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Katiesweetwater
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How to stop these haters
Apr 29 2021 07:02PM more by Katiesweetwater
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

I hate that people will be all mad at u in the real world...so they act like little bitches, and try to fuck around with it business. How do u handle someone fucking with ur reputation on here???
      
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Tatiana36dd
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Apr 29 2021 08:07PM     link to this

Who messing with you?
GinaGalaxy
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Apr 29 2021 11:59PM     link to this

push back, ignore, block,

if you dont have haters your doing something wrong...

I was told that on here 10 years ago...........

NPembrush
Lake Forest, OC, CA
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since Jul 19 2018

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Apr 30 2021 09:29AM     link to this

Ignore, Block and move along. You can choose to be upset or not let it waste your time.
Sly69
SGV, LA, CA
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Apr 30 2021 09:34AM     link to this

It is not limited to hx, its a national epidemic, fueled by media, politicians who see political benefit in division and corporate America who instigate and monetize drama for ratings. It is leading us down a dark and dangerous path where kindness, compassion and our collective humanity is being sacrificed on a near daily basis. The most important life value of all "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is an all but forgotten value. My advice, ignore toxic individuals, stay away from drama mine fields, surround yourself as best you can with people who are kind and have a benevolent spirit. Good luck.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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since Aug 17 2009

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Apr 30 2021 10:14AM     link to this

+1 Sly69
Airmobile
Coastal, LA, CA
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Apr 30 2021 10:30AM     link to this

You are an attractive young lady. By the looks of your network you’re doing ok.
You can do do well here and have a stellar reputation if you are professional. Meaning: you are honest, reliable, safe, easy to communicate with and are not associated with the undesirable.
Don’t let the scum drag you down to their level.
Join the n00bz Club and when you level-up, the Safety Club.
Actually, it’s a good idea to join as many clubs as possible, to get an ideal how this site works.

Best of Good Fortune.
TaylorSoSpunky
San Diego, CA
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Apr 30 2021 10:32AM     link to this

Maybe you need a back up plan, if your concerned about "other" people messing with your reputation here. Two totally different worlds.
Peckr
SGV, LA, CA
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Apr 30 2021 10:59AM     link to this

Rate them.
Waterdisport22
OC, CA
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since Dec 26 2018

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Apr 30 2021 11:31AM     link to this

You are a beautiful women.....as others have said.....ignore them....and just move on.

Be honest....etc.....and will do fine.

Will reach out to you....as I said you are beautiful woman!!
coolNeasy
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 30 2021 03:34PM     link to this

Start a blog about hating people.
NPembrush
Lake Forest, OC, CA
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Apr 30 2021 04:36PM     link to this

I hate blogging.
Katiesweetwater
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Apr 30 2021 09:16PM     link to this

Thanks everyone for the input and the positive feedback. It's nice to know I'm not the only one going through it. I appreciate you all
Mozis
Pomona, Inland Empire, CA
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May 1 2021 04:23PM     link to this

sounds like a guy has fallen in love with you and you don't feel the same for him. Report him to the safety club is one way to deal with haters. Stay safe
Redfish1
Monterey Park, SGV, LA, CA
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May 1 2021 10:17PM     link to this

OP - ignore people who criticize you if you don't respect them or their advice.
joe74
Chino/Chino Hills, Inland Empire, CA
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May 13 2021 11:38AM     link to this

I see you are in Santa Ana. Pm me your number
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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since Sep 30 2020

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Feb 17 2022 08:56AM     link to this

I think I saw an Alex Jones video talking about how you are targeted.
PetiteSkyler69
OC, CA
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Feb 17 2022 11:24AM     link to this

I been a Target for so long it's ridiculous. It's okay for people to kick up dust and scream obscenities in a parking lot lol but it's not okay for me to walk across a crosswalk minding my own business w/o the police stopping me.. All this drama due to liars that clamied they died in NORTH CAROLINA, BUT I SURE FOUND THEM OUT HERE LIVING. GO FIGURE
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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since Sep 30 2020

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Feb 17 2022 08:18PM     link to this

I want to hear more about this. Reincarnation? If it’s reincarnation wouldn’t blame them, they couldn’t control it. Besides that’s more of a South Carolina thing.

