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Very tough J. I hope it works out for the best.
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I am very sorry to hear. It is never easy to loose our pets. I will just say this. As a pet owner I don't want to see my pet suffer at all.Putting my dog down would absolutely kill me, but I don't want him to suffer on my account. I think you are wise to get a Vet's opinion.
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culter-exactly! I rather give him a "day to remember" before he goes.He needs a beach day,park day,one last hump lol and an ice cream day followed by mad cuddles before im ready to put him down. I rather him "go" in peace too.I dont want him to suffer at all and thats why i just cant be selfish but then again id hate to just say oh he had A seizure its time to let him go,no! I need a vet to look at him and do watever test THEN tell me is it worth still keeping him or better off,for him,to be put down so hes not suffering. Im not sure if the seizure caused any damage or what. I love him so much I need an expert. Last night all emergency vets were at capacity so i couldnt take him anywhere. then i tried getting him an exam with a vet and that was ridiculous i finally was able to find a place so he goes tomorrow.
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The vets can diagnose to see if medication will help. I had a golden retriever and she had retinitis and an enlarged heart since she was 3. She also ended up having seizures, but was taking medication for her eyes, heart and seizures.
We got her a lab pal at 5 and they had a wonderful life. She lived until 13 and my lab lived 19 years.
Talk about 💔.
I hope your lil guy well🙏
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Whatever the diagnosis, you gotta be in the room during the dog’s last seconds of life. So many people find it too hard to do so but can you imagine it from doggo’s viewpoint? the last seconds of his life on a cold table surrounded by people he doesn’t know?
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^ Most def. will be,as hard as it will be i will def. be right by his side the whole way
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e are never ready Jayden.
When my baby boy had to be put down, it happened quickly. He went from an active and jumping and playing Pit mix, to not eating and barely getting out of his bed within 2 days. Same thing, they gave him water and electrolytes, and he was better that evening. The next day it was bad...I had to carry outside for him to pee.
Took him to emergency. His stomach was filled with blood. Had to get an mri at another clinic right away. Again, I had to carry him in. The mri showed he had cancer all over his spleen and spreading. Surgery and Chemo was an option, but my friend who is a vet told me that with medication and chemo he would only last 3 months max, and would not be the same dog.
I decided that I did not want him to go through all of that. He was already in pain, couldn't eat, relieve himself or even walk. He gave me everything, he had given me love when I needed it most. He would have lived every second in misery for me if I let him. It was time for me to let him go and take him out of his pain.
I held him as he passed and looked into his eyes as they went glassy. I told him I loved him and that I would see him soon.
I cried more than I have since I was a young kid, the kind of cry that you can barely breathe and huff and gasp for air.
It was awful, but in the end, he knew I loved him and I knew he loved me.
We will lose a lot of pets in our lives, but the hardest ones to take will be those who were truly our babies and confidants.
I hope your baby is ok and they can help him with meds.
Love you lots sweetie.
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My thoughts are with you.
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I truly pray that the seizure was somehow related to anesthesia / oral surgery and not something more serious. Regardless, its very wise of you to at least contemplate what almost all pet owners dread. I recently had to show my best friend (Kitty) how much I do indeed love him by holding his paw and singing to him while he crossed the rainbow bridge. I say I "DO" love him and not "Did" love him because I refuse to believe that he was. I believe with every atom in my being that he still IS. He's just in a different state of consciousness and it won't be long until my current state of consciousness ends and another begins where I can be with him again.
I hope this helps:
https://www.rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
I'm very proud of you for your decision to be with him when it's time for him to move on. It also seems like this may be your first time. If it is, I feel compelled to mention a few things that I wasn't prepared for that I wish I had been because I have no doubt it would have made the experience less difficult.
sfvguy45 's suggestion regarding in home euthanasia is in my opinion the biggest thing you can do. I had 4 or 5 different services that cover SoCal lined up (I'd be happy to share the ones I thought were the best if you'd like) but, Murphy's Law stepped in so we had to go with Plan B which was an after hours ER Clinic Vet that he had seen 3 times before, She was perfect and familiar to him.
Regardless of how it's done, be prepared to NOT BE Prepared:
After discussing limited options with 3 different vets, I decided, like you, that I would take him home first in order to smother him with love and affection. This decision slightly backfired:'s The first day was great and served to strengthen my decision when I would see him suffer just to go to the litter box, The following day wasn't what I thought it would be. Leading up to the time I was going to take him in, Murphy Law stepped in again and suddenly he was "Bright Eyed & Bushy Tailed" giving me love in return while I was telling him how much I loved him and how much I dreaded what I HAD to do. I must have second guessed my decision a thousand times but I forced myself to do what had to be done.
The experience was what you can imagine it would be but what I wasn't prepared for was that in spite of me knowing that I was doing the right thing and that I know without any doubt that he would want the same, the feeling that I was "Betraying" him kept creeping in my mind. If that happens to you fight it !!! Because it's B.S. Betrayal would be if you selfishly strung him out suffering longer just for your own sake.
