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Sep 28 2023 09:10PM more by Ajay4fun
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Don't contact me and ask if she is available!

I mean really..


example::
Hey Susie How are you?
Great, glad to hear it.
Hey, is Sally with you? I'd like to hook up with her?



Really? Why do guys do this?
I would like to believe men are smarter then they act..
THINK! Just THINK for 2 minutes with the big head before
you do something like this.
It is kind of rude, to say the very least!



Ok, done with my rant!
Continue with your evening.

"A"
      
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Himes_Soul
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Sep 28 2023 09:38PM     link to this

Then want the one you're with?
SeymourButz
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Sep 28 2023 09:50PM     link to this

All wrong.
If you can't be, with the one you love.......love the one you're with.
Crosby Stills Nash n Young.
vince2001
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Sep 28 2023 10:56PM     link to this

I do that sometimes, and it works out great all the time.

Honestly if you don’t like it, you should stop advertising her on most of your albums with titles using her name. Also, this is a self inflicted wound on your part. Tony Robbins, teaches us that we have 3-5 opportunities that we miss on our own that prevent us from being victims. When I go to the bakery for a bagel, and they’re only showing me the price for the Bagel & the Donut, i’m going to say how much for the Bagel only.

At the end of the day, you’re the merchant and we’re the customers and you need to adjust to what the market is doing and not try and change your customers habits.

Be well.
AFMadness
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Sep 29 2023 12:00AM     link to this

Unfortunately, this is where they fail in life , and perhaps why they are here.
FlappyNutSack
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Sep 29 2023 04:25AM     link to this

Finally someone recognizing how great Bagels are! Thank you Vince!

Toasted a bit dark, with butter. And I mean good high-fat European butter, not the American Kraft singles equivalent!
Ajay4fun
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Sep 29 2023 09:39AM     link to this

Vince:

If and WHEN I advertise with or for another lady. That is fine.

But albums are not ads. They are there for your enjoyment.

Sheesh.

Do you ever think without your penis being in charge?

Don't need to answer that, we already know!

"A"
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Sep 29 2023 11:03AM     link to this

Toasted a bit dark, with butter butterballs. And I mean good high-fat European butter butterballs, not the American Kraft singles equivalent!

FIFY
FlappyNutSack
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Sep 29 2023 11:43AM     link to this

ButterBalls was a good dude
kuya_zoom
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Sep 29 2023 01:16PM     link to this

The high fat european butterballs was a good dude. The american butterballs was milquetoast.
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Sep 29 2023 01:28PM     link to this

Her opinion is all that matters.

No one else is allowed to speak theirs.

Why would they all be asking for someone else?

sleepyone
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Sep 29 2023 01:57PM     link to this

“ Really? Why do guys do this?”

Because you girls post tons of photos of your friends that we may be attracted to but not you and would assume you’d like to do your friends a solid, who might not have accounts, and book for them.
sleepyone
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Sep 29 2023 01:58PM     link to this

Maybe you could charge a referral fee.
Tabie
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Sep 30 2023 05:08AM     link to this

Plenty of love to spread around, who knows if you pay it forward it will come back around, put positive energy into it and it will always work out, maybe not the way you want but it will
Ajay4fun
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Sep 30 2023 07:23AM     link to this

Oh darlin , I spread and share the love a lot more then you would think. I am the a poster child for sharing the love. I am just asking men to think a tiny bit, before they jump.
Tabie
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Sep 30 2023 07:43AM     link to this

^^^ let me know how it works out darlin😘
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Sep 30 2023 08:17AM     link to this

So are we allowed to rant about stupid things women ask of men, and tell them everything that is wrong with them because they don't think the way men want them to think?
Ajay4fun
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Sep 30 2023 08:30AM     link to this

Tabie:

It always works out great!
RockOne
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Sep 30 2023 04:33PM     link to this

I only have one question; when is Tabie available?

what a girl!
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Sep 30 2023 04:36PM     link to this

Pm her. When you can afford p m privileges.

If that ever happens.
RockOne
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Sep 30 2023 04:38PM     link to this

oh well.... At least I try.
Ajay4fun
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Sep 30 2023 10:14PM     link to this

If you can not afford points (that cost a penny a piece) You can not afford to even be looking.
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Sep 30 2023 10:20PM     link to this

^^^ very well said!
vince2001
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Oct 1 2023 01:00PM     link to this

“But albums are not ads. They are there for your enjoyment.
Sheesh. “

I believe you believe that, but every man on this beautiful site would disagree with you. We use Everything in your profile when considering, which means the smallest detail or lack of becomes part of your ad. Honestly, you have some many pictures of other women it took me a a few moments to figure out which one is you.

Sometimes a Blog created to teach others becomes more educational to the OP.

Best Regards.
Ajay4fun
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Oct 1 2023 04:27PM     link to this

vince2001

" Honestly, you have some many pictures of other women it took me a a few moments to figure out which one is you."


Really, Then maybe you should try doing a little more reading, As my albums with other ladies in them are titled as such. Like "Ajay & Eva Moon" :"Mystee and Ajay" "3 is the magic number:,etc etc. Which pretty much tells you there are other ladies in them.

You make it sound like have photos of other ladies is a bad thing. I feel it gives the guys an idea of what to expect if they want to double with us! But I suppose we all see things from our own point of view. And my point of view is not obscured by a penis or hard on. LOL

"A"
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Oct 1 2023 05:14PM     link to this

AJay I agree it is completely rude. Just because people have ads for doubles does not make it ok to ask/tell one lady that you'd like to see the other lady in the ad! Guys if you want to see a lady, contact that lady. A doubles ad is meant for serious inquiries to see both ladies. If you want a solo visit contact the lady herself.

