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is it just me or...?
Dec 2 2021 07:11PM more by Amina1
Tags: San Diego , Current Events (All tags)

Is it just me or are the girls on the site this year a lotttt less responsive??

I thought the point of the network system was to be able to check in with others on mutual friends safety.
I cant seem to get a message back when contacting people about the reputation of others

Has the site lost its own etiquette?
Ive also been open to doubles and cant get a response from other girls in that regard either! whats going on?
      
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June.Moon
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Dec 3 2021 07:20AM     link to this

The girls on here are all about themselves. I've been told that I'm the only woman who actually responds to reference requests and even then 80 percent of the ladies that I give info to don't say thank you or anything in return. It's almost like they think it's a competition when in reality it's actually better (and safer) to work together


You know I'm ALWAYS down for doubles and though I'm not quite active anymore due to school I'm definitely willing to make it work.


As far as the question "has the site lost its etiquette"... yes


Seems like it's getting ran over by alcoholic rants from women and political blogs from men. Not sure where this place went left but as a community we have the authority to turn this place around
ArabianQueen
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Dec 3 2021 09:47AM     link to this

June moon +100000000

"as a community we have the authority to turn this place around"

❤❤❤❤❤
LushizzLivey_99
Rancho Cucamonga, Inland Empire, CA
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Dec 3 2021 10:48AM     link to this

Same girl same! I’ve met a few girls on here that have been helpful as fuck and I appreciate them, but a lot of the other girls on here don’t seem to be on the same wavelength for whatever reason and I find that odd as well. Hey we’re all trying to just have a good time and be safe, right?
Amina1
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Dec 3 2021 11:03AM     link to this

well thanks for commenting ladies, i completely agree with you @june.moon
Im not here to compete, id rather support eachother and help make sure people dont get scammed or hurt.
*ive heard a possible reason is accounts arent run by the girls themselves*

Im hoping atleast some girls who are willing to communicate might comment on here, though i know the blogs have gotten their own kind of ugly here too.

...full of politically charged trolls,,,
which- EWW biggest turn off!
GinaGalaxy
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Dec 4 2021 12:27AM     link to this

If u need a reference check on the fly.
Please see my AD for my ## for a quick reply..

I do not check PM often

I have all my text messages 4 years back lol.
mikeylikes
OC, CA
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Dec 4 2021 01:03AM     link to this

The network system is not what it once was many moons ago. When and If I see new ladies , which is rare if I do , the network issue is never a topic of conversation.

Jacinto562
Anaheim, OC, CA
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Dec 4 2021 09:17AM     link to this

It's different from guys, most of the time I get a response when checking on girls.
NickSgv
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Dec 4 2021 10:27AM     link to this

^ Me too.
NPembrush
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Dec 4 2021 11:44AM     link to this

I'm a slacker *hic* but that's why I'm a zero
stella4u2018
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Dec 4 2021 05:58PM     link to this

Sometimes I can't reply 'cause I run out of FX points, but PLEASE feel free to text me. I'm always available to help a fellow lady out <3. But yes, I agree with you!
Isis_619
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Jan 14 2022 05:17AM     link to this

@ Amina1. I got you gurl . Put on subject line " Reference check"
TaylorSoSpunky
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Jan 14 2022 11:45AM     link to this

The ladies I've reached out to respond to me in a timely matter..
DahliaLove
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Jan 14 2022 01:28PM     link to this

I always respond, when I am around, and usually get a response from one of the 5 providers I'd send a request to. A lot of women here have school, jobs and just life. I can only speak for myself when saying I do not sign in without reason, not only because I may be busy but sometimes I do not have the metal or emotion space for it.

If someone is rude in giving a reference, it's more of a reflection of them, I make a note and don't bother to ask for anything again.

just sayin'

DL
SpencerThomas
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Jan 14 2022 05:06PM     link to this

Ladies we should work together and have each other’s backs, lol it’s not like there isn’t enough dick to go around right!? I’m into doubles but I don’t like pussy if that makes sense? Hit me up! Xo
TheWickedWitch
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Jan 30 2022 07:06PM     link to this

@spanner 🙏😃👍
sexydevil330
Calabasas, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jan 31 2022 12:35PM     link to this

+What Gina said ..

