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Who were the out calls with that flaked?
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I’m decompressing from the heat and then reviewing them 🤦🏽♀️
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In my experience, if the commitment takes more than 3 or 4 PMs/ texts, things are not going to happen the way they should. I usually step away ta that point.
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@bwana that’s the thing! They were both quick and efficient and stated what they wanted right away. It took about 4-5 messages with no one word answers. That’s why I’m a little confused on why they were no shows. Especially when local to my incall in the valley (maybe 15 min).
One texted me after I got back to my room and explained it was family and maybe will receive an extra chance as he wants to tip. The other I was mistaken and he’s not from HX (thank goodness), but from my other site. Still a little weird.
I ended up seeing another nice client, so I’m feeling a little so-so
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Rate the profile negative reliable. Enough girls do so and no one will ever see them in the future. Or require a deposit from those who have proven themselves to be unreliable.
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From now on Hun, just ask for deposits. No need to waste time and money on Bullshit Bitches!
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deposit or ask for Uber/Lyft?
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Alexis,
I see that you still haven't rated back to 2 guys who rated you in Safety on 8/31.
Also you still have not rated the 2 Flakes today.
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When you are Rated/Networked , You should Rate/Network the person back,
It doesn't have to be a positive rating, just an honest rating.
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Also, do the same if you get flaked on and the person doesn't have a legit excuse.
Sometimes things happen beyond our control.
It's up to you believe the excuse or not.
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Just my $.02
chaco
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@chaco thank you!! I’ll be mindful to leave an honest ratings.
One no show wasn’t form HX and came from my other sites (thank god), but I gave the other two I honest ratings. Thanks for letting me know it’s a courtesy to rate back as well!
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"In my experience, if the commitment takes more than 3 or 4 PMs/ texts, things are not going to happen the way they should."
Yes. In my experience, this is true.
Somebody on Twitter actually kept track, made a spreadsheet, etc. Even though she could only use her own texts, according to her data, the more somebody texts, the less likely they are to make and show up for an appointment. And the data was not even close. Lol. My own experience is pretty much the same.
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I love outcalls ❤️
My advice:
1. Always check for recent and reliable network.
(Recent is good reliable is better) I look at the gents network to see if the ladies who are on there have posted in the recent days or if I know them personally.
2. Feel out his vibe through conversation,
“hey come over” is not as good as “hello my name is blank my info is….height weight age….I’d like to see you on “date/time”, I am located in “city”, my number is “#”, detailed messages tell you that they are serious and want to see you or have been eyeing your profile for a while.
3. Trust your gut!
If you feel at any moment like meeting them is not a good idea, simply tell them you are not a match.
These are just a few, I hope you have better experiences. Best wishes.
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Agree with ninja
I practically only do outs. I feel safer and can enjoy my time without rushing .
I rarely get flakes for outs which is why I like it better
Reference checks are so important. I realized a lot of women are careless or give lack of details in their notes to men so i always prefer at least 3 peoples experiences before i decide to go forward or not.
I think it's just a part of having a business. I sale things on offer up and you wouldn't believe how many people inquire and even go as far as asking for an address then nothing. Of course I always meet them at target or Starbucks so I'm not worried about them knowing where I live, but man the time wasters are definitely a thing.
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I agree with you both and that’s typically how I operate. But I think what’s throwing me off is people don’t really want to send a deposit on HX and just depend on the network, which is fine as I’m getting used to this platform.
I’m used to receiving deposits on Tryst and PrivateDelights and clients sending their screening information upfront, so I’m not assed out when traveling out. Luckily it was $40 I made back in no time, but it was a little odd to me.
I’ve had quite a few on here tell me I’m wrong or I won’t last long promoting when requesting deposits and screening info, so my natural inclination was to be as consistent as most are on here.
Now I know to stick to what I know and keeps me safe and not in the red, and request for it ☺️
Thank you both!!
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Its LOTS of pros and cons in this business, Incalls can be tuff (in my opinion) unless you got reliable clients or clients you already know will show up for SURE!. You have to really plan accordingly, well that's what I do when I get ready to host . Because no one wants to be stood up or let alone lose money. But I love outcalls that's all I provide, plus it just isnt possible for me to sit in a hotel all day. Got to have other business adventures or hustles , so you don't have too.
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If you are asking private Delights thank you s. A possible reason for a lot of hx no shows. These are two different worlds. Deposits could be another reason. Good luck here.
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Every time you log on, you agree that this website urges all website users not to use the Network Rating system to decide whether to meet any other website Users.
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You are not going to get members here to send you a deposit if you can't cover potential loses then don't do outcalls many girls only do incalls for that very reason
PD and other sites guys are desperate and gullible will take the risk of losing money for any piece of ass
The charlie question comes up every time you rate someone would you loan that 1,000 dollars 99 percent of the time the answer is no. The question is for situations like this with girls asking guys for deposits which is just another form of loaning them money.
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Like I said, I’m happy to acclimate to how HX works and luckily I met some very nice guys on here yesterday and the day before. And there’s losses and profits with every business. I was curious because if you’re just trusting a client or provider to come, what assurance do you have aside from ratings?
Keepi in mind, I have NOT requested or asked for deposits. I just trust they show up if they care about their rating for now. I’m lucky to not be eating the cost of hosting incalls because they are paid for by someone else and I just prefer having people come to me unless I’m wanting to get out for the latter half of the month.
My regulars are from PD or Tryst and I wouldn’t call them gullible, desperate, etc. by any stretch of the means. They’re really cool people who just been seeing providers for a long time and know the game. But thank you for letting me know more about the consistency of HX.
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I was mainly curious if this was a trend on here, because I can count on one hand how often it happens to me, and it happened twice the same day although with one client being from HX who had a somewhat good explanation.
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