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Locked. No further comments permitted.Goodbye dearest Heather
Dec 15 2021 11:14PM more by bird
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"@bird, yes a bachelors at 27 with NO debt, and furthermore don’t have to deal with the morons like you. I hope all of you who are typing away comments like yours are not living in a basement or hating life so much that you have to attempt to belittle someone who’s done nothing to you"

You know nothing about me. I love my life. I own multiple houses with plenty light and views (so I don't live in a basement), have a very successful professional career and personal life, earned 3 degrees at top 5 universities by age 30 on academic scholarships coming from a poor family. I love life and appreciate the many great women I have met on hx who have been a part of it.

What I don't like are a snooty haters who say things like this: "[I] hated most of these dumb asses on HX lol."

Seriously, I am happy for you to move on because I don't think you belong on hx. I sincerely wish you luck. Anyone who thinks most people are morons will need it.
      
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bird
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Dec 15 2021 11:17PM     link to this

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GoBallsDeep
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Dec 15 2021 11:29PM     link to this

Since you 2 never met
I'm thinking her comment wasn't meant for you specifically Bird

Based on posts on this site
She's probably right
Most HX'ers are dumb as rocks
Odds are, most don't bathe on any regular schedule either

No offense intended to anyone reading this

June.Moon
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Dec 16 2021 05:29AM     link to this

You took her comment way too personal . A lot of men don't know how many ass holes us ladies deal with. From fake pages to guys that feel like you're their property because they are spending time with you.. not to mention the stalkers and guys who like to use their levels as leverage.. oh and did you hear about the constant reports of men pretending to be someone else to see ladies?


Yes there are a few good guys but you have to weed through the sea of snakes to find them.


If her comment doesn't apply to you then move along.

And dude you're 51, she's 27.. I would expect someone your age to have their shit together




It's not that deep.. don't need to drown in a puddle lol
June.Moon
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Dec 16 2021 05:54AM     link to this

Point proven

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Didn't take long at all did it...
NPembrush
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Dec 16 2021 06:40AM     link to this

The old rule of "You can choose to be offended or not but it is a choice" applies here...and pretty much everything.
(I need to follow my own advice sometimes)
I know I'm kissing June's ass (which is rather fine...) but she is right.
If I have to disagree with Heather the only point is avoid burning bridges even if it feels oh so good to do so. Just my life experience.
All in all hey she came in with a goal and left with that goal and that is pretty awesome. I wish her well and success.

bird
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Dec 16 2021 07:24AM     link to this

June, you make a good point. I don't know what it's like from the ladies' point of view. As a member of the community since 2009, I just don't like when someone generalizes that nearly all hx guys are bad. I'm sure there are bad apples just like there are bad apple women. But in my experience, most of the women and men on hx are good, hardworking people.

Actually, I am glad for Heather. If she wants to leave hx, she should. I hope she will remember the positive experiences. And I hope she will begin her new job with a positive outlook.

So even though we never met or exchanged pms, Heather, thanks for being part of hx, congratulations on your achievements, and best of luck in your new career.
TomTraubert
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Dec 16 2021 07:28AM     link to this

OP

She said most not all. Are you mad at Seinfeld too? He said 90 to 95% of the population is undatable. And he's right! And so is Heather.

It's up to you to be the exception not the rule
theGentlman
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Dec 16 2021 08:35AM     link to this

@bird oh arent you special

27 with no debt doesnt mean shit... i had no debt at 27 either.. big f'in wow. doesnt mean your not a total deusch. the fact that, you started a new blog to deal with the miniscule amount of contention built from a different , closed, blog. tells me, you wont last long. also, that you got all willie nillie over a chick that is leaving HX. lol. how many ladies have said that... not too mention the little blip about, "if you havent met me, and would like to meet me. Send me a pm." but she just found her dream job.. guess shes not that busy just yet eh.. whatev... her business not mine.

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Dec 16 2021 08:47AM     link to this

@heather

Congrats for accomplishing your goal and for not accumulating debt because of your time on HX. You were responsible and you did it the right way on here, and for that you should be proud of yourself. Best of luck to you!


@Speeder99

You’re a good example of someone who should be criticized. Women on HX serve a need in society for companionship. You should value them for the service they provide, not criticize them for giving you what you seek. And you certainly shouldn’t be critical of someone who has used the site as a springboard to meet their ultimate goals.







