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ya unfortunately people dont
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Sorry
I went to the address in the San Gabriel Valley.
I blame it on Waze.
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I don't want to be rude but it's really something I don't quite understand π and my head explodes π€―π€―π€― hahaha πππ
I am very respectful and very cool but with this I can't πππ
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now you know how i feel
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Ok
It had nothing to do with driving directions..
If it happened more than fifteen minutes ago.
You can't change it, figure out how to make it never happen again..
I hope you come up with a good idea.
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I know what you mean. Sometimes it's like they never went to school. However, I try to exercise some empathy and give them the benefit of the doubt because I realize that at that moment all the blood that should be in their brain is currently rushing south! It is like the equivalent of waking them up out of a deep sleep and asking them to quickly do a complicated math problem. And truth be told, anytime there is a miscommunication, I find that about half the time I could have phrased the comment or instruction to be a little more clear. But no doubt, it is still frustrating as hell!
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^^^ - yep. All the blood rushes south.
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yes love SONIA7 now i know!!!
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Marrisa_G yes beautiful you Right.. the truth is very frustrating!! That they do not even understand a single pm or text lol Ig all is there!! ππππ
Oh God now Iβm laughing π but for real sometimes I feel they just are playin! Ugh π£ππ€ͺ
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misterwa lol 
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Grumpy_Butthead 
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camila81
Echo your exasperation
as the song goes " I think that God has a sick sense of humor"
I hope the aggravation subsides
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Write the instructions like you are doing for 3rd graders that might help
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You want men to read the instructions?
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I just stopped even responding, they definitely donβt know how to read.
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What you may be referring to is something that I have noticed lately. I get new text messages stating that they saw my ad and ask if I am available. Only problem is, I NEVER list my number in an ad, on any site, only my email address. So I ask them to provide the information that was requested of them in the Automated Response that they would have received the first time they emailed me. Then they say they didn't get an Automated Response. So I ask them where did they get my number. At this point they start pretending like they didn't see my last text (probably what OP is referring to), stating things like, "Are you available now?", or, "I can be there in 20 minutes!" (when I haven't even given them the address yet) hoping that I will be so excited about getting the business that I will let my guard down . Depending on how busy I am (or how bored) I may play this game a little longer and let them dig the hole a little deeper (because I actually want this to be a painful experience for them), but when I decide enough is enough I simply tell that I need them to send me a selfie of them holding their driver's license up under their chin so their face is clear and the DL is readable. That is usually the end of the conversation and any more harassing texts.
The ONLY people that should have my number are existing clients. I believe that they are probably getting my number from a previous client that posted it somewhere like on USASG. Or, more than likely one of those NCNS's (a.k.a, Address Collectors).
There simply is no substitute for effective and consistent screening!
Girls who have encountered these non-HX types of messages are invited to post the information in the FEMALE SAFETY (L1+ Females Only) club that has just been created. It is a club for ALL SAFETY RELATED TOPICS, not just those associated or related with HX.
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2 +1 = 5
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It could be the condition of the little head taking over the big head syndrome.
Following directions is very important as the 1st step in gaining trust.
Not listening in my world could result in an early exit.
Thank you Ladies.
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If someone can't follow simple instructions, then being blunt should be the norm.
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You rang?
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I no longer answer silly text or emails, if you can't read what I need to see you, I don't understand why they send too many text messages, I won't answer you and I will block you, I don't like being around wasting time and not even their time, but sometimes I feel like they love to play with our time! or just have a hi, hello, omg!! hello, what? Read my profile please, or my ad, is it that difficult?
sometimes it's hard to deal with people like that. 
I would like everyone to be gentlemen like the ones I have seen.
I feel better now hahahaha
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Marrisa_G thanks love I'm going to check that club now, I haven't checked them lately. thanks beautiful
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Marrisa_G i cant find that club, maybe is with invitation only?
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It's called selective vision. Like selective hearing. In this case selective reading lol
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Ladies Ladies i know and feel your frustration, I'm relatively new to this industry (3+ yrs) I am very strict and have rules when it comes to welcoming guest. I have several adds posted throughout the web. Except for HX I require a selfie of whoever likes to visit me, and even then I also have 2nd way to verified them just before they actually get my address. Because some are fake pix I filter them out throughout 2nd step of verification. I do not respond to text with a single word, or text that starts with "whats up." In my profile I state that "I am not for everyone's taste or portfolio" if you can't understand or able to follow simpler instructions i move on so does life. I will treat everyone with respect and my attitude is always welcoming once we are one on one. Otherwise I take nonsense from anyone. I am very straight forward and some people take strong women as mean spirit or hateful once they met me they know how much I will go out of my way to make sure my guests feel comfortable and obtain the agree services. I will leave you all with a wise quote I heard throughout the vine yard "Women who catter to men creates a weak and sensitive society" much luck and love to you all...
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These chics have had it up to here.
