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billcarson
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Oct 15 2023 06:14PM more by billcarson
Tags: Orange County, Townhall (All tags)

Hello Everyone. I got stood up again today. Does this happen often with the ladies here? Twice this year I've driven an hour to OC only to be ghosted when I arrive. This time the lady gave me her room number after I arrived on time, I go up, knock ... no answer. I thought she gave me the wrong room number but all contacted stopped. WTF?!? I was at the hotel and the room she gave me. All texting stopped. She wouldn't answer anymore of my texts. Waste of time.

My second question is should I give them a negative rating or just let it slide? Thanks.
      
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kingnorris
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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since Apr 4 2006

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Oct 15 2023 06:33PM     link to this

Negative rating. The lady made an arrangement with you and flaked without notice or followup. By rating her negatively (and also posting a negative review of your experience), you prevent other guys from wasting their time. This is the raison d'etre for this site.
Tabie
CA
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Oct 15 2023 07:41PM     link to this

Is your picker broken ?

XoTabie
TOSViolate818
SFV, LA, CA
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Oct 15 2023 08:22PM     link to this

maybe this is a stupid question but the rating questions seem odd to me: what question should be answered negatively in the OP's scenario?

ColossusJones
AL
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Oct 15 2023 09:05PM     link to this


Answer the questions honestly and let the chips fall where they may.

Himes_Soul
Torrance, Coastal, LA, CA
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Oct 15 2023 09:38PM     link to this

It's a reliability and karma issue,,,, Not safety,
Izzy619
LA, CA
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Oct 15 2023 11:24PM     link to this

Rate negatively.

There's questions on there that are relatable to the OP's situation.

this zings her Karma ( good juju ),
integrity ( she followed through with her promises to meet .. in this case she flaked),
and Reliability. ( her failure to follow up if there was a change of plans )

and put her on blast here!
91BLUE850
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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since Dec 21 2018

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Oct 16 2023 01:19AM     link to this

......and try to keep those waisted sight seeing tours of OC to a minimum, it eats into your gas

funds! As gents for reviews before you make fruitless treks to locations far and wide. Or, have a

back plan for the flakers! Welcome to the site, and as they used to say at Great America in Santa

Clara..."Enjoy the ride!"



busya
TN
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since Apr 20 2011

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Oct 16 2023 05:26AM     link to this

that's a negative for me. a lot of us are on strict time schedules and to drive an hour away and be flaked on is bad karama. happened to me once or twice.
billcarson
Beverly Hills, LA, CA
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Oct 16 2023 05:29AM     link to this

What pisses me off is she was texting right up to the point where I was going upstairs to the room, then nothing. I gave her negative Karma and left it at that - didn't feel like going through the whole survey. PM me if you want her name. The upside is I found another provider to see me in the area and she was GREAT. Good luck, fellas.
Awergin
LA, CA
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Oct 16 2023 11:27AM     link to this

No show after getting a hotel room number should definitely be a safety issue. There have been reports of people getting robbed in that situation.
MsMariah
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Oct 16 2023 06:45PM     link to this

Agreed. Whether it’s the ladies who give the room number and the gentleman don’t show up. Or vice versa , the gentleman has the room number but no one answers. It is not a safe situation in either case. I would rate red for safety.
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Oct 16 2023 07:16PM     link to this

She wasted your time, big time.

At a bare minimum she deserves reds in reliability, compliance and integrity.

I checked out your outgoing rating and saw a negative karma rating issued to a lady.

I checked out her profile and pictures and each and every single one of those pictures looks different and fake.
MsMariah
North Las Vegas, Vegas, NV
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Oct 16 2023 07:53PM     link to this

@artnjazz
It seems there is another blog about her and her many other previous handles.
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Oct 16 2023 08:02PM     link to this

Yeah, definitely worth a negative rating. For myself, my time wasted is way more valuable then any cash lost.

I never been stood up but I had girls push back my appointment by 30-40 mins right when I arrive at the Hotel.
rocker73
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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Oct 18 2023 01:41PM     link to this

From experience, worth the negative rating IF - she doesn't reach out and apologize or explain what happened if something was beyond her control. To be fair, allow yourself a 48 hour cooling off period before deciding to rate her negatively because people could be vindictive. My experience with HX has been 95% reliable after dates were set so shit happens at times.
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Oct 18 2023 10:07PM     link to this

Stealing your time is the same as stealing your money. That works both ways people.
billinirvine
Irvine, OC, CA
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Oct 18 2023 10:33PM     link to this

Always have a back up plan
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