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First rule of fuck club
NO FUCKING DEPOSITS EVER
Second rule of fuck club
See rule #1
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^^^^That would be our general rule, but sometimes we think outside the norm
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Repeat!
First rule of fuck club
NO FUCKING DEPOSITS EVER
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Maybe if there is am established trust level.
Someone you do not know. No way Jose or Hose B.
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A very controversial subject. I personally will not session with anyone that requires a deposit
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Clients on HX refuse deposits. Everywhere else it’s the norm (for establish and highly reviewed providers)
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I personally require them for outcalls and level 0s to ensure my time isn’t wasted
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All that have replied seam to have solid networks and are probably never asked to give a deposit. We have relatively no network. So we may tend to understand a small deposit to book in advance. But would never give a fifty percent for the day of.
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only ones who have GPS if you ask me.
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Deposits are risky and leave electronic trails too.
But I do agree that outcalls for the ladies are FLAKE RISKY too.
Total Conundrum !
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Buy a house or rent an apartment….deposit
Buy or rent a car…no deposit
Appointment with lawyer or doctor….no deposit
See if you can guess where I’m going with this….
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I generally do not ask for deposits for HX Level 1+ or Level 0 if they have a decent and recent network. And it is only a one-time thing. Once they are established as a good client then there is no longer any need for a deposit.
Outside of HX I may ask for a deposit. If a person screens fast and properly then I usually don't ask for a deposit. If they refuse to screen or exhibit any squirly behavior then I probably will ask for one just to flush out the address collectors.
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I only do layaways.
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I’ve done deposit before, with a level 2 here (not difficult to guess who) she stole deposit. Also she would even refuse to provide date, time & location of appointment but DEMAND deposit. Would then post in multiple cites at the same time. But would still DEMAND deposit.
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I don’t do deposits. Anyone who has asked me for a deposit has received a “thanks but no thanks” from me.
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Topic has been discussed ad nauseam. Until there is a convenient, reliable, way to refund the deposit if the lady’s plans change the conversation is a dead end. Also, without compromising the sender’s identity.
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I wish I would have been old enough for the backpage / red book days where girls would be booked fully every day and clients who respected the honor system. I always hear stories about the glory days from older clients / providers
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Btw guys gift cards are a totally anonymous and reliable way to send deposit if needed ! I know discretion is important for a lot of you guys
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Or crypto
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And any lady who requires a deposit and doesn’t refund you if SHE has to cancel is a huge red flag. That is messed up.
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We honestly feel there are legit reasons for a deposit. But until ALL parties can be honest about the transaction it is a dead end like Candyman71 said. So, the deposit can be asked for, but most won't risk it.
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Including us. We're asked for double anyways. So, hell no to a deposit as well
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Thanks to all who have shared their input.
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Just book a high level and reputable provider. Since you guys are a level 0 with such a small network most girls won’t be willing to see you without a deposit for their own safety honestly
No deposit is an earned privilege these days
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^ hey why are you guys so horny anyway? Can’t you just fuck each other any time y’all want? 🤔🤓
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Because theirs nothing like hooking up with a young hot professional
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LovesCurves, why would you pay her a deposit when she has 28 DINGS in Safety?! 
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Adams the rapist leaves deposits…when he’s done
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His deposits are always in the arrears 
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Haha, We do fuck each other a lot. Sometimes multiple times per day.
It's a kink, and we enjoy doing it together.
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High level, reputable spells on average 2k in today's economy. Aaaaa, no thanks. No matter how "sexy"
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I deposit a gallon inside
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Not anymore you don't!
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What about when a guy send me a 50% deposit then never show up or respond?? It has happens to me multiple times. What should I do then ??
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Keep it?
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Deposit a gallon inside them next time fiji
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Honor the deposit if they ask, plus or minus actual time holding their time slot
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I think deposits defeat the whole purpose of the rating system, but ladies,
I understand your time is valuable and you're not playing around, so if someone cancels a date,
I would probably give them a bad rating. There's always exceptions though, because sometimes
life happens and you never know what can cause you to miss a date.