DavisM1
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Dec 16 2021 08:51AM     link to this

@midlyamussing- well said
ArabianQueen
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Dec 16 2021 08:55AM     link to this

Mildlyamusing makes me wet 💦
LuckyGixxer
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Dec 16 2021 09:22AM     link to this

@Bird

Seriously though .... throwing your academic achievement resume out there on an HX Blog? Not entirely sure .. but it does seem to come across even more douchey than her comment.

@ Heather
Good for you .. lets hope you are not another in a long long .. did i mention Looooong list of ladies who blew up the bridge on the way out of town. Only to slink back 6 months later. One thing that some forget is .. the attention, even if negative ... is addicting. You go from a person who people are texting and messaging each day because they want you .. to just another girl in the workforce looking for a "real" date. Can be a difficult adjustment.
bird
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Dec 16 2021 11:30AM     link to this

@tom: I think the percentages are wrong: there are 90% good people and 10% or less are bad.

@gentlemen: I think you have the wrong handle, but maybe you're in the bad 10% . In fact, I'm not special. Many if not most hx guys are educated, highly achieving individuals with a successful non-hx life. I don't like the fact that women like Heather demean us by saying we are living in our parent's basement. This is not the first time, btw. A few weeks back she chimed in on a "I hate hx guys blog" big time started by a woman who deleted her handle only to return a week later.

@lucky: why is it okay for a woman to mention her achievements but not a man? Maybe it's part of the woke world we live in.

Again, I'm glad Heather is leaving, and I wish her the best of luck.
happyguy63
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Dec 16 2021 11:31AM     link to this

You can have your bank account balanced but owe many debts of gratitude and that is an asset the wealthy treasure.

You can own houses but have no home.

You can get a wall full of degrees but have no education, only paper.

Posting an anonymous blog throwing shade at.someone you never met because she's moving on and moving up... says more about character than any of the rest
bird
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Dec 16 2021 11:35AM     link to this

^^Not because she leaving but because she hates hx guys. I'm happy for her.
bird
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Dec 16 2021 11:39AM     link to this

Here are some pleasant comments I received from the number one hx manhater gzelle:

"Pathetic old fuck fighting with bitches 24 years younger.

and lol at you owning shit cheap ass fuck with that network"

"That network though


why are the cheap fucks the ones that pretend they're rich. stupid ass bitch lol"

PSHorneycouple
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Dec 16 2021 01:06PM     link to this

@OP "hated most of these dumb asses on HX lol. I have a few nice men I did meet on here but the rest weren’t worth a Hello"

"Sounds like she's the hater. Love it when these girls ride away giving the double middle finger. Just don't fall off your high horse honey! A bachelor's degree at 27! Congratulations! Better late than never... Luckily, there are plenty of great women on hx and more coming every day, so ride off into the sunset, baby. Good luck!"


Seems as though this is on you. From her original blog, she was generalizing and you took it personal. Creating another blog to to whine is probably one on her reasons to generalize in the first place.
Maybe you could have been secure enough in the beginning to know she wasn't singling you out. But maybe, just maybe. You are one of those who shes glad not to be dealing with again? Take some time to self reflect
bird
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Dec 16 2021 01:42PM     link to this

^^Never had any contact with her other than her man-hating comments in blogs. Never said she was singling me out. Just willing to stick up for the 99% of the hx guys she hates and call her out. Several others did, too.

PSHorneycouple
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Dec 16 2021 01:54PM     link to this

^^^ To me "most" can simply mean more than half. To you that means 99 percent. Sooo, go ahead and keep being You if it's working for You
happyguy63
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Dec 16 2021 02:01PM     link to this

Black and white thinking!
It's either the best thing on the.site.
Or worst.
Nothing in between.
InsearchofStarfish
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Dec 16 2021 02:21PM     link to this

i had many many stupid ass clients...par for the course



bird
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Dec 16 2021 02:34PM     link to this

Will do, horny: "hated most of these dumb asses on HX lol. I have a few nice men I did meet on here but the rest weren’t worth a Hello." Few doesn't sound like half to me.

She's a hater. Again, she has expressed her distain for hx guys on previous blogs as well. But I do wish her well.