The other thing that I wasn't prepared for at all was how his "Partner in Crime: that he grew up with and was around his entire life (15 yrs) would react. When I returned I just looked at her and just said that he had left and we'd see him again someday soon. The following morning she was searching for him all over the house Meowing in distress. IT BROKE MY HEART in a way I can't describe and 10X more than the night before. I couldn't do anything to make her stop so we just cried together. I suspect it might have been easier had he left at home rather than at the ER. My son went through a similar situation with his German Shepards and he said that the other was very calm about it. As if he had already come to peace with it. Even at that very last moment.
What did help a little was advice that I received to immediately get rid or things that were unique to him. I didn't do so immediately but when I finally did a couple of day later, I did notice a small difference and wished I had done so sooner. (Don't see it as disrespectful as I did initially, see it as a way of not putting salt on a wound by reminding you that he's gone) Unfortunately nothing can completely take away the pain but as my late Mother used to say in Spanish "No hay dolor que dura 100 anos, Ni quien lo puede aguantar" (A pain that lasts 100 yrs doesn't exist, nor does Anyone who could handle it if it did) or "Time heals all wounds"
No matter what, be content with knowing that he loves you as much, if not more for the wonderful happy, loving and caring life that you gave him. Sadly, there are many animals that don't get the same !!!
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^ we’ve been playing fetch all day with his favorite toy,lots of cuddles and he even enjoyed some ice cream. Now he’s cuddled up on my side with his gingerbread man and we’re just chilling waiting to see what tomorrow brings. While he was seizing his sisters were barking and trying to get to him to help him I know when he was attacked last month by a possum and I took him everywhere with me and the two others stayed home I watched on the cameras as they searched and searched for him so I’m dreading that for them when I take him and don’t return with him right away. I was actually reading about when and how to put your dog down and came across in-house as well and thought about doing that instead of having him on a cold table I rather him laying down in one of his beds with his blanket and his toys 😢
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Sorry babe. Our fur babies sure find a way into our hearts.
Hope it all works out.
Nick
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Friends of mine years ago, have had cats with seizures and they were told it was no big deal
That's Real tough. I think of my dog everyday. So magnificent, but torture that they have a short life span.
In house service is better scenario the shot they'll yelp and just pet them till asleep in your arms.
Memorial ideas:
There's services that can create dog hair to yarn for sweaters are scarfs.
Woman Makes Sweaters Out Of Dog Hair
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bc7fYEQ6hrI
Pawns in paint on paper, to frame. probably have to trick them to think it's their idea.
Or more difficult in plaster
Best wishes to you and your family
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I'm sorry that you have to go through this. My heart is with you. I know exactly how you feel. In my family I have always been the one that had to be the one to take that final journey with our furry family members. It's hard to look into their eyes knowing what is going on, but I think it is harder looking into thier eyes when they are constantly in pain or incapacitated. You are never ready to let them go, but sometimes it is the best thing to do. I feel it is better to remember the good times with them, and not the times of suffering. And keep this in mind...as long as you do remember all the good times, they are never really gone. 🥺
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I knew the day I got my Himalayan cat I'd be a basket case, well it's been 4 yrs now.
Currently the girl has gone blind for about a week now. She doesn't seem to be in any pain. But clearly the end is near at 18. She's bend the best cat, but Charlie was the most fun.
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🙏🏽♥️
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My little Chihuahua Boogar has had a few seizures this year as well, she's only just 3lbs, it's so very frightening !
Like you say, ya have to hold em and their tongue, until they get through it !!
I just Googled on what to do, honey seems to help !!! Seriously, put it in a syringe, without the needle, and squirt it in her mouth, Boogar gets better.
I prefer to take care of her myself, she hates the doctor's, it seems it puts em through more stress than they already have, plus she is old as well.
Try the honey.
I hope he gets over this !!
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I feel for you. Dogs are so loyal and perfect.
My Golden retriever that I had 12 years ago I had to put down after only 5 years.
Haven’t had a dog since. “Einstein” was perfect. But I also did what is best for my pet. No matter how much it hurt.
I pray for you and your little one.
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Maybe a vet here on hx can do a housecall to see your baby and help with vet advice. I know the experts are our there on hx...Whenever I needed professional advice in the past I hot housecalls from docs, attys, vets, and yes even CPAs lol
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I just want to thank everyone for all the advice and the over fills of PMs (I’m still trying to get back to everyone) today is the day that I hopefully can get the answers I need to determine the life of my lil guy 🤞🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼❤️ That it was a one time thing (hopefully just due to heat and dehydration even though hes never limited to water) and I can bring him back home and still have time to create more memories with him. I appreciate each and every one of you who helped with advice or just sent prayers for me and my lil guy. I will definitely keep everyone posted after I find out more info from the vet. Until then please keep us in your thoughts and prayers and once again thank you so much HX community!!
