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Dressed well and smelling good is the only way.
Sweats only if her and I are going for run or walk.
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If she didn't want to meet your expectations, move on. She probably did you a favor.
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Frumpy is the new normal?
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It's a business
.if your hair is done and you're well dressed in your photos that's how you should present yourself
.I always ask for outfit requests if I'm traveling to visit someone but I noticed that it's really appreciated when a person puts at least some efforts into how they look
I'm working on getting better at being the best version of myself , but if I ordered a burger because it looked well done on the menu and they give it to me all slopped together I'm probably not going to want to eat it
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If you're dressed like a slob so I wouldn't pick you up at a bar, why would I pay $300 an hour for the same slob?
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I dont think making a request is unreasonable at all, if one girl finds that too picky just know she doesnt speak for all of us!
I love it when someone knows exactly what they want and know how to ask for it  xx
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Something about pulling off a woman's blouse and undoing her trousers or sliding a hand up a skirt is so erotic to me !
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^ Me too!
Or standing behind the lady and slowly unbuttoning her blouse, if she happens to be wearing a bra, then sliding it off her. Then unhooking her bra and sliding it off as well.
Then cupping her breasts and gently pinching her nipples ...
Damn! I'll be right back!
Atticus Finch
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I’m here to say,,
Some of us are not HER!!
I’m here speaking for the more professional and happier ones,, we love going shopping for New outfits,, PLEASE PUT IN YOUR REQUESTS GENTLEMEN. It is much easier to listen to your requests and cater to it. Don’t let those girls stop you! WE LOVE MEN WHO SEE WHAT WE DON’T SEE. This is where creativity and submission go hand in hand. New experiences are so dope!
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I used to dress up every time but many people said that they would rather me sans clothes or that I didn't need to make the effort. So my suggestion would be to ask, I know I would love to do it!
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One of my ATFs always answered the door topless, wearing only a thong.
That was always a great way to start the fun.
Undressing a Woman is another.
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My ATF always got a pedicure when I would prebook. The little things she would just showed how much she valued her time with people here. Hence why I always showed her how much I appreciated her
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I love dressing up, SMELLING GOOD...LOOKING EVEN BETTER, keeping the fantasy alive...its even better when a man knows exactly what he wants me to wear...I keep many outfits and accessories so I can always provide that feel and excitement. Occasionally I may just have a towel on if im just getting out the shower.
HOWEVER....
playing devils advocate....sometimes, not often but, sometimes I may lose the mojo or feel im going above and beyond to interest someone that doesn't even care and when a guy is...not appreciative of the efforts or always wanting a "deal"...that can be a turn off....MAJOR!
Now all this talk of dressing up has me wanting to see all of my fellow members all spiffed up....men and women...
I think its time for someone to have a Jammy Jam....Lingerie Party perhaps...
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June,
I love eating your 🍔. Actually it’s your 🌮, but you know what I mean. 😈
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If a lady has photos wearing lingerie and that got me fantasizing, I’m going to request that outfit or something similar. I love when ladies wear heels. I’m a leg man and oh damn how that gets me excited for what’s to come.
If she doesn’t dress up, turn around and walk away. She probably isn’t passionate anyway.
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What she said
"It's a business
.if your hair is done and you're well dressed in your photos that's how you should present yourself"
If a lady is glammed up in her photos but looks like she just cleaned out her garage when she opens the door is like a guy coming with only half the gift. Would that be accepted by the lady? Nope!
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Always wondered why ladies never ask what photos we like best from their albums to get a clue what outfit or vibe we might find attractive.
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Don’t get me started on dirty feet 😂
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when I do incall I am almost in sexy dress or lingerie. when I do outcall i usually ask if they want me dressed sexy or low key. but its important to be sexy at least for me even if I am dressed "low key" .
I love when I get request from my pictures of when I have 3 hour dates. I could do a sexy fashion show if asked... no photos though.
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Love a lady who takes the time to look sexy. I am a sucker for sexy lingerie. Hopefully, she will be either wearing just the lingerie when I arrive or have it under a very sexy and provocative dress or blouse and skirt.
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I can understand what she meant when she said that if she doesn't offer the option of dressing up. I can also get the appeal of dress-up even if it's not my cup of tea, but I prefer them to look completely casual and neutral with no make-up. I basically request this to a woman since she offered and she looked perfect. All the make-up and extraneous stuff just takes away from natural beauty.