Speaking of doubles.... shall I put up an ad for us here in Redondo?
TheMatrixx
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Oct 1 2023 05:58PM     link to this

The nerve of these women. We can do whatever the hell we want to. You don't like it don't post ads.
vince2001
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Oct 1 2023 06:32PM     link to this

@Evamoon. If a gentleman inquires on only one girl, it doesn't make make it any less of a serious inquiry. Also, we wouldn’t have to inquire if they were appropriately referenced with their profile name in the first place, again self inflicted.

What is the issue with directing traffic towards your girls page? Let’s be honest, its not because it’s rude, it’s because you feel you’re being cut out. Be good to your friends and most will return the favor.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Oct 1 2023 07:12PM     link to this

Folks this is random abyss.

Stop the t o s bullshit.

Save it for a club.

Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Mark Twain
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Oct 1 2023 07:38PM     link to this

TOS enforcement went out the window when FUBAR left. I still vote but I think I'm the only one.
Ajay4fun
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Oct 2 2023 12:51PM     link to this

If you contact a lady and she doesn't respond. There is likely a good reason. Like she is already busy, or some other reason (that you already know). But contacting the other lady she is with is not going to change things. If she doesn't want to see you, she isn't going to. No matter how you try to reach her.

"A"
vince2001
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Oct 2 2023 10:24PM     link to this

Huh??? Now the pivot? Nobody's talking about that OP. Let’s keep to your own topic.
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Oct 6 2023 08:10AM     link to this

yikes.
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Oct 6 2023 09:13AM     link to this

I have a couple of incidents where a girl asked me to join her in a duo. Afterwards, the guy contacts me directly and wants to see me alone. I ALWAYS contact the other girl to make sure she is OK with that BEFORE making any commitment to the guy. Sometimes the girl is good with it - sometimes not. But I consider it common decency to be respectful of the other girl and not be seen as going behind her back and trying to steal a guy.

And if a girl asks me for a reference on someone, I ALWAYS provide a truthful recommendation. Girls need to work together, and respect each other, because it isn't always manifest that the guys will.

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Apr 12 2024 08:52AM     link to this

Love your new profile pic marrissa, super hot
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Apr 12 2024 06:44PM     link to this

Some guys are asses but the sky isn't always falling
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Apr 12 2024 09:09PM     link to this

Pivot?

THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT THE ENTIRE TIME!!!

Oh my lordie!!!

I didn’t even know Ajay had ever posted an ad or put up pictures of a girl without making it clearly obvious who the girl was, and without that girl having her own account on here, thus making her reachable IF she isn’t all booked up and IF she wants to be reached. But if she did do such a thing, I highly doubt she would be all that irritated by gentlemen seeking help in reaching such ladies.

But then again, I could be wrong! (Since someone already mentioned FUBAR)
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Apr 12 2024 09:15PM     link to this

Oh and yes, I don’t think any other lady has referred more gentlemen to me than Miss Ajay. She is THE EPITOME of a sharing, caring person. It offends me to think anyone would suggest otherwise. She is AMAZING!!!
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Apr 13 2024 08:13AM     link to this

After reading all the comments I want to Misty and AJ for president. 2024. Make my balls great again. 😂
Ajay4fun
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Apr 13 2024 03:56PM     link to this

That can be arranged.
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Apr 13 2024 07:15PM     link to this

Ajay is one sexy woman...
Ajay4fun
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Apr 13 2024 09:21PM     link to this

Hi Jesebel. You are pretty F*in hot yourself!



Mystee Thanks for the kind words, You know I like to share!

"A"
SkurferGurl
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Apr 14 2024 09:07AM     link to this

Ajay
AddisonParker
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Apr 14 2024 05:11PM     link to this

"Unfortunately, this is where they fail in life , and perhaps why they are here."

AFMadness - WTF? What makes you think some of us are failures. And if that is the case WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU? I am sorry but that is a very shitty thing to say. If doing what we do is considered failing at life I honestly do not understand why you would even bother using your resources to spend time with failures.
Thank you for enlightening us with how you really feel.
Notes taken
Enjoy your week.
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Apr 14 2024 05:28PM     link to this

I think I have an issue with being asked to pass along a message to someone who when they left made it VERY clear that they were leaving because of the icky parts of this scene. She was transparent and it was clear that she was not wired to take in some of the SHIT that happens in here. Not everyone's experience has been cupcakes and gumdrops. I personally don't have issues with this it has been a lot of fun and still is. But when someone leaves because they feel it is a toxic environment, WHY would you ever ask for them to come back or be part of something they believe hurt them?
Just wondering
Oh and Ajay is a OG along with Mystee, Jezabel, ect. These ladies give advice, will help if your in a bind, and are a shit load of fun. They have weathered the storm.....I have a great deal of respect for them.
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Apr 14 2024 05:59PM     link to this

I was speaking about us guys. Not all of us fail.
And a lot are successful here.
My failure is not knowing years ago what I know now. No one taught me I had to learn on my own.
AddisonParker
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Apr 14 2024 07:29PM     link to this

Thank you for clarifying....I will change my notes from TOTAL ASSHOLE.
To something like Recognized his shortcomings and probably needs a hug lol
Ajay4fun
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Apr 15 2024 01:47PM     link to this

Thank you Addison. I/we always do what I/we can to help others. Thank you for seeing that and taking the time to mention it out loud.

You are one of the great gals!

"A"
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Apr 15 2024 01:57PM     link to this

Anytime, We should get together one of these times I am in the area. I will never forget that one time with that guy....Didn't you make him howl or something wild like that? lol
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Apr 15 2024 03:08PM     link to this

the best blogs on this site are when posts are dominated by the ladies
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Apr 15 2024 07:10PM     link to this

Please make a part 2 and send over more 🍿
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