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Trump's a weenie
Biden's a retard
Your welcome, Mariposa
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Never marry a woman who's under the age of 30 because she doesn't know enough above love and life, never marry a woman between 30-40 because she's mire focused on having kids and finally never marry a woman over 40 because she has too much emotional baggage. š
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The first rule is , know what you want in a woman, besides that.
The second is , never settle.
Now if I only learned that when I was younger.
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@Nick, I think I should be ready to meet all the bachelors in OC thenš
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@TheGentlemen,
Selina_HB ācan understand English good enough to carry a conversation ending with "O" if you started with oneš
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She marries when sheās pregnant
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Too Late already married the wrong person for 3 years...
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"In every relationship, there's a Reacher and a Settler" They might've been talking about physical attraction, but I'd guess it extends into other aspects of a person
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Got a coworker who every other weeks says ānever settleā and post about her break up routines on social media.
Every other week, same cycle.
Almost makes me want to post āitās not them, itās you. Work stuff out within and then letās see if you can last to week 3.ā
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Munny
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Nowadays, people are too inept, too self absorbed to conduct a proper vetting - so the mistakes these idiots make in life mimic their mistakes with marriage. The jackass in the grocery line is the jackass on their phone while driving....
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Itās going to be much harder for women to find a husband. As more women move toward being high income earners, they tend to only marry men who are just as or more successful than they are. As a result, their pool of candidates gets smaller and smaller while the pool of high earning women grows.
I work with many high income, professional women and it is the same story. Almost all single. At an individual level it is fine to have this standard, but at macro level it is not going to work out. Fine to stay single too, but tough to have it both ways. Men, on the other hand, have been conditioned to have low expectations for women as far as their partnerās monetary contribution so they tend to be more open minded, but still commitment-phobic, lol.
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What do you consider high income CandyMan?
For example, This is what society looks like. Top 1% earn about 300k.
Percent change
Average annual wages (2019 dollars)
Upper 1% $291,329
99.0th - 99.9th $251,619
99.9th - 100th $648,725
So yeah, 99% of the men are disqualified from high income women. I do agree though, for compatibility (education, friendships, breakfast conversation) men and women should date within their lane if possible.
(Note: tried preview but could not get the table to format)
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Assuming your table represents income by individual, not household, I consider high income as top 5%. Top 1% is elite. I would say even women middle income earners aspire to marrying a man who earns more or potential to (supporting their man during his MBA, med school, etc.). I donāt have data to back up this claim, just an observation about how we have been socialized in gender roles. I would be interested in reading credible research on this though.
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To really understand relationships between men and women and our role in nature, you need to have a look at the very design.
a womans reproductive process is to drop one egg every month.
a mans reproductive process is to drop a couple million sperms cells daily.
the couple million sperm cell now racing each other to reach the egg first.
can you tell me from the above description which part provides the selective mechanism to improve the gene-pool?
There is only one egg... not like the sperm can decide to swim to a different egg.
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Selina_HB gets my endorsement. She's great -- pretty, smart, charming, and kind. What more do you want???
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is she a spinner ?
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Selina's English is outstanding, and sexy.
There is a lot of truth in the video. It's important to compromise, and to close one eye in a relationship, i.e., overlook many things.
Sex is a tough one because humans are not hardwired to be sexually monogamous but can good at social monogamy. At some point, sex becomes less important with a partner and that closed eye comes in handy when a partner has a tryst on hx or tinder or wherever. Have many lovers but one partner...who will undoubtedly be the wrong one in some ways and hopefully also the right one in many. It's how you make it and interpret it.
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*can be
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It's easy, find out what women find attractive in a man and be that guy. Ok ok, easier said than done. But ! ...
It is a learnable skill, but most guys think it's a bunch of crap and don't even try.
Hell if I had learned this when I was 18 instead of 50, I sure as hell would not be here.
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check this out
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I'm really glad you shared this video. I've been telling people the pretty much the same thing except I say it's a skill of learning how to.deal with someone's bs. And I just substitute love with being in a relationship. That's how I see all relationships tho is its just learning to deal with someone else's bs.
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Selena is quite the lady... Nothing but respect for her!
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I think we all have, that's why we on here now.
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Selina,
I present my self as a candidate!
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ā SelinaHB can understand english well? cool!ā
Selina has an old soul and is wise well beyond her years. If you read what she says on her homepage, she makes that pretty obvious. And if you ever spent any time with her, you would know what she says to be true. Sheās a very special lady, both inside and out
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Here is something to think about;
A women can sleep with anyone she wants, but a man can't. he sleeps with what ever he can't get, but a man chooses who he marries, and a woman marries who she can.
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Exciting! If you ever get lonely on the road sick of being stuck in your room with no friends around call me and Iāll cheer
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I knew some guy that raped a retard and married her so he would be charged with rape....now he only does her in the butt so he doesn't have another retard.
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