I usually show up in shorts and t-shirt cos SoCal sucks and I don't want to be sweaty, but ideally I'd like to look at least a little better than that. Sowwy.
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Nails, toes, hair, make up & lingerie always with me
Unless im asked not to.
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It seems pretty unanimous that outfit requests / making an effort to be presentable is both a good thing and should sort of be a reasonable part of any shared encounter. Thanks for confirming, thought I was going crazy there for a second!
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My goal is to make a guy say that I look better in person than my pics. And I don't wear perfume unless asked to. Don't want to front off the married ones.
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Exactly BB We always look the sexiest in the outfits that are picked out especially for us by you guys 🥰
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I have bought lingerie for the ladies I see regularly. Nothing like having them put on the sexy outfit, show me and then me removing it....
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Stripper heels, please bring them
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Going lingerie shopping with a sexy lady is also fun. Imagining what each item will look like on her sexy body is a total turn on. And then actually seeing the items on her when we get back to her place is awesome.
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Ms BlondeBliss always looks beautiful whenever I get to see her! Her style and choice of outfits are always spot on and quite sexy!!
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Jazz51
Totally agree
The image of them trying on different outfits in intoxicating.
I always want to be at my best. Showered, clean shaven trimmed nails even a bit of manscaping.
Seems fair if we are to ask for their best.
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It's completely acceptable to request an outfit you've seen in previous posted photos. Also it is part of the ladies responsibility to appear presentable.
If completely nude works for you then no clothes, is ideal.  I personally love being gifted lingerie or hearing requests for an outfit.
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Big 56...you are correct!
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I guess it might come down to making sure the one you are expecting it from offers that kind of an experience. You would think to dress appropriately would be expected but guess again! Welcome to the new reality, just kidding but I'm guilty of it myself but if u have to dress the whole part everyday , days on end and sometimes several times a day to be clean and fresh each time, then at a certain point it can become a non realistic expectation, guys...just my experience. Plus I also juggle a 8 year old child and an alternate life of single parent. So upon request ya its possible but if u don't then don't expect it. I've never had any complaints, from any one who had the balls enough to say it that is. IDK
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VenomousViolet you are the Bomb best ever had
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If were talking about expectations, then I think the most important expectation is good hygiene. Freshly showered, clean, and personal hygiene is the only real expectation that matters to most people.
It should go both ways as well. Men should be just as immaculate as they expect the ladies to be.
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As I am sure it has been said:
I find it appalling that some ladies do not get "ready" for an appointment. Fresh shower, made-up (if that is how they represent themselves), looking sexy and well put together.
Specific requests as was said, needs to be planned.
Specific requests often are so specific down to a "role" and "scenario", and that is not always everyone's cup of tea.
Lastly we all have attributes that we love to accentuate. We also have other attributes that may not be as flattering in certain attire. If I am meeting someone for the first time, I want to be comfortable and come out strong, wearing something I FEEL great in. Once I know them and they know me, if they ask for outfits that I may not feel as good in, I am happy to wear them for them, because I already know we are going to have fun.
I hope that makes sense and helps to understand why some don't do requests.
I am in NO WAY condoning greeting new friends in a sloppy, just rolled out of bed, unprepared look.
Have a great evening y'all.
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I'm an odd one.
I actually request a lady to dress down, with very little make-up when visiting me.
I'm cool with yoga pants, jeans, loose or tight shirt, tennis shoes, etc.
I already saw the glam pictures; I want the real person underneath.
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Interesting that no one has mentioned how a client might dress.
Guys: women look at you, as well. If you expect her to act and feel sexy, consider bringing your best-dressed self to the party.
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sam_wilson, I have had a few requests like that and don't find them odd at all.
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@uprightfun- I'm always dressed as if I'm on a first date. I also make sure I have showered and groomed myself no more than 60mins before appointment time so I am as fresh and clean as possible. I want to present myself as well as possible to ease her comfort. The more at ease she is with me, the more we can relax and focus on fun.
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A BIG THANK YOU to all the guys who are considerate and bring their "A" game to the date!
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Yes roles of nurse, cowgirl, real estate agent, pirate wench, spongebath betty are among some requests I get and fullfill. Especially back in nc where my wardrobe is huge.
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@Tatiana36dd
Let's see some new pictures with those outfits.
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