Send a text . I always pm and text . In pm I include the link of the profile of Person so they don’t have to bother typing out name and so there is no confusion on who it is I’m asking about . I also am detailed in my text with my name
A lot of people don’t respond to a “hey” text . I know I don’t . A specific text identifying yourself = easy


There’s been times a lady has messaged me on here . I don’t log on and it’s a week later … I still reply but I feel bad cause with tect I could have responded ASAP .

Koru7
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Jan 31 2022 12:43PM     link to this

Bookers/... don't like the competition
CrystalXo
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Mar 11 2024 12:54PM     link to this

Love the post.... don't give beautiful, add me to the list of "responsive girls"
Also down for doubles 💕
Alexis_Ryan
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Mar 11 2024 01:27PM     link to this

This is blog is what I needed to read, because I had someone blow-up when I said I’ll confirm our booking once I reach out to your network and he took it pretty roughly. I’m unsure why, but that’s on them.

So, I’ll be sure to double down on reaching out to the networks moving forward! Thanks for a great post!
PSHorneycouple
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Mar 11 2024 02:12PM     link to this

How many are managed versus how many are not?
That may give the number of women who will actually respond.
Devin_Peridot
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Mar 11 2024 08:05PM     link to this

Unfortunately I have had this same experience. LADIES I am happy to help anytime so if you see my name in a network feel free to reach out!
bbysr
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 11 2024 09:06PM     link to this

I try to respond to requests from guys wanting some info about ladies. I also have been asking the ladies I have seen if they can reccomend one of their friends that I can meet up with. I have done this a few times but will try it more
SecretPinup
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Mar 11 2024 10:42PM     link to this

Hi! Great post!

I'm definitely guilty of not checking my DM's.

Sometimes I try to reply to DM's, but I'm usually not in a private enough place to be using hx on my phone much of the time. Texting is just more low-key in that situation. When I'm able to host I usually answer DM's because I have the privacy of my own place, but I haven't been and to host much lately. (I have a kiddo who just turned 3)

Oh, and then texts with the dreaded "Hey" and "Available?" Ughhhhhhh.
*Facepalm*

Anywho, it is what it is, right?

Feel free to reach out for whatever reason.

**DM me for my number** I'll give you my personal #, to any girls who want to contact me, and I know I definitely could use a female to talk to sometimes!

(I always have my personal #'s phone with me, so I can reply faster if it's urgent or someone needs a response ASAP. The number I give clients is a different phone that I use only for booking and other stuff related to this work, for obvious privacy reasons, and I don't have it on me 24-7.


💋😍🍑👈💯🫦
CaliforniaGirl21
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Mar 12 2024 09:07AM     link to this

hey I always respond as soon as i can. as this is a must. its important to keep everyone at bay. Im also availalble for doubles. so yeah. In sorry you are not getting the responses.

any ways I get responses all time but I also message more than one person on the network just to see their character response.

safety is always a must for sure.
SindySouth
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Mar 12 2024 03:24PM     link to this

I always respond too! I don’t have to agree that some of the lady’s not all don’t reply or if they do they just write safe and that’s it like it’s a bother. Sometimes my response time can be slow but I do always get back with an appropriate reference with details. Just know ladies I’m available to give reference I’m always on the ladies side with their best interest at heart.

Sin
SindySouth
Corona, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 12 2024 03:31PM     link to this

So i meant I do have to agree!! Oops
jazz51
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Mar 12 2024 03:33PM     link to this

Anyone with breasts like yours can have a mistake now and then....

I hope any lady who has seen me would reply when another lady asked about me.
YourFave01
Lakewood, LA, CA
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Mar 13 2024 06:37AM     link to this

If I still had a network I'd respond. I agree with the etiquette goin down on both ends male and female. The messages I receive some days are questionable. Why send a 1 word pm if you need fx to do so.
sexystephie
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Apr 10 2024 05:46PM     link to this

I am not very active but will always help if i can. But text me because i dont log on very often. Stay safe.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Apr 10 2024 08:01PM     link to this

Some of the ladies respond with a thank you some do not respond at all.

I send out points to the ladies if they don't say thank they are crossed off the list.

Too easy.
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