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From my interactions with women, I believe the key is patience and adequate amount of foreplay. Asking, listening and responding to what actually pleasures the lady. No two women are identical and have the same stimuli. So what might work with one, won't work with another.
I was once told that men are like microwaves and women are like slow cookers. Takes women a lot longer to get to the mental and physical stimulation and arousal.
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not sure i buy that..
i have had women come literally two minutes into it
but i am very good at it (says my member)
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I was a late bloomer losing my virginity, after I started really getting into sex with my BF at the time, I asked a close, personal GF "what's this orgasm thingy about ?"
She said... you'll know when it happens, (OH YEAH) try it by yourself if you feel nervous with your BF.
SO I DID, for me it's a lot in my mind, the naughtier the thoughts the more intense the"big O"
Since being on HX I have sooooo many naughty experiences that I can refer to mentally to "get there" however of course the attention from the gentleman that I encounter at that time chimes right along with my mental fantasy.
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^ As I recall, SkurferGurl, you had NO problem achieving an orgasm....
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Nope, not at all. When you're in this guy's grasp you'll have a game face that's for sure
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Plenty of those tire shops around. Oh wait,
Did the research say anything about for some , 26 is a magic #.
Chemistry and mind set goes a long way.
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Truthfully most women have to feel comfortable
I can cum really hard and fast with a toy on my clit and or penetration .. it's hard for me to cum otherwise unless the chemistry is there and I mentally let go
Every body is different as well. I didn't discover what an orgasm really was until I started using toys and exploring my body
Learn your body.. touch it , feel it , understand what really gets you going. Lay in bed alone and just feel all over yourself ... I met a woman who I taught how to learn her likes and we recently discovered that her knees were a hot spot for her
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SkurferGurl...you say the nicest things. You are doing a great job stroking my masculine ego, but I do believe I might prefer you stroking something else....
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This is easy, you have to love to give daty, every woman is different, learn and pay attention to how they like it, once you have that, be enthusiastic and enjoy!
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Yes, you must actually decide to stay down until your partner achieves pleasure. Some ladies might take 15 minutes or more to get 'warmed up'. And you must sense which actions are the most effective.
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What @June.Moon wrote is what I believe as well.
If a woman isn’t comfortable, she won’t orgasm no matter what you do.
Also…
Lasting longer helps because most women take longer to orgasm.
Know where a woman’s g-spot is and how to target it.
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Ladies, if you could please provide me a map to said g spot upon my arrival, I sure would appreciate it.
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I’ve had very good luck blindly fumbling around down there until they get so frustrated they grab me by the ears and put me in the right place.
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I believe that
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Why the hell wouldn’t you? I just told you.
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Learn how to go down on her. Also simple penetration in missionary doesn't do it. Some women like a little friction on their clit from your lower torso as you stroke in and out. Also think about the right position in face down ass up doggy where the dick rubs against the G spot. Having a big dick doesn't hurt either.... well sometimes it does hurt her LOL
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Somebody mentioned the shop but did not leave directions.
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I came along a research that says that around 70% of women have a problem to reach this stage.
What would you teach a beginner to help you reach "The Big O"
Learn how to fake it.
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Try Google Maps, they list several Big O locations in So Cal. In case you didn't know, they will rotate your tires and fix your flats for free, provided you don't have sidewall damage.
GT
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The beautiful woman on HX tell me they think they
should be paying me after we’re done.
So I guess they have no problem getting there with me.
Jus sayin 😉
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