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Come to the IE.
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Havent been to lampoc...LA is good for me but OC is bad
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Come to sd! We need new blood here desperately lol
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Maybe try making different changes to your PM responses and see what sticks.
Nick.
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Offer specials?
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I appreciate all the feedback guys!! All of it is helping a lot!! Thank you!!
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Participate in the community so people get to know you, This blog is a good first step. You need to build a network so people see they can trust you. I see you have one network rating from four days ago but you haven't issued a network rating back. Network ratings are an important safety feature to the community. Have someone show you how to issue a rating.
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So basically anytime someone rates me I should rate them back?
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Only rate people who you have actually had interactions with.
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The holidays always slows things down with a lot of discretionary income going to Christmas gifts.
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YES^
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All things bring equal, I think geography plays a big role. Larger population centers mean more guys would want to see you. Your profile doesn’t say what city you’re in, but if you were in San Diego I would definitely consider seeing you because you’re attractive, you’ve got a great body, and women in their 30s are the perfect age. But some people say San Diego is slow, so I don’t know how much interest you would get here besides me.
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Screening?
yup, that would turn me away.
anytime someone has asked me for my personal fb, professional email, name and address etc etc - I have walked away without fail.
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The I.E. gets a bad rap. Yes, Sometimes it can be slow. I have noticed though that ladies only tend to stay overnight if they are trying it out for the first time. Sometimes staying a whole day might make a little difference. That being said, I would agree with the other guys that said come out to the I.E.
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Do you cater to couples?
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”The holidays always slows things down with a lot of discretionary income going to Christmas gifts.
And property taxes are due this month.
Plus there is more accounting of a man’s time during the holidays. Just harder all around to get out to see friends.
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Got It!! thank you all for the wonderful feedback!! I appreciate it all and it helps tremendously!!
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You may also want to take into account that it’s the holiday season.
Not everyone is able to make the time (or have the budget due to x-mas presents), but it may also be a windfall if you find a niche where others are not active right now and a need need’s fulfilling.
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Guess not
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Dont trust douchebags who use phrases like cater to when theyre talking about sex.
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PerfectCircle looking for a girlfriend hmu
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@heywannabe
Is that all you've got? Don't trust someone who uses the phrase "cater to" when it comes to sex.
Surely a dim-witt like you has got more ammo than that?
Keep trying though. It probably makes you feel better about yourself trying to troll others.
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1. you need a network...men that have seen you and rate you/ and you rate them back (don't be lazy do the 2 minute rating)...once you start getting men in your network more trust is built...but it does take some time
2. join some clubs and get some exposer/ partake in some "friendly blogs"...don't get in fights or political discussions....ignore the idiots on blogs that say stupid shit.
3. screen: initial contact should be with a pm and look at there network....if there is x amount of red....reconsider.
4. make sure you are competitive.....
good luck
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Inflation is here and Limits are being pushed. Try not to take that personally though cause I haven't asked.
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If they are getting your info and not responding, then there is something in your info that is causing them to lose interest. Men consider price, services and attractiveness. If they perceive an imbalance between those three, then they wont move forward. You have to make an adjustment to something, that is the only answer.
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@jewfish I went (sd)and it was a dud also lampoc? Never really heard of it but girly just keep on posting and posting recent pics and there are some men in the site that will specifically see newbies to see what you’re all about. Word travels fast around here so be sure to be clean and courteous. Hx is not about pulling a fast one on somebody. NOT SAYING YOU WOULD. Js hx is about fun and good behavior with one another. If u do well with your clients word will travel and you’ll become more successful. It does take time just like anything else but it’s worth it. There’s so many great people on this site. So welcome! Good luck! Some good places are burbank, Pasadena, Ontario,dtla, Irvine,Buena park, Manhattan Beach…el segundo
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@ handy dandy that’s great advice! Also just because sd wasn’t great for me doesn’t mean it isn’t great. I was in the wrong location while there so that’s my bad and I’m very Curious about Lompoc now lol
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As mentioned on here Holidays are tough, money & time wise. Also Covid put a damper on everything, surprise.
You're attractive should pick by at-least late Jan. If both people have good chill, repectful, eager to please, personalities, decent menu. Should really pick up for you. Be able to get regulars. Which unfortunately ratings don't take into account for that.
I would add to the previously mentioned "Men consider price, services and attractiveness". Including,Travel Distance, timing,their energy, providers rating.
If not already, Pre-written menu the acronyms, contact, pricing. "In area till such and such". Measurement are great to have Height,Breasts size, Because, some heights work better with the mechanics than others. Some times fun to struggle, sometimes just want more fun easy mechanics able to try to please both easier.
If they ask for your a menu it's already written just send out. If they don't respond, they maybe planning ahead like can't tonight, but now I know the stipulations can 2-5 nights from now.
Also as mentioned clubs. There's parties on here, See if can make fellow lady friend. For better advice.
Good luck hopefully you're not too tall. That's a struggle
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There is a poll you can post that will ask what area and cities the gents would line to see you in. That should help a lot to give you an idea where to B ... 😘😊
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it's Lompoc not Lompac, it's north of Santa Barbara on the Central Coast. It's adjacent to Vandenberg AFB and has a Federal Prison.
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Come to Orange County.
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I noticed that you said OC is bad. Most of the ladies love OC. Why didn’t you like it?
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The second day of me being in OC wasn't bad at all. I guess it all just takes time and patience!! Thank you all for the helpful responses I really appreciate your TIPS!!!
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@WW Lompoc is an old inside joke.
Many of us could be in a planning stage. Then you move and we lose focus as something else drops on our door step.
Communication is important, guys writing few words isn't a turn on, careful what you say though. It goes both ways. I don't blame anyone for canned responses.
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San Diego isn’t a dud if you’ve got the right look/work ethic.. not a knock on anyone, just the truth.
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@brix.ton thanks Babe
appreciate the encouragement
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Stay positive ! 😉
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I would definitely reconsider Orange County again but not just any Orange County. I would target Irvine, Costa Mesa, Santa Ana, Orange, Garden Grove, and Anaheim since those are the most popular areas. Cities like Yorba Linda and Seal Beach are the least popular from what I have seen.
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Maybe if you could be more specific on your menu/service?
I think that would help you to meet more guys I think.
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