And Happy Holidays to everyone, including the haters, but especially to the great women of hx who have added so much to my life.
bird
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Dec 16 2021 02:55PM     link to this

More from hater gzelle: "thanks for the shot out sensitive whiney fuck"

Such hatred! Glad I don't have that life perspective...
Tabie
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Dec 16 2021 03:32PM     link to this

I landed a great career but I’m addicted to sex and addicted to variety. Maybe I need help ?

Good luck Heather I would not delete your account because you never know if maybe being a part time love maker would be an option 😊
Tabie
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Dec 16 2021 03:37PM     link to this

Don’t delete it. Keep it just in case you need a few good hx men to satisfy you. Normal men get boring 😂
DavisM1
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Dec 16 2021 04:09PM     link to this

^^ gotta love Tabie’ s outlook..


















&..HOLE-LEE-FUK at that body!

Fukin PERFECTION 😍
jazz51
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Dec 16 2021 04:10PM     link to this

Damn, Tabie. Love your slutty attitude....
TomTraubert
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Dec 16 2021 04:44PM     link to this

@tabie happy to help you with that sex addition any day
bird
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Dec 16 2021 05:08PM     link to this

Tabie is what makes hx hx. Awesome.

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Dec 16 2021 05:58PM     link to this

Yep, Tabie is one very hot Woman! No bs with her.
hyder
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Dec 16 2021 06:35PM     link to this

When you don't know who the asshole is........it is you.
Mr.Horndog
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Dec 16 2021 07:41PM     link to this

I find it odd that you've never met her and started this blog. She's obviously referring to some assholes she's met and not you.



Mr.Horndog
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Dec 16 2021 07:47PM     link to this

Actually, it sounds like you made things right OP. She was probably referring to all the dumb ass trolls on here.
GoBallsDeep
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Dec 16 2021 08:56PM     link to this

^^^ Troll

GoBallsDeep
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Dec 16 2021 09:01PM     link to this

Seriously, whoever posted last was gonna get that blast, lol

Let's just add, in all fairness and equity, that there's plenty of ladies on the site that got issues also.
It's not just the guys

May the skies be clear and the wind at your back
Good luck to you HS

Peter67
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Dec 16 2021 09:38PM     link to this

I don’t know you but Tabie is correct. It is not wise to limit your options young lady.
HermanMill
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Dec 16 2021 10:39PM     link to this

Wow Lots of anger issues, Folks, Let's have fun and enjoy our lives however we choose to.
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Dec 17 2021 06:15AM     link to this

^ I hate you for posting that!
A Jihad on you and yours!

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Dec 17 2021 06:36AM     link to this

keep your favs UTR...use that money to invest only(maybe launder it in a fixer-upper home you can keep flipping tax-free)...be done working full-time by 40

go get your copy of RMinB(pics)....will help motivate you...have plenty of cam girls on the same plan, but they don't have home flipping options





ArabianQueen
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Dec 17 2021 09:18AM     link to this

I love my HX guys, they treat and fuck me better then the everyday guys
ArabianQueen
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Dec 17 2021 09:19AM     link to this

Bird is trying to say be grateful for the good in your life and not bitter

HX RULES!💋
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Dec 17 2021 10:00AM     link to this

so sad
hoppi
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Dec 17 2021 10:17AM     link to this

That whole blog sounded like the person that won the lottery and then told their boss to fuck off I quit, only to find out later they didn't really win, lol
bird
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Dec 17 2021 11:11AM     link to this

Thank you, Arabian Queen! You summed it up beautifully!

I think hx is great and it has enriched my life tremendously for over a decade. The women have been terrific. I like the blogs (gasp!). I interact with people on hx I would never have the opportunity to in real life.

I don't like it when someone says all (or almost all) hx guys are bad and this time I decided to call them out.

It is better for ladies and gentlemen to call out specific bad actors rather than make blanket statements without evidence. Imo, hx has very good mechanisms to identify and sometimes boot out bad actors.

I am thankful for what I have, including hx.



bird
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Dec 17 2021 11:29AM     link to this

And fiw, I regret posting info about my education, etc. Definitely tmi. I actually asked that this blog be deleted for that reason. I didn't mean to boast. But Heather seemed to imply that I and other hx guys are low-life non-achievers living in mom's basement whereas I believe most of us have full, "successful" lives.
bird
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Dec 17 2021 11:34AM     link to this

*fwiw
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