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Sep 20 2023 02:18PM more by ChanelLovesRoses
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Men , what makes you feel super comfortable when going to a ladies hosting site?

Warm towels?
Certain soaps?
Available shower?
Certain lotions? etc

What makes you comfortable in a meet up?

Ladies, what have you found to be the most helpful in creating a comfortable space for you and your gentlemen?
What makes your experience more special than the next ladies as far as environment and ambiance?
      
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loucfirr1
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Sep 20 2023 02:18PM     link to this

Deep discounts
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 02:22PM     link to this

You are starting to soud real cheap mr loucifr

haha are you a cheap date sir?
loucfirr1
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Sep 20 2023 02:54PM     link to this

I pride myself on my thriftiness!
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Sep 20 2023 03:27PM     link to this

His family owns Thriftys which is Rite Aide now.
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 03:30PM     link to this

Loucifr can you get me some ice cream....I love thrifty ice cream lol
SeymourButz
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Sep 20 2023 03:30PM     link to this

I like when a woman has a sandwich and a Mt Dew for me so I can munch out on my way home.
Sbsurf40s
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Sep 20 2023 03:30PM     link to this

Safe, upscale, discreet location
Hassle free parking
Shower
Clean towels
Unscented soap
Mouthwash
Freshly showered host
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 03:31PM     link to this

Thats a understandable and fair list. Thank you for sharing
remo_williams
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Sep 20 2023 04:47PM     link to this

Forget ambiance, I don't care about towels, soaps etc.

For me, the initial hug can put me at ease.

Pictures matching the girl (with some network)

Billy Crystal said:
Girls need a reason to have sex.
Guys just a place.

Meaning, as I mention above, the scented lotions & stuff for most guys don't matter.

If a new girl with no network, or pics that don't match, or she's standoffish on introduction might be a reason to bail if one suspects she's other than what she says she is.
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 04:57PM     link to this

remo that makes sense ...

Understandable and thanks for replying sweety
NickSgv
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Sep 20 2023 06:21PM     link to this

Direct eye contact and a smile.
HungryMan4u
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Sep 20 2023 06:26PM     link to this

Elevators that don’t require keycard access
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Sep 20 2023 07:16PM     link to this

I like it when the Restroom door is left open when I enter. It’ looks sketchy if it’s closed.

Towels should always be expected, but a 3rd of you ladies always disappoint in this simple task.
vince2001
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Sep 20 2023 07:18PM     link to this

Ohh, and how about a proper greeting with a hug and a smile. Some of yall try and act like you were busy cleaning and try to avoid eye contact.
FlappyNutSack
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Sep 20 2023 08:17PM     link to this

Friendly, smiling, showing a bit of playful personality are always great to walk in to.
NickSgv
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Sep 20 2023 09:25PM     link to this

Case in point @Ayla_Amour and others for sure but credit where credits due.
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 10:30PM     link to this

these are all really great!
PeteMalloy
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Sep 20 2023 10:33PM     link to this

An Ocean view is always a nice touch
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ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 20 2023 10:40PM     link to this

I love an ocean view as well!
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Sep 20 2023 11:26PM     link to this

Lol

Laguna88
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Sep 21 2023 01:48AM     link to this

I just like the ladies to be ready at the agreed upon time. You agreed to the time; be ready. The waiting in the car (“I need 5 minutes”) or the running around the room finding condoms or lotion or finding music for 3 minutes….. it all kills the mood.

SeymourButz
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Sep 21 2023 01:51AM     link to this

Oh and I don't want to see a size 14 basketball shoes in the corner.
allcaps
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Sep 21 2023 05:19AM     link to this

Lol beggars can’t be choosers, love. Just break em off a piece of the Kit Kat bar and send them back to their shit lives.
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Sep 21 2023 05:42AM     link to this

BCk on topic: preferred mouthwash
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 21 2023 06:00AM     link to this

seymour you dont like women with big feet ?!
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Sep 21 2023 07:05AM     link to this

Upon entry; a smile and a hug and perhaps a kiss. When she makes you feel like you know each other.
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 21 2023 07:30AM     link to this

😘😘😘
HotStuff69
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Sep 21 2023 08:18AM     link to this

This blog is absolutely hilarious and informative at the same time
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 21 2023 08:44AM     link to this

Hotstuff '

right ?? Like some of the things that DONT get done are crazy to me lol

and yes very informative

btw good morning beautiful you are gorgeous
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Sep 21 2023 09:54AM     link to this

if you just take a dump - no please use the one in the lobby.
as matter of fact, should be no smells whatsoever
no smoke smells, no sweat, no food, no perfume, no alcho smell
no bathtub full of used towels
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 21 2023 09:58AM     link to this

Providers really do that?? ^^^
Emerson1999
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Sep 21 2023 10:18AM     link to this

A fat ass
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Sep 21 2023 11:48AM     link to this

Clean towels and Irish Spring -- so I smell the same when I leave as when I got there.
Yourbaby_Fiji
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Sep 21 2023 07:12PM     link to this

I always provide mouthwash, soap (that is not from the hotel), baby wipes , clean towels, makeup remover for when kissing gets messy) as well as a juicy ass!
Yourbaby_Fiji
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Sep 21 2023 07:14PM     link to this

@laguna88 I 100% agree ! (And this goes both ways)
Exactly why I leave at least 1 hour between each date to provide proper time to refresh and reset myself physically and mentally
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Sep 21 2023 09:50PM     link to this

Ladies that don’t wear heavy perfume or fragrances.
Non smoking before date to limit the smell of smoke, especially weed.
Want to leave like how I smell when I walked in not what the room or ladies smell like.
Fresh towels should we need to freshen up, unscented soap.
IcedCoffee
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Sep 21 2023 10:46PM     link to this

I'm pretty low maintenance.