Just my $0.02
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I will never pay a deposit. But fiji said something I don't understand and I have asked multiple girls. I have received many replies. But not one of them makes sense.
How does a deposit make a girl any safer? I literally just asked a provider I was chatting with. No she doesnt ask for deposits. Her answer was "they dont".
So, fiji and any other female who cares to answer. How does getting a deposit make them any safer?
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"And any lady who requires a deposit and doesn’t refund you if SHE has to cancel is a huge red flag"
There is many reasons not do any deposits this is just one of them
Its only entitled delusional women particularly in this line of work who think people owe them money. Sorry the world doesn't work that way
I hope the next time you order a delivery or have something brought to you they ask you for a 100 dollar deposit upfront first so you can see how ridiculously delusional you sound
Then have you pay 100 dollars every time after that, after getting scammed a few times you will then see the error in your ways
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i put a deposit on a used boat once, and i still regret it..
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I personally don’t ask for them on HX. It doesn’t make anyone feel safety in the” oh I’m not going to be hurt “ way just in the “ it’s less likely I’m going to have my time completely wasted during peak visiting hours” type of way. Other sites like Marisa said I may ask for a small holding fee based on other screening methods, current availability, and how far in advance someone is trying to book. The way I see it is like this especially when prebooking. What we are doing is tech considered entertainment. 99% of people you hire in the entertainment industry especially to come to you requires a deposit when booked in advance. Again HX does hold the men accountable with the rating system so I will never ask a deposit here. But let’s face it most of us can no longer solely survive on this site so I def think for some it makes sense. To each their own really
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And for the record in the very rare off chance I have ever canceled with someone they always always get there deposit back immediately
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I almsot never ask for a deposit. That however is about to change. At least for 1st time bookings. The number of flakes and time wasters has gone up, way up. And we just tire of this shit. I will never understand the thrill of booking with a lady and then not showing up, or not answering the door when she arrives. It is just plain childish. And there is not enough time to rebook that hour with someone else. So it not only wastes time, but there is also a loss of income.
I am talking more like a "booking Fee" to be deducted from the cost of the appointment, when the guy shows up. But when he doesn;t,... oh well. What I hope is that the guys who have no intention of keeping the appointment will just refuse to make a deposit, and then I will move on to book someone who is serious and reliable. Something as little as $25, just as a show of faith that the guy will show. It will in no way make up for the lost imcome for a no show. But the purpose to to prevent the no shows from happening.
What do you guys think about that?
"A"
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When I initially signed on this site I was under the assumption that everyone adhere to rules and regulations on this site but I soon I found out that this site is no different than any other ones out there. Saying that if you haven't had any recent activities i will ignore you if you reviews Wall looks brighter than my first sanitary napkin don't expect a response from me. I attempted to stay within the community guidelines more or less so I can have guideline on how I can navigate this site without bothering anyone else, yes someone members may create different accounts but their way of communicating will not change or they may changed their mind in how they reviews providers due to the lack of backbone or personal conviction which I respect 🤣🤣 anyhow I do not ask for a deposit on this site other sites I handle them differently
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outcalls, especially from quite a distance nobody should fuss about a deposit. if guys do then they don’t respect the lady’s time and are not really worth seeing. incalls and the guy has a respectable network should not require a deposit. flaking sucks. goes both ways. i have never flaked but have been given a location and showed up on time only to be ghosted.
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"outcalls, especially from quite a distance nobody should fuss about a deposit. if guys do then they don’t respect the lady’s time and are not really worth seeing."
Failed trick logic here. This is exactly what NOT to do.
So what happens when you send that 200 dollar deposit for outcall and then she decides to no show and not answer any of your calls. How do you get your money back explain that to everyone here.
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Why would you send a deposit to a cock eyed bitch with dick on her breath.
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Deposits. It really comes down to who you trust and who you don't. Unless you already have a rapport with a client or provider. No one really trusts either
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So... Some ask for them. Most all won't pay one.
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