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NigelCollins68
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No one can get a date in this town
Jul 9 2023 12:52PM more by NigelCollins68
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The traditional dating scene is broken. Not only is it broken, it can't be fixed. And it will only get worse.

For men the problem is the 49'ers; i.e., the women who are 4s but think that they are 9s. Most women set the filter on their dating app to exclude men under six feet tall. You do realize, don't you, that only twelve percent of American men are six feet tall or taller.

The problem is so bad that we have the bottom ninety-five percent of men pouring into this application posting photos of themselves. Why would they do that? They do it because they have totally given up on the traditional dating scene. There is no going back.

For women the problem is the top four percent of guys. A Tinder study showed that women only swipe right on the top four percent of guys. Essentially all women are going after the same tiny fraction of tall, rich, handsome men. Why wouldn't they? The problem is that those guys are playing a game of pump-and-dump.

No one can get a date in this town. But here on HX we all live in a yellow submarine.
      
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FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 01:04PM     link to this

I will help you. I will help you because your name sounds British, Nigel.

There will be no charge for this. I do it because I care.

Tell us what kind of woman you're looking for. And objectively, are you a 4 or a 9?
RobBlakeFan
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Jul 9 2023 01:16PM     link to this

I'm a solid 5 (both in rating and penis size), if that makes any difference to you.
FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 01:30PM     link to this

Let's work together to get Nigel laid and then we can channel all our energy into you, RBF.

FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 01:33PM     link to this

Sorry, I worded that carelessly. Let's get Nigel a DATE. Anyone can get laid.
Himes_Soul
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Jul 9 2023 01:35PM     link to this

FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 01:42PM     link to this

OP, we're worried sick. Let us know you're ok. That post is exactly what you'd expect before someone offs themselves.

FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 01:50PM     link to this

Ok, looks like he's dead. It's a shame but the living must go on.

RBF, you're up.
TomTraubert
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Jul 9 2023 01:56PM     link to this

Jesus. When Hime beats me with the XTC reference.

OP to answer your admittedly offhand ancillary question, guys post pics of themselves here cause they are idiots and don’t get the point

But yes, otherwise you are correct. In fact, I think someone created a delusional calculator. They put in average height of 5 ft 9 inch and income of $100k and some very basic requirements, like single, not obese, and not bald. Odds of girls matching with such a guy is less than 5%. So the 6 foot tall movie star that makes good money it’s just not out there for them.

However, I have found that if you get off your ass and actually go out into the real world, you will do much better with women then if you’re relying on a dating app.

FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 02:02PM     link to this

And for God's sake, be able to toss together a decent cacio e pepe on short notice. Maybe a cheese board.

Cheese board is a sure fire panty dropper as I've learned over the last few days.
RobBlakeFan
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Jul 9 2023 02:03PM     link to this

FNS, I am not looking for a date. On a date you have to talk to them and stuff. Also buy dinner and such things. Not for me.
FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 02:16PM     link to this

Perfect!
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RobBlakeFan
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Jul 9 2023 03:10PM     link to this

Why didn't I think of that.

Oh and RIP OP.
AFMadness
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Jul 9 2023 03:21PM     link to this

It's two different worlds. Become an Uber driver and you will learn there world. Well maybe not.

Most guys are the apedime of insanity. They keep going the same over and over again. And refuse to learn what attracts women. Cause it is not what Hollywood has taught you all your life. Sure money can't buy you happiness but it sure helps. And you think they are going to find security here. Perhaps but highly doubtful.
TomTraubert
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Jul 9 2023 03:36PM     link to this

“Apedime of insanity”

Lmfao
FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 03:47PM     link to this

There is the apedime of irony.
Upper
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Jul 9 2023 04:18PM     link to this

I'm well over 6" tall but have yet to get a date on any app. I have yet to use the dwarven dating app.
SonOfAdams
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Jul 9 2023 04:33PM     link to this

GrabbyButtSack, you must be right! Why, OP has started 8 blogs in a month yet he hasn't responded to this one & it's almost been 4 hours!

Poor man was so fed up with dating in the real world he made the ultimate ejection!
NigelCollins68
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Jul 9 2023 06:30PM     link to this

Please accept my apologies. I've been busy cleaning the bathroom and doing yard work. Also on Sundays I give myself a haircut. My reward for all of that hard work is to sit at this computer with a Diet Mountain Dew and read the news from my friends on HX.

I know that NigelCollins68 is a lame handle. It was the best that I could do at the time. Within the next few months I will transition to my permanent handle, lordgodkingbufu.

For God's sake, don't anyone steal my handle before I can lock it down. I don't want to be lordgodkingbufu2 or lordgodkingbufu3.
FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 07:16PM     link to this

NigelCollins projects old world sophistication and the promise of kidney pie after you’ve sliced off a bit of poon. It’s hard to believe you’re not swimming in dates.
RobBlakeFan
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Jul 9 2023 07:22PM     link to this

I'm withdrawing my contribution to OPs gofundme for funeral expenses now.
FlappyNutSack
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PocketAcesMatt
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Jul 9 2023 07:35PM     link to this

It's really tough out there, and this is coming from a decent looking guy who works out 5 times a week and does a bunch of extra curricular.
Dating Apps are just a way to boost a girl's ego. They don't take it serious. Don't think you'll land a date from a dating App unless you're Tom Brady or something or super tall and handsome.
I've also given up on dating apps, which is why I'm here. Alot of girls on dating Apps are advertising their OnlyFans, which is another beast. Every girl out there has an OnlyFans and is trying to make money out of her feet pics or her vagina pics (which is totally fine), but this is where the world is going.
There are going to be more and more people joining sites like this.
FlappyNutSack
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Jul 9 2023 07:53PM     link to this

Seriously though, if this place is a substitute for actual dating and relationships, especially if you’re young, I think it can really mess with your perspective. Only my opinion.
jybeho
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Jul 9 2023 08:28PM     link to this

We need disco to come back or something like it, TBH.

