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This is what what we get for being over the hill?
Sep 30 2023 07:26AM more by Grumpy_Butthead
Tags: LA, Random (All tags)

Two female residents of a senior living home in Diamond Bar, California, who were found dead in June were suffocated to death with plastic bags, according to authorities.

The medical examiner’s office concluded the cause of death for both victims, 75-year-old Monica Lee and 83-year-old Hee Sook, was asphyxia as a result of neck compression and suffocation.

The women were found in a bathroom on the rear side of Happy Home Care For Elderly's property with plastic bags over their heads and taped to their necks, according to a report from the medical examiner’s office. The seniors were pronounced dead at the scene.
      
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Grumpy_Butthead
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Sep 30 2023 07:28AM     link to this

Texting from a motorcycle is challenging
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Sep 30 2023 09:02AM     link to this

That's horrible
AFMadness
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Sep 30 2023 10:17AM     link to this

At 5 to 6,000 a month I don't know how anyone can afford that. I think my Father holds the record for longest stay. Was 93 RIP.
SeymourButz
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Sep 30 2023 11:24AM     link to this

Surfer. Texting from a motorcycle is horrible. I once ran over a small dog doing that same thing.
SkurferGurl
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Sep 30 2023 12:36PM     link to this

Seymour, You'll probably burn in Hell for that one. I'm sorry
GoBallsDeep
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Sep 30 2023 02:19PM     link to this

Raises hand to volunteer to tape off the bag on Buttz

Nacraman
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Sep 30 2023 02:38PM     link to this

You left out some important information, one of the caretakers in the home has been charged.
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Grumpy_Butthead
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Sep 30 2023 03:35PM     link to this

I figure everyone can do their own research.

Just try to make folks think occasionally
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Sep 30 2023 04:38PM     link to this

Tough way for the caretaker to get a day off!
Nacraman
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Sep 30 2023 04:51PM     link to this

Once my Moms mental and physical condition deteriorated, I found a care home close to my house in Santa Barbara. I visited almost everyday and even though she had advanced dementia her face always lit up when I visited. She passed away earlier this year and I really think having family visit on consistent basis visit helps with the care, I talked with one of the staff and they said there were some patients they had seen their family in years. I feel for the family of these two women and I hope they come to peace on how this happened.
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Sep 30 2023 05:04PM     link to this

I had a grandmother with dementia. I would visit a couple of time a week until one day she said, "You know, I have grandchildren, but they never visit." After that I decided once every week was good enough.
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Sep 30 2023 05:04PM     link to this

Folks think that because they are busy that is an excuse not to visit.
Dementia is not there every minute and there are lucid times.
It really sucks when you know it's just around the corner for you.

That's the life we have and those two ladies got shortchanged.
They don't fry people anymore. But that person deserves it that committed that atrocity.
No one deserves to go out that way.
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Sep 30 2023 05:22PM     link to this

When I first heard about the plastic bags over their heads it immediately brought back memories of "Heaven's Gate"
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Sep 30 2023 05:24PM     link to this

Thank God you escaped!
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Sep 30 2023 05:46PM     link to this

Good Thing Hale-Bopp isn't due back for another 3975 years...
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Sep 30 2023 06:17PM     link to this

Shut up Luo
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Sep 30 2023 06:30PM     link to this

Which shill account am I posting from?
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Sep 30 2023 06:57PM     link to this

Brains.........more brains
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Oct 1 2023 07:58PM     link to this

balls over brains
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Oct 1 2023 08:18PM     link to this

Horrible.

More families should take care of their elderly parents if they can (and if they don't require specialized care). In any event they should be careful they're not dumping them in some snakepit home.

At least the suspect is in jail and not turned loose like George Gas-Can in LA probably would have done. Sympathy to the victims' families.
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Oct 1 2023 08:22PM     link to this

One of my all time favorite shows is law and order, people try to get away with the most craziest things sometimes.

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Oct 1 2023 08:25PM     link to this

For all we know, they didn't have the money to fly to Switzerland and asked the guy to help them shuffle off their mortal coil.
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Oct 2 2023 11:47AM     link to this

Your Mother and Father will teach you how to die.

Too bad we never listen to them.
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Oct 2 2023 12:34PM     link to this

that care home was sited for problems several years ago. life w no parole is getting off to easy.
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