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Deep discounts
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You are starting to soud real cheap mr loucifr
haha are you a cheap date sir?
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I pride myself on my thriftiness!
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His family owns Thriftys which is Rite Aide now.
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Loucifr can you get me some ice cream....I love thrifty ice cream lol
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I like when a woman has a sandwich and a Mt Dew for me so I can munch out on my way home.
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Safe, upscale, discreet location
Hassle free parking
Shower
Clean towels
Unscented soap
Mouthwash
Freshly showered host
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Thats a understandable and fair list. Thank you for sharing 
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I would add good communication on arranging the booking
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Forget ambiance, I don't care about towels, soaps etc.
For me, the initial hug can put me at ease.
Pictures matching the girl (with some network)
Billy Crystal said:
Girls need a reason to have sex.
Guys just a place.
Meaning, as I mention above, the scented lotions & stuff for most guys don't matter.
If a new girl with no network, or pics that don't match, or she's standoffish on introduction might be a reason to bail if one suspects she's other than what she says she is.
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remo that makes sense ...
Understandable and thanks for replying sweety
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Direct eye contact and a smile.
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Elevators that don’t require keycard access
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I like it when the Restroom door is left open when I enter. It’ looks sketchy if it’s closed.
Towels should always be expected, but a 3rd of you ladies always disappoint in this simple task.
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Ohh, and how about a proper greeting with a hug and a smile. Some of yall try and act like you were busy cleaning and try to avoid eye contact.
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Friendly, smiling, showing a bit of playful personality are always great to walk in to.
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Case in point @Ayla_Amour and others for sure but credit where credits due.
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these are all really great!
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An Ocean view is always a nice touch 
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I love an ocean view as well!
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Lol
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I just like the ladies to be ready at the agreed upon time. You agreed to the time; be ready. The waiting in the car (“I need 5 minutes”) or the running around the room finding condoms or lotion or finding music for 3 minutes….. it all kills the mood.
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Oh and I don't want to see a size 14 basketball shoes in the corner.
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Lol beggars can’t be choosers, love. Just break em off a piece of the Kit Kat bar and send them back to their shit lives.
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BCk on topic: preferred mouthwash
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seymour you dont like women with big feet ?!
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Upon entry; a smile and a hug and perhaps a kiss. When she makes you feel like you know each other.
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😘😘😘
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This blog is absolutely hilarious and informative at the same time
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Hotstuff '
right ?? Like some of the things that DONT get done are crazy to me lol
and yes very informative
btw good morning beautiful you are gorgeous
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if you just take a dump - no please use the one in the lobby.
as matter of fact, should be no smells whatsoever
no smoke smells, no sweat, no food, no perfume, no alcho smell
no bathtub full of used towels
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Providers really do that?? ^^^
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A fat ass
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Clean towels and Irish Spring -- so I smell the same when I leave as when I got there.
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I always provide mouthwash, soap (that is not from the hotel), baby wipes , clean towels, makeup remover for when kissing gets messy) as well as a juicy ass!
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@laguna88 I 100% agree ! (And this goes both ways)
Exactly why I leave at least 1 hour between each date to provide proper time to refresh and reset myself physically and mentally
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Ladies that don’t wear heavy perfume or fragrances.
Non smoking before date to limit the smell of smoke, especially weed.
Want to leave like how I smell when I walked in not what the room or ladies smell like.
Fresh towels should we need to freshen up, unscented soap.
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I'm pretty low maintenance.
I like having a shower whether or not I showered a couple hours prior, wipes for the messies at the end... uh, at least medium-level light... I learned with experience that having relaxing music helps otherwise it might get a little awkward lol. I don't mind whether or not there's perfume/room aroma, but as long as there are no bad smells like hygiene or smoke of any type, I'm good.
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Fiji that’s great thank you for sharing beautiful
Thanks everyone for the conversation around this!
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Wow I saw this post, instantly thought of so much input to add and feel very seen and appreciated to be mentioned. Thank you nicksgv 🙏💓🙏 Any job Ive ever done I put a lot of effort into and this one has been no different. It feels very good and validating for me so again, thank you.
