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Sneakerlover1
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Profile KPI's
Mar 23 2022 11:53PM more by Sneakerlover1
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

I'm big on reading profiles in order to better understand if my encounter could be "good", "bad", or "ugly" I'd like to know what are your "Key Performance Indicators" when reading a profile. For example, I'm a firm believer in "the Secret" or the law of attraction, and by presenting yourself in a certain way, you attract similar people or circumstances. I'm not big on threatening profiles saying that they will block or NON refund, or have pics of arguments and texts etc. I like the positive thoughts and inspiring descriptions of ones personality. In the end, it's a sales pitch. This methodology helps me make good decisions and many times have great engagements. What are your KPI's if you read profiles, and what are good things you look for, and bad things you avoid?
      
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AFMadness
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Mar 24 2022 10:52AM     link to this

It's a Secret

However there are those that are very good at knowing what women find attractive in a man. Very few are Naturals.
Often it is not what a guy thinks and fails. And Hollywood has done a get disservice to man. Sometimes they get it right. Good luck with that.
Effort in learning what is attractive to them, is on you of course. So don't be asking your friends cause they don't know either.
Most I talk to could careless and have given up. And that is where they fail.
lapierre
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Mar 24 2022 11:01AM     link to this

usually dont read profiles much but will glance and agree the ones with negativity upfront i pass.
i look at photos, if there are no smiles there is nothing to smile about.
if there are a lot of ugly tattoos its not for me
if there are very long fake nails its not for me
(i do love well manicured nails though but to me the overly long nails is a signal to me that we are not compatible)
Sneakerlover1
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 24 2022 04:26PM     link to this

I definitely agree AFM with your first two sentences. I think if you have to fake it, you don’t have it. My philosophy is just be yourself and don’t try to make up some fake persona. I was mostly wondering about the experience relationship though in connection to the persons profile. You for example seem like there is never a boring moment by the looks of your profile.
jackrabbit33
La Jolla, San Diego, CA
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Mar 24 2022 04:35PM     link to this

Profile is Russian disinformation.

Contact guys in network and get into clubs where appropriate info is exchanged on an as needed basis.
SkurferGurl
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Mar 25 2022 08:23AM     link to this

WOW Hmmmmm...
Notes taken.
Good morning.
Sneakerlover1
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 25 2022 10:58AM     link to this

My purpose for this blog was to understand how others interpret a profile and if it helps them make good connections. What works and what doesn’t. Just curious.
Ruthless_Rain
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Mar 25 2022 07:48PM     link to this

I think that is bogus, I have had stalkers who make fake profiles without a network and purchase my albums so I will not refund fx albums, sorry if that is negative for you but if I don’t state it somewhere then I’m the asshole!

Also I have someone who violated TOS and rated me red because I won’t see him anymore, so I have posted text messages to prove I am no safety risk or drama.

Sorry you feel that way but you may be missing out on amazing interactions with some amazing ladies just because you think something makes them look negative!

I more look for blog comments and people who get nasty and name call and start drama fights in unnecessary ways. I also look into attitudes how guys respond on here and how often they blog because I am not interested in meeting someone who has no life but to argue on the internet 💙
Sneakerlover1
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 25 2022 07:54PM     link to this

Hey RR, I just asked to get peoples thoughts. I definitely didn't say my was the right way or only way. I appreciate your response and you do have some valid points that I didn't think of. Thanks.
GaijinTony
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Mar 26 2022 06:15AM     link to this

Here are some of my "no go" indicators:

* Pictures that look like they came from Craigslist ads (example, selfie in mirror of cheap hotel room).
* Excessively poor grammar and spelling.
* Ghetto name spellings, or the use of $ signs or references to money in their handle.
* Nearly all tattoos, especially "pimp stamps".
* Excessive butt photos.

FWIW,

GT
Sneakerlover1
Arcadia, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 26 2022 06:40AM     link to this

Megan, I like your profile. I think it’s to the point. I don’t claim to have any magic recipe. I like hearing different ideas. There is always an opportunity to learn something and hear different points of view.
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