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*SPECIALS*
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It would help if you had, you know, classified ads up and stuff.
Oh, and something in your profile would probably help too.
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Maybe look at other ladies' pics to get some ideas for classy sexy. Just laying on a bed in a motel is a dime a dozen.
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join some clubs on hx, post a classified and partake in a blog or two.
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Host a Bukakke Party
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"Hey literally just made my hx..."
OP, 1st of all, complete your sentences. I think you were trying to say you just started your HX account. In that case, you're wrong. "Literally" means not figuratively but literally... meaning EXACTY what you said. But you started your account YESTERDAY, NOT TODAY.
So all this means to me is that you're another person who's prone to exaggeration, which makes my eyes roll.
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Used to be a lot more people on hx in the past years it’s slower now
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@SonOfAdams... EXACTY is not a word. Lol.
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If you search for level 1 and up male members that are in the North County of SD Coastal (close to Carlsbad (you do this under the People button above), there are only 61 males that meet that qualification. Of those 61, they a bunch of them probably have not met with any lady in a while. The rest have many other obligations, so they are not even looking to met anyone.
Now if you change that to Orange County Central (include Irvine), there are 837 males that meet the same criteria. Of course there are also a lot more ladies posting ads in that location.Where do you think your odds are better. This is coming from someone in Santa Barbara, where the odds are very low, thus we hardly ever get any ladies visiting.
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Ashley... D'oh! 
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On a similar note, I hate that I got into this hobby late too with so little traffic. Saw plenty of great women, but I'm sure it was all so much better before.
But your best help would be to look at references. Look at other women's profiles, how they write, and how they take pictures. I personally don't need to see face, but the "assets" are the most important.
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^^^. Yes it was, but I also spent my spawn’s inheritance.
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Mail stimulus checks. That should boost your traffic.
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Maybe better sexy pictures ?
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Join the n00bz club.
Advertise
To become trusted, you need people in your network. Many will not see you because of a small or non existing network. The n00bz club has a list of people willing to meet with newbies.
A proof of life photo may be helpful. Write the current date on paper and post of picture of you holding it for all to see. If using the selfie mode, please rotate your pic so it's not backwards.
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Advertise and just be patient
90 percent of my friends comes from word of mouth, recommendations and reviews
You will catch people based off of your looks, you will keep people based off of how you treat them and how good you make them feel
Man are also out of sight, out of mind, be consistent
You don't have to give deals or show pussy lol if a man wants to see you he will but if you choose to give deals do it because you want to and not because of someone else
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Totally agree with darthspiker
Your pictures can be alittle better on your poses.
Review some of the other ladies pictures for ideas...Like
Tastyluv ...Brix.ton and Ashley..all sexy bodies..
On your menu...try to be more detail on it that way we know what you are offering..
Your donation seem to be the average most ladies are asking...
But the donation for bbbj....yikes !!! Houston we have a problem...
I would stress hygiene for the gentleman visiting...wondering if that's the reason for your cost..
Best of luck
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Also maybe have someone help with photos?
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Look at June pictures....totally awsome..
Plus has great advise...
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Hobby Lobby is hiring.
Try there.
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When you were on Backpage, the economy was better and there were more guys
with money to spend.
Now the guys with money are older and moving on.
The current generation are woke and broke.
For the next few years, life on HX will be difficult as the economy will be down.
That means fewer guys with money to burn.
Prices will have to be reasonable and services top notch, otherwise
you will be eliminated by your competition.
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Getting a real paying job can solve most of your problems.
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Don't listen to these girls talking about business is slow
There are too many girls making plenty of money
The truth of the matter is a lot of these girls can't see the Forrest for the trees and have price themselves out of the market that is why it's slow for them
All you need is some decent pictures (up to date) and a decent rate and you will get inquiries
If you are not getting any business majority of the time is the rates you're asking for is not matching your looks and services so you may need to adjust.
It's going to get worse a recession is near so many more women will jumping back into the sex industry. Many of these new girls were not around in the 2008 recession when money was scarce and jobs were hard to come by
Better get it together now while you still got time because a lot of these girls won't survive this next recession and you don't want to be one of them
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The current generation is woke and broke, I love the catch phrase
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Well, Matrix, you can't say pictures or (others' advice) pricing is everything.
Here's advice for HX women in general: For God's sake, quit getting fat! Watch the size of your ass & legs. Most of us like slim girls who don't appear to have hygiene problems. No one is obligated to provide you with a comfortable living.
Competition is good. You have to measure up to others or you won't benefit from being here for long.
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I also feel Carlsbad area is more limited
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Effort helps, goes a long way actually.
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Lose 100 lbs.
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am sure the valley and DTLA have a larger pool of gents to see and visit you.. carlsbad is a pretty small area. i would suggest a part time civie job though. makes getting an apartment a lot easier when you have paystub to show. hotel liveing is damn expensive. esp when biz is slow......
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Just be patient
Have a networking SPECIAL!
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A smile goes a long way and you may want to lose 50 pounds if this is to be your chosen profession.
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Savage…lol
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Hook me up with a freebie and I will spread the word around 
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Hey, as Nick Lowe sang in '79, "Cruel to be kind, in the right measure..."
So anyway, yes, ladies, stop getting so friggin' fat, OK? It's really a turn off. 
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Lmfao at fat 60 year old men telling women not to get fat .
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If I can't get fat then you can't get bald 🤣😂😂😂 .
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@TheMatrixx, statically you are incorrect. I saw a research paper on sex workers
that indicated that only a small percentage of sex workers actually make a lot of money,
most do not. One indication of the difficulty in making money as a sex worker, is the
high turnover.
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If a girl is a quality companion, with great service the turnover rate won't matter
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This is a business and you HAVE to treat it as such. Be consistent with your interactions. Men are the out of sight out of mind so if youre not replying back or posting pics they kinda forget about you or assume youre away. Even if you're not available you should still reply back to messages. My issue is that I'll go away for a month and not check PMs and usually men are looking for something "here and now", or they assume that you're not reliable because you're never around .. you do not have to give deals, in fact I hardly ever do, so if you do them make sure it's because you want to and not because men are making you feel like you have to. BUT remember that your prices reflect you! Can't charge 300 to have someone meet you at a motel 6, or if you don't take the time to take care of yourself. It's not a competition but you should definitely check out other ladies and get a feel of what others are doing
Looks don't truly matter but service, hygiene, professionalism, consideration, and how you make someone feels goes a long way
Also here's a tip: Sundays are terrible days to post because people have family and other obligations and Fridays are terrible because of traffic . When posting photos the best times to upload is between 6am-9pm
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maybe develop a MUST-SEE specialty
girl in VEGAS could hit ceiling...so made it a point to get in...it was extremely hard and had to have other people call and get me in as a favor
chick ended up shooting it over my head into my suitcase about 10 feet away. almost put my eye out before that as i had to duck a bit.
or make a guy hit the ceiling...maybe with the magic finger?? once they catch wind of this...demand goes up...yes, not everyone is interested in hitting the ceiling, BUT once those that are, find you? the sky's the limit...maybe it's two magic fingers?
it can be anything btw...something that differentiates you a bit among the many
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