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I recently had to have my 16 yr old cat put down, I rescued her out of the street as a kitten, she lived a long, great, spoiled life, I still miss her to this day. She started having neurological problems at age 15, similar to what you are describing, seizures,... Meds gave her another year of quality life, which meant allot to me. I am sorry for your baby's trouble and the pain it is causing you, I hope they can find a solution and give him, and you, more time.
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Update: we just got back from the vet. They did an “exam” or physical I should say. By the LOOKS of him,he is fine. So many words and information was given that I can’t pronounce lol but mom understood it all. To sum things up he can come home with me and I got to watch to make sure no other seizures occur. I had the option but had to pass at the moment on blood work (he cost me a lot last month at vet already when he was attacked by a possum) so the blood work is on hold unfortunately with a none working mom at moment I couldn’t afford it but they said physically he looked very well especially for his age. Blood work will look further into things then next step would be a 4K mri 😬 so,with that being said he’s home with me now and in close watch 👀
P.s vet helped me a lot with this here.
She said when your pet can’t do at LEAST 3 out of the 5 things they love to do then that’s when you know it’s their time.
He’s been playing with his sisters,hanging out the window on the ride to the vet,still humping his pillow and being active so I think that gave mom a lil peace of mind ❤️❤️ Thank you all and I’ll keep this post updated if anything changes
Xoxo
Jay
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Also the dr said they would normally start him on seizure meds but since it was only his first one they didn’t want to do that just yet 🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Awesome news!
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Sometimes they will seizure if they become a little hypoglycemic from dehydration and exertion
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^ I asked them that too.It was kind of hot that day but he constantly drinks water throughout the day so im not sure they said he looked a lil dehydrated but other then that healthy i just dont see how but I added one more bowl of water to the house just in case and have two fans on to stay cool.
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For those who do not go to the link. This may bring tears to your eyes. It helped me when my little poodle had brain cancer after 11 years. I had to let her go to sleep.
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
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Glad to hear about your boy.
Also, something my vet told me, something to think about: certain flea meds, specifically the drops on the back of the neck, can cause seizures and/or neurological problems, especially if not used properly, too much for the size of the pet, etc... Less than 5%, but still, 1 out of 20 is something to consider
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^^ hmm i never thought about that. They only get the treatments though when or if i see them itching alot or if i give them a bath and see a fleas come off them. I also have been thinking about the flea pill but not sure how well those work. You ever tried those or hear anything about them?
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pills work just as well as the drops, some vets and groomers suggest you change up the brand and type from time to time. that is what t have done w my corgi's ... and b sure the dosage is spot on. my .02
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i learned something too while at the vet and im glad i did with summer around the corner. they said if u pinch ur dog (like your giving them at shot) and the skin stays up they are dehydrated its suppose to fall right back flat. in allllllll these years i never knew. Then again i never deprive my dogs of water
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I’m sorry about your baby, I can’t even imagine. I just got my first dog ever 3 years ago and he’s my best friend and don’t want to imagine life without him. I have an amazing vet in Placentia who doesn’t over charge and truly cares about our babies. My prayers your baby gets better so you have more time!! ❤️
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Sorry to hear about your fur baby and his seizure...that was no doubt scary...you seem like a responsible pet owner...I think you got good advice from the vet to watch and monitor him...I am sure everything is going to be alright...as long as he is doing the things he likes and is acting normally, he should be good...and yes, too much of the flea meds that go on the back can cause a seizure...even days or weeks later...it happened to me...we will think good thoughts for you!!!!!
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My 57 pound dog is on Bravecto. No issues.
One thing to consider is putting ice in the bowls to cool the water off if it’s hot. Just an idea.
So happy to hear your doggie is good.
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Yorkies are susceptible to seizures, that does not mean its the end of the road.
my little guy one day stiffened up and was laying on his side, could not move. A friend of mine who also has Yorkies told me to give him some honey and then lots of water.
and it worked
good luck
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^ its hot today too imma try a lil honey,like how much though?organic? or does it matter?
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just normal Bee honey and half a tea spoon. my little guy only weights 6 pounds.....and its worked every time.
fyi: i am not a vet....but it works for me
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Gonna try a lil when he wakes up from his doggy nap 🥰😘
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Omgggg soo sorry to hear that remember the yorkie I had she was sick as well had a tumor in her mouth she couldn’t eat anymore I didn’t want to let her go but I couldn’t let her suffer and in pain so it was the only thing doc’s told me I have to let her go I was soo sad took me a while to grieving I still to this day not having a dog following me around etc .. it’s really hard keep you head up loveee 🙏🏾
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Hang in there Jayden. 🙏
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Im trying to grab him and freaking out (hes never done this before) trying to wrap him in his blanket but his body is just jumping everywhere just yelping with his tongue out. This lasted about 4-5 mins. Then he starts throwing his body against the door,the wall,the oven,the fridge. This lasted another 2-3.
