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don'ts explains the do's
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exactly! LOL
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No menu. Just "text me [...]". Nah.
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Rates above standard.
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@big1234 a lot of rates here are way below "standard" just fyi...
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😂😂
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 Define Standard. Oh wait....
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How about texts that roll in with just " Hey " ?
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@Pete omfg! if I had a dollar for every "hey" I could buy a yacht with them.
HEY WHAAAAAAT?!?!?
The door! 👉🏾🚪
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Finally! Someone who will indulge my mustard and ketchup fantasy.
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@colossus lets get it on the calendar! 🌭
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“Hey” “wya” “wyd” “come over” “ur hot” “wanna fuck?”
Basically any message that isn’t direct and to the point
Regulars are excused - but as a first time introduction it’s totally inappropriate
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I shouldn’t have said direct & to the point ..
Instead detailed and informative ❤️ effort is sexy
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^ You and Cataleya both are sexy !
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You two ladies validate what the attraction masters say. Make the title interesting above all others so she will click on yours first.
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Tell me why I just got a message titled “hey” and the body said “what’s up?”
BRUHHHHHHHHHHH! 🤦🏾♀️
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You’d think by now you guys would know how to do this 🫠
I really love when I get smooth and intelligent messages, easy to read and to the point,
maybe a laugh or two, I love you! Thank you for your simplicity in this world of wtf and omg 🤣😘
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When asking about a couples date, 90 percent of the time that we actually get a response its a canned resonse. Then we have to follow up if it applies to us. It never does. 20 percent will follow up with their correct info, the rest end up saying no. So many don't even both to answer.
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When I ask something specific....
and get a canned response back.
Look, I know how it works...
But if you keep having your "manager" send out your canned response - (worse if it is you responding) without even reading the PM I took the time to send you - I will move on.
There are way too many choices and I am going with who I feel best about...at the moment.
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lmao Fiji, I got every last one of those overnight 🥲 and "free tonight?"
I'm not understanding the issue with stating what you want in the first message lol.
I'm billing for small talk now lol.
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Do you guys not like canned responses even if your question if answered within the message?
Mine is very detailed and specific , I often reply with it first so you are informed about EVERYTHING even if you just asked one question.
The 2nd response is personalized and answered any remaining questions
Simply because I am independent and writing a personal response to every inquiry takes a long time and only 20% of all inquiries actually end up booking
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^SAME!
my first response is canned 99% of the time but addresses everything reply I get determines what I say next, nobody has ever answered my messages and I have never had a "manager".
I would love an assistant though, it's nearly impossible to get daily shit done with just one of me now.
It's time for one for sure
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I just add more on to the message if what I already have canned doesn't suffice.
If something specific is asked its nothing to just type more, but its always from a canned template 🤷🏾♀️
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I'll often get a canned response too, but most of the time I'll get a follow-up one addressing my specific questions since women and couples are rarely addressed in canned responses. But it is annoying af to either not get a second reply or to get no reply at all.
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Text messages that just say “hey”, “rates?”, “menu?”, “are you available?”…without giving they’re username. When people keep asking for things I don’t offer after I’ve already declined.
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Lets look at why someone sends you a PM in the first place.
To see IF you respond.
To see HOW you respond.
To see if you are available.
To see if you are interested.
To see if you are LITERATE.
To see if you have any kind of personality that would make us want to spend time or money.
To see if there is any kind of connection and "to get any sense of what kind of person you might be" (because lets face it, profiles and canned replies aren't always truthful or representative)
So, one, get over yourself and realize this is a personal interaction.
Two, just have a little fun, see if you can inspire a smile or attraction.
And three, this is as much about the other as it is about you.
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^when you keep asking me the same thing for years and never seen me not even once.
nothing is changing besides me getting even more expensive lol.
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@ cool who are you talking to?
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My social media and reviews are a great way to get a sense of my personality
Unfortunately there are too many time wasters with no intentions to ever book to have a long and meaningful chat with every inquiry , which sucks for the genuine gentleman.
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Before anything this a business for us and time management is very important especially for us independent girls - I spend more time marketing , replying , and advertising then on dates
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Even when asked a specific question I find it more efficient to send my canned response (if your question is answered within it) so you have all the information to make your decision
I do appreciate your guys feedback though .. interesting to read.
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I love when I send an invite to a social and receive a menu in return...
Read much?
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ahahaha see now that's when a canned response deserves a wtf.
no reading happened AT ALL
😂
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Honestly, I don’t respond to low effort messages such as “Avail” “Where are you?” “M*nu” or asking about rates. All of that information is detailed on my website. It just feels like they want me to respond to their horniness and that’s just not going to happen.
