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Dec 14 2021 10:20AM more by SativaSeraphina
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

To me sex and companionship are two different things.

What do you think?

If you want sex then just get sex!!

If you want a friend or companion then get that but sex will not give you companionship or friendship.
I don’t understand why that’s so hard to grasp!
      
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Dec 14 2021 10:24AM     link to this

Too many needy people these days...
AFMadness
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Dec 14 2021 10:26AM     link to this

Because you are not a guy. Once you have sex with them , the game changes. Especially outside of here. Like it or not they always come back.
AmberSummers
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Dec 14 2021 10:49AM     link to this

Big difference, I definitely agree with you love.
Guys know the difference between fucking, sex and love making. All three are great tho!!!
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 14 2021 11:08AM     link to this

the thing is I don't think men really know the difference between sex and companion ship. Why do I say that because they want sex with companionship and that's not how sex works. companionship involves having a relationship when sex doesn't need to have a relationship to happen.
lapierre
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Dec 14 2021 12:19PM     link to this

i thought it was women who add an emotional dimension to sex..

Amber - whats the difference between sex and fucking?
ChrisRinOC
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Dec 14 2021 12:34PM     link to this

How cold if you can't offer both. I appreciate knowing those who are just offering a human version of a sex doll.
Mozis
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Dec 14 2021 01:11PM     link to this

you don't get it because you are 30
June.Moon
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Dec 14 2021 01:21PM     link to this

Why not have both


In my opinion sex is why better when the two people are into each other

Doesn't have to mean I want a relationship it just means the chemistry is great
AmberSummers
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Dec 14 2021 01:32PM     link to this

@lapierre they are kind of the same but fucking is just that, more raw less feelings. Sticky physical.
Sex is always better when there is chemistry, and thats why nothing beats love making ...
AFMadness
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Dec 14 2021 01:37PM     link to this

Most women have an innate ability to know what it is all about.

Ask yourself why are you here, the reasons that support justifing why, are,... ?

Sure girls just want to have fun, but the court of public opinion, family unit, I'll leave it at that.
lapierre
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Dec 14 2021 01:45PM     link to this

@Amber - so fucking is the basic, add being into each other and it becomes sex, then and add strong emotional connection and it transcends to lovemaking.

i feel kissing is more intimate than fucking - i'd rarely kiss someone unless there is a strong connection..
AmberSummers
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Dec 14 2021 01:51PM     link to this

Its different for everyone. There are times you have a very string connection with soneone you just met. Chemistry works in mysterious ways...
A kiss, a sensual touch, words said, the way someone looks at you can have a big impact and make the chemisty better
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Dec 14 2021 01:54PM     link to this

👍👍Amber.
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Dec 14 2021 01:58PM     link to this

The combination can be amazing
But hard to get
I am searching
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Dec 14 2021 02:05PM     link to this

Well said Amber
Lily4u maybe we should meet 😍
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Dec 14 2021 02:39PM     link to this

I want you to show me how much you love me,


In Bed

It goes hand in hand I believe as a woman here you should have and give companionship along with sex


But everyone is different
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Dec 14 2021 02:55PM     link to this

Any ladies here know the difference between a really messy blowjob and a Big Mac? If not, hit me up and we’ll do lunch sometime!
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Dec 14 2021 06:51PM     link to this

Yes, just physical play with you lovely ladies for the hour. I discovered real love and companionship with with my dog (which occurred late in life). He treats me like a rockstar and NEVER lets me down. Always happy to see me when I come home and vice versa. Honestly, he's the only reason currently to keep going: to make him happy.
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 14 2021 06:58PM     link to this

you get it @client45


Also just because I'm 30 doesn't mean I don't know what sex and companionship are or mean. I can assure you I know you or we all can have both but being a companion is more intimate and personal for me. Havin a companion means I trusts them and I'm vulnerable with them.

I can't be vulnerable or trust someone right away or someone I just met.
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Dec 14 2021 09:15PM     link to this

Totally agree Sera ...
GoBallsDeep
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Dec 14 2021 09:18PM     link to this

Grasp this........
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Dec 14 2021 09:22PM     link to this

Can’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to, also don’t enjoy sex as much unless I’m in top shape..it helps with chemistry/companionship for me.

Just from these BLOG Threads it has helped me decide how I would, & would not like to see...people click & are attracted to others for different reasons.

If she never posted, wouldn’t have found out BOD is my oneitis
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Dec 15 2021 03:38AM     link to this

I agree, DavisM1.
I am going to be disappointed by a girl who wants to keep it cold and impersonal. My most memorable encounters were with women who made me feel like I was the most important person in the world to them for the hour we were together. She ought to at least be able to fake that. I don’t care if she is faking it. That is what makes a good provider.
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Dec 15 2021 06:39AM     link to this

Physical Attraction versus emotional attraction

Emotional develops into a social relationship such as friendship and physical leads to sex. You can have all variations of both but crazy horny will make you fuck anything including saying all kinds of BS to get it.

To anyone who says guys don't get it hasn't met guys who get it.
DavisM1
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Dec 15 2021 07:25AM     link to this

One of the best feelings in the world is after the session, when they say..”I’d totally go out with you, & show you off as my boyfriend..”

