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No one IRL has asked me if I'm on HX.
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I would not be surprised to know a few people on here but we will never know...
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1-2 of my friends know I occasionally get out and play. As do they. But for the most part I keep it on the QT.
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Typically, hobbiests are solo artists, I think.
I have a couple guys who know. We've gone to TJ together and shared massage parlor stories. No one knows about my HX connection really.
This is a little fantasy world I live in, with dozens of gorgeous women waiting to get it on with me.
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I've got one or two confidants that know about this life. Both of them are headed for divorce.
Not because of this life. This life kept us all in our failed marriages. If there was no outlet for lust there would have been many many more divorces and many more shorter marriages.
I praise this life it for prolonging my kids' upbringing in a fairly stable two-parent home and curse it for allowing me to stay an extra 8 years in a relationship that was doomed from almost the start.
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^+100
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You speak the truth Hellow
For me, I stopped having affairs. Much more control this way
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Most of my closest friends are on HX and yes the ones on HX know.
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2 of my closest friends know but keep it private otherwise... that is why I hesitate to go to gang bangs.. don't want to run into someone I know..
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+1 on what Hellow posted excepted I've never considered my marriage as doomed.
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All my real friends n family know...
They don't know the site... that b creepy lol
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I tried to tell a long time friend about it but he looks down on paying for it.
He is the kind of friend that if you died suddenly he will erase your computer/device history and dispose of any other stuff you wouldnt want found by anyone.
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I make no secret of my participation. Openly wear a SWOP T-shirt in public. Advocate for de-criminalization to any that will listen.
At my age, this is the only source of intimacy with beautiful women.
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total secret. I like the no bullshit side of it. Get it done and bounce no drama! No actual connection to anyone afterwards is great!
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HX . What's that?
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I feel like James Bond whenever I'm on the site or seeing someone. But I am sure my bank doesn't feel the same way.
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Yea..no one knows..
What’s even weirder..OP..looks like we are both from San Diego & born in 78.
Unless of course your SD is South Dakota..then I’m totally jealous of your Governor..gorgeous & smart!
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SD = San Diego.
This life is completely secret for me, I have never told a sole. Stumbled upon this secret life and got hooked. No one introduced me to it, I kinda found it and slowly started figuring it out. Sometimes I want to share stories with friends but I can't. I don't know if they would understand it.
I go to work and hear guys bitching about their wives and their lives. I've thought about sharing and giving them a taste, but not going to.
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Dude you explained me to a T, crazy..I’d buy you a drink bro (no homo)
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+1 on what Hellow posted
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Before I came here there was another group I was part of for almost a decade.
Crazy bunch of women and men would all get together for bbq’s, movie nights, art shows, spontaneous breakfast/walk of shame pick ups and even fishing trips. We were all ok with knowing, so long as it was just us. Of course new people entered the group, and they had no social decorum and no emotional maturity, and so egos began to spoil the whole thing.
Of course this lead to awkward social situations, neighbors/coworkers finding out and the group falling apart.
Learned to keep thins confidential
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Friends? What are those
The only thing I'm worried about is finding my daughter on here
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We should have Pete give his 2 cents
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You guys should attend to Social events where other members join to discussed, drink and visit the ladies! Met some great people men and beautiful ladies. I do recommend it.. All i know is that if I do share my HX life... my personal life would never be the same (judgement from other people who wouldn't understand that this is a hobbie).
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Fun for part time hobby! Will never tell !
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People think I am one of the ultra cultural conservatives, and are genuinely shocked that I know what a tequila body shot is, let alone something like HX.
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The first rule of Fight Club , is that there is no Fight Club
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👍
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Lame post/Question. Do you twll your friends and family when you masterbate?
This is a secret remains with our community, and the special connections I made.
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This site is definitely good for my mental, physical and emotional well being.
I am a tall, attractive, guy who once had young women pulling me over in my car. However, with age things change, namely I gained just 10-15 lbs over the last 25 years.
