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SailorPoon
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RemedyDreams pt. II
Oct 31 2023 07:02PM more by SailorPoon
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III. At this point I�m quite dismayed. I�m in disbelief over the situation, but even still I try to keep her privacy in mind. With the two full deposits and the three wasted occasions booking a room, I�m in this over 3k at this point. I figure I would still try and arrange with her since being a dick isn�t likely to get my moneys worth out of the situation, however my attempts to reschedule (again, completely up to me) prove to be fruitless. Just like all my efforts since seeing her in June, I�m met with excuses, impasse and lack of communication. A constant navigation of her not feeling well, her �time of the month� (never questioned or took issue with it) or her simply disappearing mid conversation. I�m literally bending over backwards to try and make something happen, even offering to pay her again - doesn�t work. I ask for more communication on her end regarding her availability so I may try and create more opportunities for us (as in I will go out of my way to make something happen), nope. I get non committal answers like
�Well I certainly hope there�s more opportunities for us going forward.� .. ?!?!?

Her recent activities on humaniplex indicate that she definitely has more time for handling �business� than she has lead me to believe, so going into October I finally lose my patience with the situation. I try to convey my frustration to no avail, our talks going forward are fraught with misdirection and cognitive dissonance on her end (yikes), as it starts to become more and more apparent that she has no intention of keeping her commitments.

IV. After she refused to prove that her phone was stolen - the only time I asked her to prove anything - I indicate I am done negotiating with the situation, and that she owes me for the deposits at least. She refused (shocker).

In light of everything, I ask her why I shouldn�t blog about this, as the community would certainly like to know about this shady behavior, and why I shouldn�t ding her accordingly. She claims to not care either way, before invoking my wife�s name out of context. See albums.

V. October 21st/22nd SOMEBODY with intimate knowledge of me reached out to my wife and brought her attention to this website, specifically my profile, which prompted me to delete it in an effort to save my marriage.

VI. She signaled she will not participate in any blog I make. I encouraged her otherwise. I�m sure she would rather tell her side behind closed doors, for obvious reasons.

VII. I contend that any issue she may have with me occurred after she took my money and stood me up for the third time. Before that, she�s got nothing. Context is important.

In conclusion, three times this year RemedyDreams failed to keep her commitments, and couldn�t be bothered to cancel or follow up in a timely manner on all three occasions. This behavior is inexcusable.

She accepted my help and took two deposits in exchange for two dates (albums) and refuses to keep said commitments.

She threatened me with personal information, and followed through on it.

I�ve wasted over 3k just trying to arrange with her. I accept your criticisms.



I have no explanation for her bizarre behavior. I have my suspicions of a possible mental illness, drug addiction or maybe she�s navigating all this with a live-in boyfriend. Perhaps all three. None of it is any excuse for what she did. Leading up to August I have been nothing but kind and generous towards her, and she has completely taken advantage of it.

There are a TON of options nearby that are cheaper, more fun and easier to arrange with� and won�t wreck your shit at home. Spare yourself the headache, you�re not missing anything special here.

Happy Halloween. Apparently ghosts are in this year.
      
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vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Oct 31 2023 09:14PM     link to this

Layoff the outcalls for a while and see another beauty with an incall. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Also, no need to create another Blog to reply to your last blog. You could have posted all of this on the last one.
aznboytoi
Rosemead, SGV, LA, CA
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Oct 31 2023 09:23PM     link to this

u never send money in advance,
its not rocket science , its happened to others on here too penty of times


NigelCollins68
Whittier, LA, CA
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Oct 31 2023 09:32PM     link to this

It reminds me of an interview that I saw where the woman was a financial dominatrix. The interviewer asked, "What is a financial dominatrix?"

She said, "Men pay me to abuse them financially."

I wonder if Sailor Poon didn't know that he wants a financial dominatrix. There are plenty of women around here who need the money and could provide plenty of satisfying companionship.

Ah, but then the pain wouldn't feel as good.
SailorPoon
Inland Empire, CA
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Oct 31 2023 09:36PM     link to this

Nuh uh. VINCE.
Said the body was too long. So I cut and paste.