I really like gentlemen who take their time for a great introduction that I can be giddy and excited for! My emails are professional, but people have told me that they can sense the excitement in the emails when I get a good intro. It’s encouragement for them to keep it up!
Effort is always sexy AF
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Here are a few:
“Just text me!” (No menu provided)
“Leave your number.” (Yet won’t leave theirs)
Menu has something on it that makes me want to 🤮
Rate is laughably high or is severely mismatched to offering.
Discriminates against any race. (Find another hobby)
Opening post is full of negativity and makes me think all this person does is complain.
Have to pull teeth to get number or menu.
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No such thing as high or too high, especially when we set our own prices.
Every woman is entitled to whatever she thinks she's worth just like its your prerogative to decline (here its always much lower than anywhere else), if it's not in your budget range for spending then the experience is missed by you..
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Cataleya
Want to fuck?
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I’m curious as to what one would define as a “high rate” on HX. From what a couple regulars had told me anything over 300 is “high”. Which is sort of absurd, but considering it’s a hobbyist site, it might be alignment.
I haven’t spent too much time on here, but I’ve always been curious but never had to time to dedicate to asking!
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HX has the lowest rates than any other website. You guys are all lucky (;
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Oh WOW 😮 I remember now @Fiji
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@alexis don’t allow clients to tell you what is too high or low
Most will always try to get you to your lowest possible rate but only YOU know what you are worth and what you want to charge. anyone else’s opinion or “industry norm” is irrelevant.
I’ve had clients that pay $1000 for a quickie and others who wouldn’t even pay 100 .. it’s all personal
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Very true! I’ve gotten amazing experiences from my website and other sites, so when I remember this and receive a message for a menu…immediate ick. My rates are well above whatever standard they have established here, so I know it’ll be fun ☺️
Thank you for the encouragement; I’ll be especially sticking to my guns and it wandering around this site in particular in confusion.
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There just needs to be an automated bot that responds for the "hey" type answers.
Carry the conversation until it gets to a point where the sentences require human thought.
Y'all inboxes must be full lol
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It's funny when these broke washed up girls complain about rates on HX news flash don't like the going rates here kick rocks and go to a site like PD.
Just because you got a vagina doesn't automatically mean you "deserve" a high rate. Not every girls deserves 300 and that's just what it is.
If you got the looks, personality and right customer service then yes a girl can ASK for a high rate. but if you just an average or below average girl wanting to do the bare minimum don't expect top dollar because you will not get it.
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Pricing strategy is something I know a bit about.
You should set your price where you're getting enough business to be satisfied. If you price yourself at $1k/hr and you have one client a month, that would be unsustainable for most people.
If you set your price at $100/hr and you're getting 50 people wanted to see you in a day, you need to raise your price until the number of people you want to see a day is met without turning many people away.
From the hobbyist's perspective, if they want to see someone 3 times per week, $1k/hr is not sustainable.
But what can clean, reliable clients afford you that you're not getting from a one-and-done client? Consistency.
If you can see a guy for $250/hr, or $180/hh, once a month for two years, that's obviously better than seeing him once and never again at a much higher price. Now if you have 20 clients that you see consistently at a lower price where you don't have to worry about who they are, if they are safe, if this may be a bad situation for you, etc., then it is a no brainer to accept a lower price. That way, both parties get what they want.
Many of those who offer their services at a higher price actually offer poorer services. They know that what they are offering isn't a good value, so what incentive do they have on making the experience a great one for the client if the likelihood is that they'd never see them again?
And even if their service is excellent at a higher price, every single person here is being compared to every other person offering the same services. If a client can get the service at a lower price, with great service (while factoring in looks), that will lower the likelihood that person will see the higher-priced provider again.
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I agree with the above. After several years of bouncing around, I have found a unicorn.
Pricing is spot on. Location is close by, but not so close that I might be seen by someone I know.
Looks are on point. Body is great.
Service is 9+.
I'm making that stop once a week for the past two months and not slowing down anytime soon!
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I've talked it over with some people and there are some rich fuckers out there that don't mind paying $1K a meet regularly. But it sounds like some of that is luck.
I'm pretty sure that the people that are charging super high rates either already have a steady stream of regulars and need the extra $$$ to be convinced to see a new client, or they have another source of income and can set their prices accordingly, or they have a very well connected booker.
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When my page says Unavailable !!! In big bold letters and someone asks if I'm available lol
Can't stand people who refuse to read
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Also
charge what you feel and pay what you want but don't bad mouth the next for it
Lots of women say that men pay more on other sites maybe it's a reason
I know a guy that thinks a Bentley is expensive and prefers bmw's.. I know someone who prefers Toyotas . I also know someone who owns all 3 lol
Just do what makes you happy and if it's not in your liking move along
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