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Alexis_Ryan
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Jun 7 2023 08:41PM more by Alexis_Ryan
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I received an invite to visit a sw*ngers nudist resort for my birthday next weekend. One of my gents who’s treating me is also…*ahem* taking care of my rate if he gets to watch me with someone else on top of my weekend rates. He’s just wants to see me treated nicely and in public, technically.

Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? How should I best navigate this request? I’ve never been to a nudist resort, but it’s on my bucket list before I leave the U.S. It’s sort of feeling more like work instead of a weekend getaway for me, 😖
      
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Eulogy
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Jun 7 2023 09:10PM     link to this

Ain’t no linen allowed on Edmond Dante’s yacht and its right here

Pete can hook you up with the password to get on the yacht (spoiler alert the password is woof woof woof doggy style )
SkurferGurl
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Jun 8 2023 06:50AM     link to this

Heck yeah honey go for it, if you're comfortable being around others that are comfortable being nude and what not or DO around you, it can be a whole lot of fun, as they say "let ya hair down"

Nina_Simone1
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Jun 8 2023 07:04AM     link to this

I would Honestly say do it 😉 try it
I personally haven't been but I would love to just to experience it and see
Alexis_Ryan
Canoga Park, SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2023 07:39AM     link to this

I’m hesitant because I’ll be making money regardless with this gent for the weekend with him, but I just don’t typically hook-up; I don’t like it too much. I’d hate to pressure myself into hooking up with someone just for extra of my 2 hr rate. He’s aware of my preferences, so it’s no pressure from him at all, but it’s just a little nerve-racking.

But I do want to take the rest of June off from essentially having fun and genuinely enjoy myself… decisions, decisions!!!

FlappyNutSack
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Jun 8 2023 07:56AM     link to this

Lol
Alexis_Ryan
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Jun 8 2023 11:34AM     link to this

Thanks Ladies for your advice! I’m moving forward with the thought that if someone is interesting, then I’ll let it be known!
Lusin_Jan7
Van Nuys, SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2023 01:28PM     link to this

If you have to ask the option of other about a personal and job related matters love you are in the wrong industry. I have been in this industry since the end of 2019 and I must admit that I was extremely shy and conservative about what I was getting myself into. Coming from a corporate job with a different and conservative way of behavior was a big shock for me, since I haven't been intimate without anyone else except for my previous long term relationship or allowing some stranger see me the way I came to this world (naked) 🤣🤣was a hard pill to swallow but look at me now I love what I do and enjoy every minute of it. I would say dive in head first and have as much fun as you can live life to the fullest without regret (always responsible)😉 you are still young and beautiful take advantage my humble opinion wish you all the best
PSHorneycouple
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Jun 8 2023 01:47PM     link to this

Our experience is our experience only. Swinger's clubs can be very different from a nudists club. If you decide to go to the swinger's club event you'll be what most everyone is hoping for. That being a a potential partner. Swinger's clubs can be couples oriented or singles and couples. That may be something to consider also.
Alexis_Ryan
Canoga Park, SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2023 05:39PM     link to this

@Lusin Thanks for the advice; I really appreciate it! I’ve been in-and out the industry since CL days, but in this instance, I think I was initially more between should I make more money during this stay or should I stick to my own guns and just let go of the self-induced pressure to keep making money.

I wanted to have fun but essentially not burn myself out where I’m going on another year long hiatus because I just want to make more money lol.

Thank you so much! If I want it that bad, I’ll see what’s up, but if not; I’ll let it go!
DahliaLove
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Jun 8 2023 09:09PM     link to this

Personally, I do not have a good time unless I am comfortable. That often means my guest is not going to have a great time either.


This may be your 1st visit, doesn't mean it has to be the last.

Trust your gut! It is possible to be in this industry and stay true to yourself!!

DL
davidpdavid
Studio City, SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2023 09:35PM     link to this

Alexis, it really sounds like you want someone to say don’t do it. Don’t do it. Unless it’s so much loney that it changes the month, then fuck that. You’re obviously not comfy with it.
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Jun 9 2023 12:50AM     link to this

Fet
Life
They call it!
FuzzyBare
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Jun 9 2023 03:23AM     link to this

I'm on FetLife dot com ...
dblednmike
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Jun 9 2023 07:52AM     link to this

I’m going to throw a different opinion out there that I’m sure someone will misinterpret. Take the money off the table for the extra stuff. It seems like the problem you’re having is feeling under pressure because of the potential payment. Go have fun, and if something happens organically enjoy the experience. You’re still getting paid for the weekend, so just enjoy it and see what happens.
yyzed
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Jun 9 2023 10:13AM     link to this

^ what Dahlia said

without being paid, you can be treated nicely in public

if your instincts are telling you to pass, then without question, pass



big1234
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Jun 9 2023 10:16AM     link to this

I’d recommend going to a nudist resort or swingers party with someone who you’re personally intimately involved with, for your first experience. Not with a client , no matter how cool he is. All of the different venues have different vibes depending on who’s curating the experience. In my experience it seems like the best ones, have been curated/run by women. The venues curated/run by men always appear to be a little dodgy and less sensual. Honestly, you should go watch and observe with your real life friends or S/O first and engage or not, before you escort a client. PM me directly if you’d like a more direct and detailed explanation. I’ve been to many, but only with a genuine real life companion. For a very specific reason.
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