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Jan 21 2022 11:56AM more by HoldingHeidi
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

I'm interested in knowing what your red flags are? Whether it be during the scouting process or upon arrival, what are your absolute no-no's or mind changers?

And GO!
      
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NickSgv
OC, CA
56 blogs/1773 comments
since May 6 2019

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Jan 21 2022 01:15PM     link to this

Bigger ass than mine.


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longwalker
CA
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since Apr 27 2017

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Jan 21 2022 01:23PM     link to this

Not the person in the profile pictures.
A really messy room.
Bad attitude.
grooviefan
Cypress, OC, CA
506 blogs/7452 comments
since Jun 28 2008

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Jan 21 2022 02:41PM     link to this

bad breath, smoker, like was posted above, a dick bigger then mine.... when she bends over and there is paper between her cheeks. lol nails that look like daggers.
dakegg
LA, CA
9 blogs/817 comments
since Jun 8 2006

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Jan 21 2022 02:41PM     link to this

If they use pronouns.
John86_s
LA, CA
1 blogs/14 comments
since Mar 29 2012

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Jan 21 2022 03:07PM     link to this

^ lol you just used a pronoun
labiafarmer
LA, CA
2 blogs/89 comments
since Jun 25 2008

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Jan 21 2022 03:23PM     link to this

Other people in the room hiding 🙈
NPembrush
Lake Forest, OC, CA
50 blogs/1338 comments
since Jul 19 2018

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Jan 21 2022 03:40PM     link to this

Her place smells like a can of mackerel.
She smells like a can of mackerel.
(She can look like a can of mackerel though as long as she has great boobs)
She answers the door while talking to someone else.
The fire Department is currently battling a major fire at her residence.
The address she gave you is for McDonald's
A sheep answers the door.
She charges at me with a kitchen knife.
gunner67
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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since Oct 19 2009

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Jan 21 2022 03:48PM     link to this

Up selling
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
145 blogs/784 comments
since Jan 6 2012

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Jan 21 2022 04:13PM     link to this

Attitude
Reputation
Sketchy Network
High Risk Requests


PSHorneycouple
Palm Springs/Coachella Valley, Inland Empire, CA
20 blogs/549 comments
since Sep 14 2018

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Jan 21 2022 04:40PM     link to this

Canned response for any question/pm sent.
Grumpy_Butthead
NM
2174 blogs/22728 comments
since Jan 30 2016

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Jan 21 2022 05:27PM     link to this

Bigger tits and moustache than mine.
jackrabbit33
La Jolla, San Diego, CA
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since May 14 2012

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Jan 21 2022 05:34PM     link to this

She doesn't look like anything close to advertised pictures.

Sometimes it's better to just walk than reform expectations.

NutandBolt
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jan 21 2022 05:42PM     link to this

Anything with the words:

Motel

Motor Inn

or

La Quinta
NPembrush
Lake Forest, OC, CA
50 blogs/1338 comments
since Jul 19 2018

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Jan 21 2022 05:51PM     link to this

The worst is when the person has no network at all.
mildlyamusing1
West Hollywood, LA, CA
44 blogs/3122 comments
since Jul 30 2007

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Jan 21 2022 06:04PM     link to this

Bad reputation is an automatic non-starter.

Being ambiguous or never seems to answer a question directly.

A dirty room suggests she’s dirty (and not in a good way).






GaijinHo
Summerlin, Vegas, NV
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since Oct 19 2019

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Jan 21 2022 06:23PM     link to this

Calls me "hon" on the first text back.
Quat
Santa Monica, LA, CA
3 blogs/566 comments
since Jul 19 2017

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Jan 21 2022 06:29PM     link to this

1) Anti-vaxxers and Trump supporters
2) Active twitter accounts where gifts are expected for the whole month of their birthday, gifts from guys are floutly daily and there are constant complaints about clients that did not send wads of money their way during the COVID outbreak.
3) When prices double for no fucking reason.
4) Insane screening requirements
5) Porn babes withr GPS all the Richter scale
lachef
Marina Del Rey, LA, CA
362 blogs/1939 comments
since Sep 18 2007

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Jan 21 2022 06:49PM     link to this

1. Face tats.
2. Fake (or misrepresentative) pictures.
3. Bad Reviews
mildlyamusing1
West Hollywood, LA, CA
44 blogs/3122 comments
since Jul 30 2007

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Jan 21 2022 07:08PM     link to this

Do not heavily edit your pictures. Stop using filters. We can tell when you use them. It is deceptive.

We all would like to put out best foot forward, but your pictures need to be representative of the person who opens the door.






SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
82 blogs/2492 comments
since Jun 12 2015

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Jan 21 2022 08:57PM     link to this

No one said, maturity..... Phewwww.. well not yet
RespectfulJoe
Lancaster, North of LA, LA, CA
37 blogs/197 comments
since Sep 17 2012

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Jan 21 2022 09:25PM     link to this

over 130
over 30
fake lips
more makeup than a clown
unvaccinated
Non-GFE
Stretch marks
extremely long nails
cold sores
bad reviews
racists (30% of the women here and 99% of the Asian houses)
obscured face
kcsun
OC, CA
11 blogs/296 comments
since Jun 25 2010

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Jan 21 2022 10:42PM     link to this

Stinky Va Ga Ga
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
264 blogs/5900 comments
since Aug 17 2009

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Jan 21 2022 10:46PM     link to this

Inflation.

Believing the lies that are Covid. Give it another six months.
But some are to closed minded to change. I just gona sit back and watch you live it now.
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TNBE
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 22 2022 02:32AM     link to this

I agree with Jackrabbit...
Mozis
Pomona, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 22 2022 05:04AM     link to this

yacker
shut the fuck up and get down to business
Mozis
Pomona, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 22 2022 05:06AM     link to this

oh and fake titties
Airmobile
Coastal, LA, CA
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since May 22 2015

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Jan 22 2022 07:47AM     link to this

10 years older and 20 pounds heavier.
sirsquirt
Escondido, San Diego, CA
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since Jan 24 2018

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Jan 22 2022 08:22AM     link to this

The nose doesn't lie. JWM
GinaGalaxy
AL
762 blogs/4604 comments
since Jan 8 2017

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Jan 22 2022 09:54AM     link to this

When showers are forbidden
Even for her.
This is why she has acne booty--
TomD92801
OC, CA
159 blogs/1966 comments
since Dec 16 2009

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Jan 22 2022 10:38AM     link to this

When I knock on the door and nobody answers it. BIG red flag!
mildlyamusing1
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jan 22 2022 11:07AM     link to this

Since we are being honest here, you can be the hottest woman on earth but if you have a bad attitude, have many restrictions because you feel you can get away with it, and give me a shitty experience, I’ll never see you again.

Business 101 dictates that it is easier to keep a customer than to find a new one. Do you want to see each customer once or 30 times? Be smart. Improve your attitude. Be service oriented.







Zeros
Fullerton, OC, CA
33 blogs/1558 comments
since Apr 7 2015

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Jan 22 2022 11:15AM     link to this

Leaves me hanging in the parking lot for over 15+ minutes.


NPembrush
Lake Forest, OC, CA
50 blogs/1338 comments
since Jul 19 2018

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Jan 22 2022 11:20AM     link to this

Coughing. Yellow-tinged eyes.
Facephuckker
Austin, TX
149 blogs/9751 comments
since Sep 10 2009

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Jan 22 2022 12:08PM     link to this

that dead fish or rancid cow odor
thebacknine
Fontana, Inland Empire, CA
6 blogs/729 comments
since Oct 5 2008

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Jan 22 2022 05:29PM     link to this

Bigger stomach than me!!!
JR718
Newport Beach, OC, CA
302 blogs/4383 comments
since Jun 26 2012

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Jan 23 2022 01:42AM     link to this

Dirty feet upon arrival is a no go
Full Chest tats
Face tats
Old pics taken at angles from above
Bad attitude
Dascha
OC, CA
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since Aug 7 2020

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Jan 23 2022 09:05AM     link to this

-Disrespectful when they don't like menu 🤬
-Demanding or stepping over boundaries 👞
-Poor hygiene or chain smoker 💨

gilbert33
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
84 blogs/859 comments
since Feb 7 2012

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Jan 23 2022 09:51AM     link to this

Her teeth is in a glass by the bed.
ladodgerfan
Anaheim, OC, CA
41 blogs/217 comments
since Feb 6 2007

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Jan 23 2022 09:56AM     link to this

Smokers
People who post ads, but never respond to your PM
No pics in profile but will advertise?
Attitude.
flyboy1
Woodland Hills, SFV, LA, CA
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Jan 24 2022 05:03AM     link to this

When you ask if you can use the bathroom and there is a used condom floating in the toilette.
SugarPuss4u
CA
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Jan 24 2022 05:49AM     link to this

One question to freespirit4u

What does “I have to go ORE” exactly mean?! It made me laugh - not sure why please elaborate?

😮
havingthings74
OC, CA
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since Apr 17 2006

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Jan 24 2022 06:46AM     link to this

- Making you wait 10+ minutes in parking lot after scheduled appointment time.
- Making you wait 1+ minute at door after you said to come up.
- Covering stomach. You hiding a tat or belly?
- Heavy perfumes, smells, smoke, etc.
- Pics with dudes in the mirror or background.
June.Moon
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
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Jan 24 2022 07:01AM     link to this

Dirty feet
Smelly body/ bad breath
Rude/arrogant
Unsafe behavior
Substance use
Cheap/haggler
talks alot/gossip/asks too many personal questions
Inconsiderate


Really the list can go on and on lol
June.Moon
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
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Jan 24 2022 07:03AM     link to this

And some of these answers are just obsurd 🤣
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