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JP4RNR
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Friendships
Mar 5 2023 08:49PM more by JP4RNR
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Has anyone ever developed a friendship as a result of a date? I would imagine most ladies don’t allow themselves to out of protection . You notice I said friendship because anything more would be something only made in movies
      
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LetMeIn69
Chino/Chino Hills, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 5 2023 09:54PM     link to this

A few times and in each case they eventually went south.
ultimatejohn
Dana Point, OC, CA
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Mar 5 2023 11:29PM     link to this

I have some that at this point are long term friendships. Why should they go south?
LetMeIn69
Chino/Chino Hills, Inland Empire, CA
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Mar 6 2023 12:04AM     link to this

Usually has to do with money and being taken advantage of which tends to kill the friendship.

Not saying a lasting friendship is not possible.
ultimatejohn
Dana Point, OC, CA
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Mar 6 2023 01:24AM     link to this

Sometimes you just get lucky and meet the right people.
uprightfun
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 6 2023 02:57AM     link to this

I made a very fun friend here. Sadly, she left town, leaving me a bit heartbroken I keep imagining that something like that will happen again, but almost no one that I meet here is emotionally open - most are simply, and flatly, transactional.
Marrisa_G
San Diego, CA
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Mar 6 2023 07:09AM     link to this

I have people in this "environment" that I see repeatedly. Each time we meet the connection grows a little. We share more personal things about our past as well as our future dreams and aspirations. This is a natural flow in the creation of a friendship. It's pretty hard to get to know someone in the first 30 minutes of meeting them, especially when your mind is on something else.
yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Mar 6 2023 07:16AM     link to this

I have had three or four..no problem...great gals!
sonya7
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Mar 6 2023 08:02AM     link to this

one time and i don’t regret it 💕
sherkahn
Diamond Bar, SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 6 2023 08:05AM     link to this

Yes. With the person on the date and her circle of friends.

Back in the day my crew and I would take the ladies to getaway trips across the country.
taxartiste
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Mar 6 2023 10:32AM     link to this

I've got several that have turned into long term relationship and also professional tax service relationships. No one is going to jail for not filing tax returns, LOL
thefish
San Diego, CA
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Mar 6 2023 10:35AM     link to this

Several times. Years ago, I swung by the old Mustang Ranch in Reno. The woman I picked and I randomly had acquaintences in common. We ended up dating for about 6 months. I've ended up having platonic or FWB relationships with other women I've met.

One of the reasons I have next to no ratings here is that I usually stick to a favorite or two because we click. No matter how many times I've seen them it doesn't affect ratings.

As others have said, this is a business transaction, but one that deals in hormones and emotions. Sometimes it hits right. Most of the time it doesn't. Knowing the difference is key.
lucious_licks
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Mar 6 2023 10:53AM     link to this

Always a possibility on here some good some bad gotta be able to tell the difference
IcedCoffee
Anaheim, OC, CA
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Mar 6 2023 10:57AM     link to this

I'd like to, siiiiiiigh. I'm very picky with who I associate in general, but I've met a few women that would make for good friends to do other stuff.
sc12345sc
Orange, OC, CA
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Mar 6 2023 11:29AM     link to this

Think it is a fond friendship that can develop. When I see someone that I haven't seen in awhile, I think of them warmly.. Similarly to my professional colleagues that I may not chat with on a regular basis...just better benefits.
And, when I think of some of the ladies on here that i haven't seen in awhile, and see them post up, it reminds me of really how nice they are/were. Very nostalgic.
lamar
SGV, LA, CA
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Mar 6 2023 11:37AM     link to this

Over my 16 years here there has been two. I'm not sure in my mind if it was friendship or mutually great sex, we just clicked sexually and really enjoyed eachothers company.
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