As a young man, I never really understood women because it didn't matter. Passionate and naive as I was, if things went bad in a relationship..I would not date for a couple months and wait for a decent woman to come along. Then the fateful day came in which I bought an engagement ring at 30 yrs old.
Because I had never REALLY been serious about women to that point, upon mentioning the ring..all hell broke loose in my world.
This site has taught me to keep calm, remain stoic, appreciate the beauty in a relationship and that women need men who will love them but keep them in check. Sure women can get sex at the drop of a hat, but being an actual good man is irreplaceable.
However, being a good man while remaining a leader requires humble, constant work to remain valuable.
The beautiful women that we get to spend time with àre truly a blessing..and a reminder of reality
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Han Solo brotha...
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My life on east coast is really busy so not many know there. I have different friends for different occasions. Some of my gals from other networks know but my gals from day job do not.
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Unless we met through this life, I don’t mix them. I almost did with two of my closest childhood friends. Glad I didn’t. One guy ended getting really deep into his Faith and now really loves his family life centered around church. It’s been really healthy for him so introducing him to this world , especially since he’s got mega disposable income is not a test of faith that I want to introduce him to. Other bubby of mine we have traveled to TJ as college grads. We saw this lifestyle down there then but were too chicken to try it. He still talks about it decades later so I know he’d be down but that when we were single. Now he has family, I’d rather not rock the boat.
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Yes, I am my own secret service agency
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My closest friends know I am on a site that I really like, but they don’t know the name .
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My pastor thinks it's a great outlet and parents are good with it too.
Kinda creepy that they want to join in though.
Told them to open their own accounts.
Also told them my handle is Sherkahn
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What is HX??
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Crazy that my best friends know about and partake in the girls in TJ...but NO ONE knows about my HX exploits.
Seems like leaving the country puts a different spin on the hobby.
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I have one close friend that is also on the site. Makes it alil better yo have somebody to share notes with. lol
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The only people close to me outside of here that know what im into are my parents. They are really great and don't judge me for enjoying this life 
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💯 secret no one outside of here knows
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no need for unnecessary drama, better keep it secret. I'm here for fun and no drama.
And to all the ladies I've met here, please keep my secret for me as I will for you!
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Shhhhhhh
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Just one other whore monger knows.
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No one needs to know, very few people know much about my private life, don’t have social media and avoid taking pics with me in them
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Mark Twain is reported as saying:
Two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead.
More power to those that are open about it with folks, but where I am, that's not an option.
I once made a sales call on a company - (a sole prop) where I could see on his computer screen that he had up The Erotic Review.
I thought it was pretty funny.
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I've met many wonderful people on this site! It's like I've been given the keys to the Kingdom ! My closest friends aren't discreet, nor the sharpest tool's in the shed. So this is my secret! Why ruin something so good?
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Oh i did not know myself ether these secret world is my fantasy
Want sex with a strangers and got rewarded
I did it it’s a great satisfaction for me I did it
Tried to tell people they did not believe it they tough .. I kidding
I really enjoyed loved every moment almost every date .at here
Now I am on cruises travel the wold spoil myself .happy as hell
U want something U go for it
That’s all I like to say 😱🥰
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I've been in this "hobby" for almost 25 years now, and been married for 21 mostly happy years. My SO is not ugly or mean or withholding sex from me and has expressed her own sex fantasies that I know could come true with the help of people on this site.
She is the only person I'll ever truly love, but cannot satisfy all my sexual desires, so i play here. In some ways it's unhealthy because I've been lying for so long, but in other ways it's allowed me to keep our bond strong and be there for her and our kids at all times. This is my version of riding a motorcycle or driving a fast car. A release of seretonin for my brain, with the added benefit of good quality sex.
As I get older, I appreciate the emotional bond with her more than transactional sex with a stranger, but still both have a place and purpose in my life.
But i'll never tell her or anyone else about it, because I know the damage it would cause emotionally.
So the secret goes to the grave with me
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This site has saved countless marriages!
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