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It would appear " The catter is out of the bag"
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Hey Camila81,
You have this all wrong. I think there is a segment of the male population, small but still significant, that could care less about following your rules, don't give a shit that they piss you off and don't lose any sleep if they don't see you. In other words, they act this way on purpose. They irritate you and relish it. If they really wanted to see you, they would follow your instructions and act as a gentlemen. As Butz is fond of saying "what fun is life if you can't play head games with people"
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You canβt stop stupid π€£
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You have no idea whatβs itβs like to deal providers. Always running late, having 20 glammed up pictures yet when you show up wearing no make up , not telling you that there is an east and a west elevator, not honoring their menu, taking weeks to rate back ect ect
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There is one other thing that I have noticed that can be very frustrating and very confusing: latency times in texts.
I have noticed that some people use "secondary" phones that seem to have very long transmission times. I suspect that this is a result of using really off-brand cellular services. Most of these off-brand plans simply piggyback on the major carriers like ATT and Verizon. It doesn't take much imagination to realize that Verizon says, "Yes, you can rent some time on our cell towers - WHEN IT IS NOT BUSY - Our customers come first!"
I had someone that I thought was being flakey in our communications until I realized that almost every text I sent took exactly 10 minutes before I got a reply. The texts were probably taking 5 minutes each way to actually be delivered. A situation like this would obviously give the impression that the other person was simply ignoring questions or instructions, as some messages will be out of synch. A lot of confusion can happen in a 10 minute period. Not making excuses for anyone, just thought you should be aware.
If you ask someone to text you when they have arrived and parked and wait for you to text them back when you are ready to see them, it might take an inordinate amount of time. If they showed up on time they will naturally assume that you were not ready on time. Not your fault, but a bad perception nonetheless and could end up in a less than stellar review or even a cancellation (maybe even without notice or comment; hence, a "perceived" NCNS).
I now pay attention to the texting at the very inception of contact to see if latency could be an issue and try to take steps to avoid these problems. In a perfect world we would all use the same carrier, or at least a major carrier, but that is wishful thinking!
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Next time I hear one of you bimbos say God's name in one of these blogs.......immaslapaho!
KEEP GOD OUT OF THIS! YOU DAM HEATHENS !
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Quat yep, your right love
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BlueBalz Of course there are providers like that, but I'm not one of them, I know what you mean and that's not nice
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Marrisa_G That can exactly happen and look bad on one side and on the other as well. That's why there's always the email option, I think. 
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SeymourButz Well, I'm sorry for you because I'll keep doing it and if it bothers you, don't read them!!! bye, next.... ignored
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I wish they could teach the penis to read. If it could, when the blood is resuing south, the brain in charge could read instructions. Taking into consideration that it has desires it wants filled, (or to fill) and maybe (one can hope) the comprehension level would go up.
Just a thought.
Guys, teach your penis to read!
Ladies, remember the penis is a beginning reader, so you will have to write things like those 1st grade readers. The ball is blue. The house is yellow. The car is red. Put blue ball into red car. Drive Red car to yello house..
All this does assume that a reading penis would be a smarted thinker.
So I guess my idea will propably never work.
Be Smart, Play safe, Have Fun
"A"
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You skanks sure complain alot.
If you don't like my comment, don't read them. Bye....next....ignored. How stupid was that ? You sounded so prissy, stoooopid.
To ignore me is to not commit all.
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A , too bad you don't know when you are in a club or random abyss.
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Ajay4fun omg it's too funny the house is yellow, the car is red, but unfortunately they don't know how to listen or read better, I tell him please text me when you park, so I already know he's in his car waiting for me to send him a message message so I can enter, but no!!! omg!! They don't even wait and they go to your house to knock on the door or they wait outside the building, suddenly I say, what part of waiting for me in your car until I tell you you can come now... is it so complicated??? omg I think most people can read, and wait, it's not that difficult, on the contrary you make everything more uncomfortable, because the vibe has changed or something like that, let me explain. But thank god!! most if you follow the instructions 
another thing that OMG!!!!! really??? when they call you new people, you can come to this place right now and what about me? as?? I mean, you don't read my ads from here or from other ads that I have in other places??? there I say I need 2 days to verify, and well, everything we do to know that it is safe, deposit of course. and blah blah blah..
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Grumpy_Butthead could be
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OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!! OMG!! OMG!! OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!
TIME TO SLEEP, HAVE A GREAT NIGHT MY LOVES!!
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Sorry, Camilla, didn't know you were calling out for me! Been busy keeping up with everyone in the universe, ya know, answering or ignoring prayers, that kinda stuff... Plus my ears perk up every time somebody says, "God Dammit!" Very distracting.
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I sure hope when all those guys learn how to read with their dicks.
That A J's dick learns about the site rules. I would guess she had not been here very long.
Preachin and screwin up.
It is always best to preview your comment before it is established.
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If my dick could read, I could text and drive.
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What BlueBalz said and a whole bunch more, bitches here now days think their pussy is made of gold and they dont have to be good providers like they used to be,
Sure there are some exceptions to the rule but 95% of them thin they are the exception, and they are not.
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^ maybe you are just swimming in the wrong pool.
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hahahah i was thinking the same
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Swimmers?
Is this a play on words?
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