So first off cleanliness is a given, being showered and having a nice comfortable clean room. Always having fresh towels and mouthwash, once again should always be a given. I don’t think most guys care about certain lotions or particular soaps, if they do they will bring their own.
The most important thing when it comes to making clients feel comfortable is 100% how you greet them and how you treat them throughout the session.
This cannot be executed correctly if you yourself are not comfortable or in the right state of mind. So that comes first. Leaving all your personal drama at the door and forgetting about it for the day. Do your own personal rituals to put yourself in a pleasant mindset before meeting with clients. For me that is stretching, meditation, tea or coffee and music. I only stay at hotels I feel comfortable in, even if I am paying a 50$ a night parking fee. I need big windows and lots of natural light. What makes you comfortable is completely individual but that is what I personally need.
Ok once you have all that down and are in the right mindset, now your main priority is making the client feel good and comfortable. I do this by keeping a certain state of mind and that mindset is GRATITUDE👏 They could have chosen to spend their time and hard earned cash on any one of thousands of girls but they chose YOU. I try to let gratitude and appreciation show in all my actions and mannerisms throughout the session. Being 100% present and engaged the whole time. They are there for a good time so just trying to accommodate that to the fullest, keeping things fun and enjoying the moment with them. That is what I feel creates the most comfortable atmosphere for clients.
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^ That's how you know which girls are the real deal and care. Everything that Ayla said. I like to socialise and have a friendly, engaging atmosphere. Take care of yourself first so you feel positive and then you're able to have a great time.
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Ayla hit the nail right on the head and is spot on! That’s exactly how I personally like to be treated which makes the time truly enjoyable for both! Now I need to know next time Ayla is in the SFV.
MBF
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Ayla … first of all you are gorgeous!! And thank you so much for taking time to be so insightful and give feedback.
Sounds like you are an amazing provider and the gentlemen love you.
🔥😍
Thank you for offering your experience and sharing 💗
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of these comments have me 😂😂.. taking notes 📝
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How you make someone feel is extremely important.
A dirty, unkept room means you’re dirty and careless. A clean room suggests that you’re clean and have your shit together and is less distracting.
A pleasant greeting (warm hug, passionate kiss, etc.) sets the mood for the rest of the session. A comfortable session is obviously more pleasant for everyone.
Never, ever say anything that suggests you want the guy to finish (unless the time is about to expire). It means you’ve had enough, you’re not enjoying yourself, and you’d like the ape to get off of you.
The illusion that you’re actually enjoying yourself is important to most guys.
Cleanliness and grooming is extremely important. Stubble anywhere is distracting. Offensive odors are distracting.
Anything distracting means more work for you and more difficulty for him.
Anything mechanical means more work for you if the goal is to excite to the point of finishing. Passion = excitement = finishing sooner = less TOTAL effort.
A very happy and satisfied guy equals repeat visits, which should always be the goal (unless you won’t want to see a particular guy again).
But every guy is technically important because word about a bad session (for whatever reason) spreads on here because people talk. Guys need to know that as well. Treat women well, be clean, etc.
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All the women on this site should read what @ Ayla_Amour wrote.
Very impressive thoughtfulness.
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I Concur with Ayla_Amour, it's the attitude and chemistry what works best.
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I totally agree with Ayala.
As for myself I treat meeting a provider like a first date. I definitely get excited ,nervous enough as if it is one. I shower, shave , brush my teeth trim and scape what ever. When at their place of appointment if they ask if I want to use the shower I do if only to set their mind at ease that I'm clean and showered.
I appreciate the provider for giving me their time,there may be a monetary exchange but that doesn't mean I own them or gives me the means to disrespect them. They are giving me their time and literally of themselves.I would like them to enjoy their time with me as much as I want to enjoy the time with them. Or maybe I just really like women, like the way they look and feel, the way they smell and especially the little sounds they make when you are doing things right.
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@ChanelLovesRoses - Why am I now just reading this!? I feel horrible. Thank you! you're gorgeous and we both live in the same city
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