If it’s some kind of zombie thing, then that is a different story.

Trust and believe that zombies know what the fuck they’re doing. REAL TALK!
PetiteSkyler69
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 10:37AM     link to this

You're damn right they know what they're doing they're using other people's identities that's why they're crypt walking lol
PetiteSkyler69
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 10:42AM     link to this

Flappy, my concern is all the life insurance policy money that was collected when these people are not dead along with graves
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 12:55PM     link to this

Fun Fact: crypt walking and Crip walking are two very different things.

PetiteSkyler69
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 02:36PM     link to this

Crypt- tales from the Crypt aka walking Dead real live bats lol
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 02:37PM     link to this

*Perp walk = iWant

Fixed
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 02:42PM     link to this

FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 18 2022 02:49PM     link to this

I don’t know who you are, but I’ve missed you too. Like you can’t believe.
TheWickedWitch
Spring Valley, Vegas, NV
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Feb 19 2022 12:12AM     link to this


Tips on dealing with haters:
Remind yourself that comments from a hater are a reflection of them and aren’t really about you. People who feel good about themselves don’t need to put others down.
Understand criticism can be a sign of pain. People sometimes lash out because they have other life struggles. Negative comments may have nothing to do with you.

Sounds like you’re being sabotaged though. In order to deal with that, just keep doing you and try to break ties with them asap if you haven’t already done so. Then the hard part is staying away from them and moving on. I don’t know the situation so it’s hard to really give advice. Hopefully they’ll need to stop for whatever reason and life will go on. Just learn from it and be cautious of who you deal with in the future. People are unpredictable and at times will involve themselves in your life if you let them, and they’ll mess with it. So moral of the story is. Become a loner. Lol I’m jk . Don’t listen to me. Idk what I’m talking about. Lol.
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 19 2022 02:25AM     link to this

^may be reincarnated as an Air Fryer for reaching Nirvana.
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 19 2022 07:13AM     link to this

^Hairy Krishna
dtf2022
OC, CA
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Feb 19 2022 08:59AM     link to this

Cute little quotes and sayings are entertaining but rarely get a person to change their ways. But I came across one that has literally changed my life:

"HATRED - is like taking poison, and expecting the other person to die from it!"

Once I truly understood this, the weight on my shoulders that I had been carrying for years just fell away. My interactions with strangers became better and my relationships became richer. When I see a "hater" now, I just feel sorry for them that they don't know, or can't understand this simple principle.
FlappyNutSack
OC, CA
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Feb 19 2022 09:14AM     link to this

^when 2023 comes along we’re going to be curious if you’re still dtf.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Feb 19 2022 07:36PM     link to this

Can't believe I posted that from my PC account
WTF was I thinking?
Shoulda posted it from my tranny account
GaijinTony
San Diego, CA
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Dec 12 2022 10:15AM     link to this

"It is not limited to hx, its a national epidemic, fueled by media, politicians who see political benefit in division and corporate America who instigate and monetize drama for ratings. It is leading us down a dark and dangerous path where kindness, compassion and our collective humanity is being sacrificed on a near daily basis."

And just as fueled by hyper-sensitive snowflakes who need to feel constantly offended because the drama brings them attention and a feeling of self-importance. People need thicker skin if they wish to survive on this planet.

GT
Tabie
CA
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Dec 12 2022 01:01PM     link to this

Ignore them and do you, when they see that they can not effect you they will most likely move onto the next victim unless of course they have a life long vendetta against you, you can build up your arsenal and they way you are ready to kick some arse.


xoTabie
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Dec 13 2022 12:17AM     link to this

So angry that GT brought this blog back to life
I will send horrible pm's to people I don't even know
And see what happens
Hopefully, utter mayhem and more hurt feewings

rakuen.now
Hacienda Heights, SGV, LA, CA
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Dec 13 2022 12:21AM     link to this

People need thicker skin so they don't feel compelled to bump a 10 month old thread just to make vague political rants lol
June.Moon
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
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Dec 13 2022 08:32AM     link to this

My notes says that gajin is a racist lol


I wouldn't bother paying attention to any zombie blogs he brings back to life .
Tabie
CA
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Dec 14 2022 08:59AM     link to this

It’s a good laugh tho
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