Was it a lie? ..no fuks given..just those few words puts you on cloud 9.

getting poverty unenthusiastic sex with fake moaning to make you cum faster because they want your money is not quite the same exact thing as a girl literally choking themselves out cold on your cock because they are so turned on and want to be nowhere else in the world other than right there with your dink stuck in their throat forever because you are their personal boyfriend for the hour (or half lol)

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Dec 15 2021 07:26AM     link to this

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SativaSeraphina
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Dec 15 2021 08:53AM     link to this

Being kinky has nothing to do with companionship!!! LMFAO

I don't get why you guys wouldn't want a real GF instead of a fake one?? that's like faking an orgasm shits Wack and played out!!!

I like a genuine connection that fake shit has to go!!

This isn't TV, or a film being made these are real encounters that should always be a joy regardless.

Also enjoying something you like with someone you just met doesn't mean that's companionship or you guys are now companions.

But hey YOU DO YOU!!!

You think how you want.
DavisM1
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Dec 15 2021 09:00AM     link to this

Don’t think someone understands the meaning of GFE..

Thanks..but I
Don’t have a problem with getting a GF....anyone can go & meet someone pretty easily these days..Tinder is a made for just that lol.

Think most guys here want the passion without the commitment..

But you do you boo
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Dec 15 2021 09:01AM     link to this

@SativaSeraphina 😍😍😍
AFMadness
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Dec 15 2021 10:10AM     link to this

Davis is right , about just a few right words.

@SS experiences may teach for the answer to the GF question. Careful, it may not be liked what is found. But most are ok with it.

And there is nothing entertaining in a blank profile.

Chemistry is everything. Although personal, at a minimum I'd like to know one's birth date, and not to find out there true age. Then there are times to just roll the dice. Justifying , you don't have to see them again.

But I digress, life is constant learning experience. With knowledge comes responsibility of it's use.
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 15 2021 07:40PM     link to this

@AF

I am not asking you to interested in my profile..


The right guys will come to me and be okay with the boundaries I set for MYSELF!!! Any guy who wants something I don't offer can simply move on!!!

Plenty of fish in the sea to worry about men who aren't on the same page as me!!!



ALSO I do know what the difference between GFE is and having that experience VS having an actual GF!!!!


Have a good one <3
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Dec 15 2021 08:55PM     link to this

Isn’t that the whole point of “GFE”? A friendly, companionable experience with a sexual component? Real or imagined many ladies are able to provide a satisfying cocktail of both. I for one can’t imagine sex on its own I.e. “wham bang thank you mam” being much fun or very satisfying.


Nick.
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Dec 15 2021 09:38PM     link to this

"Plenty of fish in the sea to worry about men who aren't on the same page as me!!!"

In this industry sometimes you have to Realize it's not about that 1 time encounter it's about a continued relationship that grows. I guess everybody's different but I don't get why you would post this on here if it has nothing to do with the relationship that we have in our everyday counters whether it's for 15 minutes or a 1/2 hour. This isn't someone where you would want to find a boyfriend or a long Time Life partner just a long time fuck partner that was the point I was trying to make XOXO happy holidays
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Dec 15 2021 09:39PM     link to this

And by the way girls like me aren't fake we're just really good at what we do.
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 16 2021 06:29PM     link to this

I don't offer that experience just not something I am comfortable with.

I've been in this industry for over 10 years and so have a lot of my friends.. I know what's BEST for me!!

Just because I don't provide the same service as you doesn't mean I don't know what I'm doing.


You know what's works for you and i know what works for me!!! simple as that!!!
DavisM1
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Dec 16 2021 06:32PM     link to this

Fuark..

Talk about a thread backfire..
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 17 2021 02:01AM     link to this

Nothing back fired on me!!

This was a thread that I posted literally to see other points of view and to
Talk about it.



Soooo

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Dec 17 2021 10:00AM     link to this

LOL
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 17 2021 10:36AM     link to this

@rozzzz fake age shit??? what are talking about..wtf
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Dec 17 2021 10:42AM     link to this

^ I think what they’re saying is that if you’ve been in this industry for 10+ years or whatever , you should be older than 30.
SativaSeraphina
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Dec 17 2021 11:11AM     link to this

If I have been doing it since I was 18 and I am now 30 then that would mean I've been doing this for over 10 years.. it's simple math it's not rocket science lmfao

30-10=20 like hellooooo
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Dec 17 2021 11:12AM     link to this

Some people need to go back to school if they can't understand simple math lmfao
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Dec 17 2021 01:28PM     link to this

I think once you meet the first time you will find out if you feel comfortable or not with that person /stranger and me personally if the first encounter is good then I go back again other than that no hurt feelings.
After all it's to have a good time here with no commitment, that's my honest opinion.
Take care!
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Dec 17 2021 02:47PM     link to this

They are two separate, different things. They can also be with one person.
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Dec 17 2021 06:05PM     link to this

sex = she takes it in the face

and

companionship= she swallows
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Where does the b-hole enter the picture?
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