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PSHorneycouple
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Is it too much to ask
Apr 19 2023 07:42AM more by PSHorneycouple
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Considering ads are placed for attention. When sending a dm inquiring about the ad, is it to much to expect a response? Look, we get it can be a pain responding to all those inquires. How long does it take to at least say no?

Here's our normal question sent, "Hi, Do you entertain couples? If yes, info please. If no, please reply no so we're not guessing.
Thanks for your attention."
      
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SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Apr 19 2023 07:48AM     link to this

Nowadays it is too much to ask for. 8 to 10 yes ago people were more sociable and polite. It was more a community.
SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 19 2023 07:55AM     link to this

^^^Agreed ^^^

I blame it on narcissist, lazy people. The world is thick with em nowadays oh well. SMH
SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Apr 19 2023 07:55AM     link to this

One more thing. A majority of the time, your corresponding to a male booker. All they want to read is the date, length of time.
The date better be in about 3 hours of inquiry.
The length of time better be a minimum of one hour.
PSHorneycouple
Palm Springs/Coachella Valley, Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 19 2023 08:05AM     link to this

On average, the number of replies to our inquiries is about 40 percent. Of those who reply, 50 percent never read our dm. We know because the info sent does not apply to us as a couple. Then most realize after a follow up dm, and then end up staying no.
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:11AM     link to this

Send me a PM, I’ll respond.
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 08:20AM     link to this

^^^^^Most all guys that we send a dm to, do respond. But that's not our target audience. 🤣
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:30AM     link to this

Uh, you know I have an Air Fryer, right??
notsofast
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Apr 19 2023 08:34AM     link to this

Maybe edit the pics to take the guy out?
SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 19 2023 08:34AM     link to this

Air fryers aren't all that...meh
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:36AM     link to this

You know i love you but you TAKE THAT BACK!!
SkurferGurl
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Apr 19 2023 08:37AM     link to this

No
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:38AM     link to this

*insert mad face thingy here
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:47AM     link to this

Horny Couple must be checking out the many AirFryer videos on PornHub! I expect a PM any second now….
Pjforfun
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Apr 19 2023 08:48AM     link to this

Which one of you is 55?
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 08:56AM     link to this

^^^^ Does the female look 55?
FlappyNutSack
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Apr 19 2023 08:59AM     link to this

Did we ever play softball together in the Old Balls in The Dunes league at the Palm Springs Senior Center??
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 09:01AM     link to this

^^^^ nope
socaliam
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Apr 19 2023 09:45AM     link to this

You eventually do get an answer to all of your questions, you just have realize what it is.
AFMadness
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Apr 19 2023 09:49AM     link to this

If they still haven't decided, they have made a choice. Para-pharsing Free Will ~ Rush
futureXwife
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Apr 19 2023 09:59AM     link to this

Hi, I”m a great unicorn!
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 10:22AM     link to this

Its not about the decision for us. Yes or no, it doesn't matter. Why put an ad up if you're not willing to answer. Or at least include restrictions in the ad to eliminate those who you don't not want to be bothered with.
jazzy
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Apr 19 2023 11:06AM     link to this

Simple, WE dont have to answer if WE dont want to.

It's our right as a provider

If she doesnt answer, make notes and move along.

Complaining is annoying, there are thousands of women on here.

Message all of them, I'm sure one will work out.

Half of you men dont answer us after we give details, not even a thank you is given for the info provided.

Then proceed to message again next week asking the same shit.


a310guy
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Apr 19 2023 11:51AM     link to this

No One has to do anything here. If you want business, then play the game & stop whining.
Complaining doesn't help.

Stop saying special, when it's the same price as the week before is dumb, no wonder US guys have to keep asking.
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 12:19PM     link to this

You would think being courteous would be simple too. I know dealing with people on the daily is a bitch. We don't ask of anyone anything that we don't put forward. Doesn't everyone want to be treated with some civility?
Providers can and will do what ever they want. That pretty evident. We try always return dm's that have addressed our inquiries, whether it be yes or no. Also a note is added to the profile to make sure we're not asking those who don't want to be bothered by us.
Inked.n.curvy
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Apr 19 2023 12:27PM     link to this

Have you thought about maybe getting on a lifestyle website instead like Kasidie or SLS? There is also a great resort called Erotic Dreams right there in Palm Springs where you would be able
To find like minded individuals. Just a suggestion
sonya7
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Apr 19 2023 12:29PM     link to this

i have a feeling- if you started seeing all the girls that said yes to you, then the ones who said no may eventually say yes. your network looking kinda weak myguy
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 12:34PM     link to this

Inked

We know about Kasidie and have been to EDR. Thanks for the suggestion though. Our thought was dealing with a "professional", there would be less drama. 🤔
MissMollyyy
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Apr 19 2023 12:36PM     link to this

im here for any help (: people are just rude for no reason it makes absolutely no sense.
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 19 2023 12:37PM     link to this

Sonya

One might think that. If you saw the Yes list versus the No list, you'd know.
MissNatCox
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Apr 19 2023 12:39PM     link to this

I want to point out a lot of people do no read the ads.
I will not respond if you do not have a recent network, and I put it in my ad.

It saves the back and fourth on my end.
a310guy
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Apr 19 2023 12:55PM     link to this

im glad that every girl on here doesn't rate me, good or bad.
Thank God for some privacy.
MissNatCox
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Apr 19 2023 01:44PM     link to this

For the fact that there are ratings for our safety and people do not like rating is crazy to me.

There are guys that are level 5 and stop the hobby for years, how the hell do I know you didn’t stop because you went crazy? I also understand there are a lot of regulars, so if I put it in my ad that I won’t respond, why can’t the pm include “hey I took a break….” “Hey I actually see… all the time she can verify me”

It’s all in the same respect.
MissNatCox
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Apr 19 2023 01:47PM     link to this

I also want to include….

I get pm’s sometimes that when I go to reply I’m blocked.
It’s very easy to hit that button when looking at the message. So I cannot respond, I have even had another provider reach out to them to let them know and they think we crazy. Lol so I just leave it.

But make sure that block button isn’t hit
June.Moon
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Apr 20 2023 04:48PM     link to this

I currently have 200 messages and do my best to reply to everyone but sometimes I get overwhelmed (I'm working on doing better I promise)


Also I do everything by myself so for instance I can put that i am available and get a few inquiries. Now I'm spending an hour getting ready, an hour or more driving, an hour or more hanging out with my friend, not to mention the time it takes to clean up, leave and do whatever else (OR whoever else) that I need to do before I make it back. So even if I post that I'm available that day sometimes it makes take me at least 4 hours to reply. Also why I don't do same day or last min meetings .


Now, Between that, reference checking and waiting for the ladies in your network to reply, sometimes it takes a while to reply . In no means am I being rude but sometimes you have to remember that women also have lives outside of here. We get so many messages a day and most men don't even reply after you send them a menu . But that's just how things go, don't take it personal I don't think it's always intentional


Idk if this applies to other ladies but just try to have a little more understanding because it's not easy unless this is your entire life
PSHorneycouple
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Apr 20 2023 07:55PM     link to this

^^^^^We will look into it. Thanks!
GoBallsDeep
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Apr 20 2023 10:05PM     link to this

If one of you ditched the other, you wouldn't have this problem.

SinFul_Curves
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Apr 21 2023 08:32AM     link to this

There is also the green door in Vegas. I know it's not out here but it's a thought.

@jazzy I simply love you. You are so funny. And speak nothing but facts
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They removed my post (waaaahhhhhh) but I'm sure it was up long enough for people to get the info. If not feel free to pm me
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Good luck to the both of you. I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for. Just takes a little time
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