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Chicks hate Hub-addicted guys
Sep 26 2023 11:54PM more by NigelCollins68
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Sadia Khan
Sadia Psychology (YouTube)

Title: This will make you UNATTRACTIVE to high value women.

At 10:00 minutes

"When you do Only Fans as a woman, the type of man you attract is a man that is addicted to pornography. The average man who is traditional or doesn't watch a lot of porn or is kind of old school won't be in a long-term relationship with an Only Fans girl. The only type of guy who is so into that is a guy who has also grown up with pornography and has normalized a girl who is hyper-sexual."

"So she ends up with a man who is not very masculine. He can't climax. He wants more and more. He needs threesomes. So her insecurities go through the roof. She is online getting people to pay for her when her own boyfriend, she can walk around naked in front of him and he doesn't even show a reaction. So she actually comes out of it very depressed from what her boyfriend is like."
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NigelCollins68
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Sep 27 2023 05:20AM     link to this

In another video, which I am not going to take the time to find right now, Sadia Khan says that women find sex with porn-addicted guys to be dissatisfying. Porn-addicted guys don't understand the art of generating emotional connection. Porn-addicted guys try to imitate the sex that they see in porn videos.

I'd love to be able to imitate male pornstars. I just don't have that kind of dick control.
TomTraubert
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Sep 27 2023 07:53AM     link to this

She sounds like a lesbian
vince2001
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Sep 27 2023 08:29AM     link to this

^^^ spot on.
SeymourButz
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Sep 27 2023 10:11AM     link to this

Where she at.....I'll fuck her.
AFMadness
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Sep 27 2023 10:22AM     link to this

" guys don't understand the art of generating emotional connection "

Porn or not, for most that is a true statement.
vince2001
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Sep 27 2023 03:15PM     link to this

The Hub inspired me to make more money. I told myself, I wanna be with all those girls, and any girl that looks like those girls. …..Now, here i am giving donations to all the beauties =)
GoBallsDeep
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Sep 27 2023 07:22PM     link to this

Careful what you wish for, OP.
You could end up like The Hedgehog.

Iwan.t
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Sep 27 2023 07:34PM     link to this

I don't agree with the op. I've dated several girls on this site aswellasTER and thebigdoggie and at least 50 strippers lol. I don't have any issues with performance, carry myself like a man and only was willing to check out threesome's if my girl was totally into it. Not everyone that flogs the porpoise to some good old fashioned porn is broken beyond repair. Some of us just like getting freaky lol. And as for the girls who do sec work not all of them are broken either. You'd be surprised at just how far these ladies can take themselves when presented with opportunitys. For some it's just a combination of lack of opportunity and no support system on place. But like most people a job is just a job, not really something you base your id on
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Sep 27 2023 07:40PM     link to this

Not this douche again.
Hey1
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Sep 27 2023 08:59PM     link to this

My first regular now has a PHD in psychology.
vince2001
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Sep 27 2023 09:06PM     link to this

Serious question for OP: Do you wear that mask still?
Hey1
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Sep 27 2023 09:16PM     link to this

How is that a serious question?
Iwan.t
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Sep 27 2023 09:20PM     link to this

Give them an honest chance and most of them will surprise you. Nah, I take that back
Most of them will continue fucking up lol but there are a bunch who would surprise you. Usually that early 30's to about 40. They burn out of hustling every day. Unless they got a nigga, it's a wrap if Tyrone still around. That lazy nigga ain't planning on working till he's dead lol
Hey1
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Sep 27 2023 10:30PM     link to this

I do not think a lot of this shit is very much different for men or women. I am not old but old enough to have not learned sex from online porn. I learned sex from having sex. And the occasional Betamax tape. Really young girls suck in bed because they think men want them to do things we mostly do not want them to do. This creates an alienation between both sexes. So in that sense porn is a negative towards women. But one could argue the reverse is also true. I am not a woman in this lifetime so I do not know.

The fact of the matter is that sex capitalism can burn out both genders. Pacing is key. Regulars are crucial. And empathy is everything. The 19 year old dingbat might get her shit together one day. The twenty something usually has a life plan that is better than anything I had at her age. The thirty something is sometimes the most depressed and uncertain but professional and experienced. And the forty something is a sexual tornado.

The point is almost every woman I have met in this hobby was as strong as or stronger than me. I do not ever see a huge distinction between mongers and providers.

Or for that matter between men and women once you start listening to what they have to say.
Iwan.t
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Sep 27 2023 11:06PM     link to this

I pretty much agree with what you wrote. I don't see anymore shame as a customer then I do as being a provider. We're both comfortable, or at least should be, when we meet up. I've seen more of the 30'sh into early 40's turn the page on hustling but that's just my own personal experience. I'm sure there's girls who get out of this lifestyle earlier than that. But personally just from my own experience it's harder for a person to shake the hustle until they get old enough to realize that 65 with no retirement, SS, or wealthy family to lean on (which as good would have it I do so happen to have a very rich father lol. I probably wouldn't have gone to prison the last time I did because with an obligation on the way and no rich father to bail me out for the umpteenth time over some bullshit I shouldn't have doing. I honestly think I would have settled down and just got a job. Oh well, them's the breaks. Got to see AZ for twenty four months lol. I just honestly think when you're tired of ripping and running you settle down real quick but until that time you just keep going because working 9-5 sucks ass lol
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