I like having a shower whether or not I showered a couple hours prior, wipes for the messies at the end... uh, at least medium-level light... I learned with experience that having relaxing music helps otherwise it might get a little awkward lol. I don't mind whether or not there's perfume/room aroma, but as long as there are no bad smells like hygiene or smoke of any type, I'm good.
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 22 2023 06:17AM     link to this

Fiji that’s great thank you for sharing beautiful


Thanks everyone for the conversation around this!
Ayla_Amour
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Sep 22 2023 03:25PM     link to this

Wow I saw this post, instantly thought of so much input to add and feel very seen and appreciated to be mentioned. Thank you nicksgv 🙏💓🙏 Any job Ive ever done I put a lot of effort into and this one has been no different. It feels very good and validating for me so again, thank you.

So first off cleanliness is a given, being showered and having a nice comfortable clean room. Always having fresh towels and mouthwash, once again should always be a given. I don’t think most guys care about certain lotions or particular soaps, if they do they will bring their own.

The most important thing when it comes to making clients feel comfortable is 100% how you greet them and how you treat them throughout the session.
This cannot be executed correctly if you yourself are not comfortable or in the right state of mind. So that comes first. Leaving all your personal drama at the door and forgetting about it for the day. Do your own personal rituals to put yourself in a pleasant mindset before meeting with clients. For me that is stretching, meditation, tea or coffee and music. I only stay at hotels I feel comfortable in, even if I am paying a 50$ a night parking fee. I need big windows and lots of natural light. What makes you comfortable is completely individual but that is what I personally need.

Ok once you have all that down and are in the right mindset, now your main priority is making the client feel good and comfortable. I do this by keeping a certain state of mind and that mindset is GRATITUDE👏 They could have chosen to spend their time and hard earned cash on any one of thousands of girls but they chose YOU. I try to let gratitude and appreciation show in all my actions and mannerisms throughout the session. Being 100% present and engaged the whole time. They are there for a good time so just trying to accommodate that to the fullest, keeping things fun and enjoying the moment with them. That is what I feel creates the most comfortable atmosphere for clients.
IcedCoffee
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Sep 22 2023 04:39PM     link to this

^ That's how you know which girls are the real deal and care. Everything that Ayla said. I like to socialise and have a friendly, engaging atmosphere. Take care of yourself first so you feel positive and then you're able to have a great time.
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Sep 22 2023 08:59PM     link to this

Ayla hit the nail right on the head and is spot on! That’s exactly how I personally like to be treated which makes the time truly enjoyable for both! Now I need to know next time Ayla is in the SFV.

MBF
ChanelLovesRoses
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Sep 23 2023 06:20AM     link to this

Ayla … first of all you are gorgeous!! And thank you so much for taking time to be so insightful and give feedback.

Sounds like you are an amazing provider and the gentlemen love you.

🔥😍

Thank you for offering your experience and sharing 💗
YourFave01
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Sep 23 2023 08:30AM     link to this

of these comments have me 😂😂.. taking notes 📝
mildlyamusing1
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Sep 23 2023 09:02AM     link to this

How you make someone feel is extremely important.

A dirty, unkept room means you’re dirty and careless. A clean room suggests that you’re clean and have your shit together and is less distracting.

A pleasant greeting (warm hug, passionate kiss, etc.) sets the mood for the rest of the session. A comfortable session is obviously more pleasant for everyone.


Never, ever say anything that suggests you want the guy to finish (unless the time is about to expire). It means you’ve had enough, you’re not enjoying yourself, and you’d like the ape to get off of you.

The illusion that you’re actually enjoying yourself is important to most guys.


Cleanliness and grooming is extremely important. Stubble anywhere is distracting. Offensive odors are distracting.

Anything distracting means more work for you and more difficulty for him.


Anything mechanical means more work for you if the goal is to excite to the point of finishing. Passion = excitement = finishing sooner = less TOTAL effort.


A very happy and satisfied guy equals repeat visits, which should always be the goal (unless you won’t want to see a particular guy again).

But every guy is technically important because word about a bad session (for whatever reason) spreads on here because people talk. Guys need to know that as well. Treat women well, be clean, etc.


mildlyamusing1
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Sep 23 2023 09:13AM     link to this

All the women on this site should read what @ Ayla_Amour wrote.

Very impressive thoughtfulness.


Latin_Lover
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Sep 23 2023 10:55AM     link to this

I Concur with Ayla_Amour, it's the attitude and chemistry what works best.
lookyloo1021
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Sep 23 2023 04:43PM     link to this

I totally agree with Ayala.
As for myself I treat meeting a provider like a first date. I definitely get excited ,nervous enough as if it is one. I shower, shave , brush my teeth trim and scape what ever. When at their place of appointment if they ask if I want to use the shower I do if only to set their mind at ease that I'm clean and showered.
I appreciate the provider for giving me their time,there may be a monetary exchange but that doesn't mean I own them or gives me the means to disrespect them. They are giving me their time and literally of themselves.I would like them to enjoy their time with me as much as I want to enjoy the time with them. Or maybe I just really like women, like the way they look and feel, the way they smell and especially the little sounds they make when you are doing things right.
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Sep 23 2023 06:23PM     link to this

@ChanelLovesRoses - Why am I now just reading this!? I feel horrible. Thank you! you're gorgeous and we both live in the same city
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