People don't dance together. Nothing like finding a nice dance partner then getting jiggy with it.
Even the "no's" aren't so bad.

Dating apps, I get plenty of dates,but why? It's a losing proposition, I prefer the old party line 800 numbers over current dating apps. You can tell a lot about someone in a few minutes and purse or move on.

Dating apps give you so few opportunities to express yourself and to get to know to other people.

Coming here instead? Good luck affording it these days, GPS is everywhere and I make great $$ but my nut not worth the squeeze.
aznboytoi
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Jul 9 2023 08:54PM     link to this

avoid online dating its the worst, women use it for the confidence boost but they'll rarely meet up w u even if u r tall n handsome
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Jul 9 2023 09:44PM     link to this

NigelCollins, I think you're getting too big for your britches. The Koala God is threatened by your intension to call yourself LordGodKingBufu. Don't get greedy! Pick one, not all three!
GoBallsDeep
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Jul 9 2023 09:49PM     link to this

I can make coin off my feet pics?
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Jul 9 2023 09:56PM     link to this

Why is it every time SOA posts on a blog it's all of a sudden filthy and unclean?
GoBallsDeep
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Jul 9 2023 10:01PM     link to this

He doesn't shower after he butt-pirates his victims?
GinaGalaxy
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Jul 9 2023 10:12PM     link to this

Too Bad NC ur a swell guy

Prolly should look at long distance 💕💕💕💕💕 love
Hey1
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Jul 9 2023 10:12PM     link to this

^that suspiciously resonates as personal experience.
NigelCollins68
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Jul 9 2023 10:33PM     link to this

LOL, Gina. This line came from GinaGalaxy.

I said to her, "I can't get a date in this town."

GinaGalaxy replied, "No one can get a date in this town."

That made me feel a lot better.
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Jul 9 2023 11:04PM     link to this

RobFlakeMan,

The Koala Bear resents your insinuation that he does not keep up with personal hygiene. Why, I'll have you know that my many female followers bath me at least once a week. So there.

PocketAcesMatt
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Jul 9 2023 11:28PM     link to this

> Seriously though, if this place is a substitute for actual dating and relationships, especially if you’re young, I think it can really mess with your perspective. Only my opinion.

Can you please elaborate? I'm not disagreeing with you or anything. I'm just curious to hear your perspective. They say the wise man learns from others' mistakes, and I would like to learn. How will it mess with my perspective? It is kind of superficial, but so is dating.
DTFagent
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Jul 10 2023 09:03AM     link to this

This is a real societal problem due to online social platforms that result in loneliness and isolation, if young males can get laid regularly we would have fewer mass shootings.
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Jul 10 2023 09:06AM     link to this

Change your mind set. Don’t give up
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Jul 10 2023 11:22AM     link to this

what DTFA said - spot on.
testosterone is a bitch - it wants what it wants.
i suggest you look outside of your world and will be surprised how willing ladies are there.
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Jul 10 2023 12:15PM     link to this

The apedime of sadness and misspelling
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Jul 10 2023 12:18PM     link to this

Just get laid 🤣
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Jul 10 2023 01:33PM     link to this

^ Touche Miss ArabianQueen. Magnificent view.

@PocketAcesMatt It's like this...do you remember your first kiss? Your first slow dance with a girl you liked at the school dance? Maybe going to Prom?

Now imagine if any of those encounters were transactional in nature. And you spend the rest of your young adulthood with that mentality. It can mess with your head after awhile.

If you've had intimacy with someone organically, then you may know the difference. Especially if you both had feelings for another.

Just be sure you can separate the two. Think of this site like Disneyland. You pay the park admission, go on some fun rides, live out your fantasy, and hopefully head home with a smile & some lasting memories. But most people can't move in & live at Disneyland.

I will say, many of the Hx experiences I've had surpassed my civvie ones. I'm grateful to the lovely ladies who made that possible.

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Jul 11 2023 02:35AM     link to this

Here's my hypothesis on what women want, let me know your thoughts.

I think it all boils down to a subconscious, deeply and genetically pre-programmed urge to feel protected, not only for herself but potentially for a future baby.

What makes women feel protected? Men with power.

Could be physical, large guys with muscles or tough guys with lots of testosterone.
Or rich guys, which is just another level of power.
Influential guys, good-looking guys, with the power to convince other people.

So you can either become powerful in any method mentioned above or just PRETEND as many do in a strategy called mimicry. They all work to an extent and it could be used to secure your date.

Just make sure you add a bit of humor and warmth so that this overwhelming power doesn't feel threatening to your potential date.

Happy hunting, because it's what we were meant to do. I'm glad you're prowling, because the trend shows trans-women will grow bigger balls than us men. XD


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