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ArabianQueen
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Cyber Bullying
Feb 20 2022 07:10AM more by ArabianQueen
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Is not ok. It should not be condoned. Have we forgotten how cyber bullying kill people? Ladies if you have an issue with another member please feel free to reach out to me or any other trusted member.

This last two years has been hard on many, we don't need to fuel the fire. There is one member in particular that has continually harassed, talked down to and bullies other members of this site.

This is not acceptable on any social networking site

So if you need to reach out please do

And any member willing to help another in need when going through this please post below.
      
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bird
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Feb 20 2022 07:30AM     link to this

Very well said.
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Feb 20 2022 07:56AM     link to this


There is a block button that everyone on the site has access to. If you have a PM from someone you feel is harassing you, click the blue power icon under their name in their message. Voila. No more messages.

Each phone has a block feature as well though it varies by manufacturer. And voila, no more texts. And any phone calls go straight to voicemail.

FlappyNutSack
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Feb 20 2022 08:36AM     link to this

I know it’s different for ladies trying to conduct business, but I never block folks. They usually dig themselves deeper and it often makes for entertaining reading.
ArabianQueen
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Feb 20 2022 09:41AM     link to this

Mental health is important and should be addressed.
Some are strong enough to block and move on, some it will affect extremely, and others just won't stand for it(like myself)

I do not care about others who get a rise in making others feel less then.

It should be frowned upon essentially via internet today.

ArabianQueen
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Feb 20 2022 09:47AM     link to this

When you get upset or you are intoxicated or you just feel like trolling to get negative attention, that's how it starts.

You want to think before you act. How would you feel of someone decided to take their life or got into a dangerous situation because YOU decided to pm ot text and harass them.

Is all this really worth it after all the family and friends we have lost in these last two years.

Please if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all
If you see something say something
If a anyone needs help or is struggling please reach out.

If not the least what are we all here for.
TheWickedWitch
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Feb 20 2022 12:27PM     link to this

AQ ! You are my cyber HERO!
1hotlatina_lives
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Feb 20 2022 12:52PM     link to this

Well said AQ
Nobody should be harass in any way
TSAmariDiamond
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Feb 20 2022 01:35PM     link to this

AGREED.
ArabianQueen
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Feb 20 2022 02:40PM     link to this

Please all the above ladies and anyone else interested in discussing and helping this matter join my club ArabianQueen

We have a current blog going that we can discuss in private

Gentlemen are welcome

Club: ArabianQueen
ArabianQueen
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Feb 20 2022 02:44PM     link to this

Thank you ladies we must encourage and help one another keeping our thoughts positive and our words sincere

In life we must treat our neighbor with love, no judgment, and if we see a problem or fault we should help or teach another instead of insulting or making fun of

TheAlterEgo
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Feb 20 2022 06:55PM     link to this

There is a certain lady on Hx, who likes to go hard at ladies and then acts like nothing is her fault.
She likes to go after Latinas and she's Latina herself. Very sad!
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Feb 20 2022 10:05PM     link to this

Agreed. Thank you Queen
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Feb 21 2022 07:08PM     link to this

Love your advocacy for mental health here AQ ♡♡ let me get in invite to that club plz
Milanaa
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Feb 21 2022 11:37PM     link to this

Well said !
ArabianQueen
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Feb 22 2022 10:38AM     link to this

I wish people could accept others for what they are , not for what they aren't. Stop Bullying, words hurt! We all have flaws in the end, so think before you speak, maybe you can save a life! -Dedicated to all the victims of bullying around the world, speak up!
CaliforniaGirl21
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Feb 22 2022 09:40PM     link to this

Oh wow, I absolutely agree with all of it 100 percent. Sometimes is not just the bullying but also the passive-aggressive gaslighting it takes a toll on an individual's mental health. this is why being empathetic and mindful shows good character and understanding from the person being considerate of the bully. Thank you so much for your post. I feel is important to create awareness and make it known that is not cool to be a bully.


I am inspired by this post to be also mindful and aware. Think before talking as words my not see hurt for the person saying them but they are for the person on the receiving end. it is about mindfulness and perspective. we all are different and that's the beauty of it all.


Great Post Queen! Thanks.
ArabianQueen
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Feb 23 2022 08:20AM     link to this

Thank you girl I loved what you said sooo very much!

I hope everyone is having a beautiful day 💛
June.Moon
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Feb 23 2022 11:18AM     link to this

AQ


I know we've had our issues in the past but I can absolutely say that one thing I've always appreciated about you is that even with the history given, you've always been nothing but mature in our interactions. Your efforts in constantly trying to make this place better and more fun have not went unnoticed. I definitely thank you for your contests and even words of encouragement towards the ladies. The crap we have to deal with on here from the men is already overwhelming, we don't need other women putting each other down or putting our men down and harassing them too. And sadly it's not as simple as blocking someone and moving on when it doesn't block them against commenting towards you in blogs.



I thank you for this blog! This place has so much potential and what we allow on here reflects what this site is about.
ArabianQueen
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Feb 23 2022 03:47PM     link to this

June.moon

Yes and I always appreciate you as well you have an amazing mind and I appreciate mature woman like you more of us need to come together and encourage one another and keep the negativity out

Good woman make the world go round XOXO
Alexandra.Davis
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Feb 25 2022 10:02AM     link to this

Love this BLOG topic! It amazes me how most people have the courage to be bullies behind their key boards or on their phones but are really scared lil people themselves. It seems that people that are cyber bullies more then likely have been physically bully in their lives. And this is their way of unleashing their pain is to make others feel they way they feel.

Not saying that it’s right, because there is really no excuse for inflecting your pains, misery or problems onto someone else.

I’ve been a victim of cyber bullying and luckily I was able to track down the person and confront them. It end of being some random girl that went to my school that had a crush on me but was upset because I didn’t acknowledge her presence whenever she came around me. (This was before I knew I was bisexual) But we had a nice long talk and came to an understanding that what she doing was wrong and we became decent friends.

Thank AQ for these encouraging words. Hopefully others can find some peace thru this cyber bullying area that we’re in.
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Feb 25 2022 12:32PM     link to this

CALL. THEM. OUT. BY. NAME.
No abuser gets to stay anonymous.
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