Aznboi

A lot more to this story than getting burned on advancements. Been doing this ten years, you think it’s never happened to me before?
mrpussy12
OC, CA
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Oct 31 2023 10:07PM     link to this

She preyed on your emotions. What you’re lacking with your wife, she found and used it to her advantage. Leave emotions at the door with providers. All this is for fantasy. Just like a strip club, it’s your money that is attractive.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Oct 31 2023 10:23PM     link to this

This issue is not CRITICAL to safety.
Can't believe this blog is still up.
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Oct 31 2023 10:33PM     link to this

What was your previous handle?
SailorPoon
Inland Empire, CA
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Oct 31 2023 10:38PM     link to this

GBD

One comment will do. Ty for your opinion.

Mr. pussy

Either way, she struggles to keep her commitments. Buyer beware.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Oct 31 2023 10:41PM     link to this

???
You posted 2 blogs on the same topic that shouldn't even be in Townhall.
I posted twice trying to awaken Mr. Blart.
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Oct 31 2023 11:29PM     link to this

Moral of the story, don’t send a provider a large amount before the Outcall.

Be well.
grooviefan
Cypress, OC, CA
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Nov 1 2023 01:15AM     link to this

she really needs to b ex-commed. contacting your wife is beyond boundries for MOStT working women, just not this CUNT. i hope you see an attorney about your wife and any property you may own, b pre-emptive on this.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Nov 1 2023 01:17AM     link to this

+1

The court of Public Opinion is not going to give much sympathy .
Trojantony27
LA, CA
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Nov 1 2023 02:14AM     link to this

Dude you got played by a con artist, cut your loses and move on.

This broad is toxic, your emotions for her will subside over time.

Leave her be, she’ll be on the prowl for another mark.

Block her number….
Grumpy_Butthead
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Nov 1 2023 06:34AM     link to this

"There's a sucker born every minute"

Most of us have been there done that
drummer
Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Nov 1 2023 07:52AM     link to this

Just like it's already been said on this subject many times:

1.NEVER EVER SEND A WHORE LARGE AMOUNTS OF MONEY BEFORE AN ENCOUNTER

2. DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH A WHORE

3. MOVE ON AND FIND A SWEET WHORE THAT WILL PRETEND TO LOVE YOU FOR AN HOUR OR MORE AND THEN LEAVE

4. STOP BLOGGING ABOUT YOUR STUPID MISTAKES, THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER BEFORE MAKING THEM

Pjforfun
Austin, TX
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Nov 1 2023 07:54AM     link to this

What is the difference between an old sucker and a young sucker?
BlueBalz
Torrance, Coastal, LA, CA
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Nov 1 2023 09:08AM     link to this

Get over it and learn from your mistakes.
aznboytoi
Rosemead, SGV, LA, CA
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Nov 1 2023 10:22AM     link to this

not really a time to be bashing op, men need to learn how to be supportive , cruel world out there
this could happen to anyone whos invested in someone theyre interested in or cares about ,
people need to be held accountable , rate her accordingly
abedahumper
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Nov 1 2023 10:28AM     link to this

@aznboytoi, I love the compassion and support for us men we need to stick together and stay strong from these hoowwweesss, cityboyz we up now!
SailorPoon
Inland Empire, CA
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Nov 1 2023 11:57AM     link to this

It’s usually how these blogs go; drive by commentators will mock the OP in these situations which I fully expected. Some of it is warranted.

But it’s obvious some of them haven’t bothered to read to whole thing. I don’t expect them to, that’s asking a lot these days.

Anyone serious about arranging with this gal who wants to do their due diligence will be motivated to hear what I have to say, that’s what this is about. They can keep talking about my mistakes and my “feelings” all they want. I’m not going to keep addressing it like a broken record.. lol. This is up to warn prospective clients about this broad who has some rather serious issues professionally and personally.
sleepyone
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Nov 1 2023 03:34PM     link to this

Red her account and if anyone asks about it, point them to these blogs.
GoBallsDeep
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Nov 1 2023 03:45PM     link to this

Anybody know what happened to Safety Club, which is where this blog belongs?
Can't believe it's gone but maybe I'm wrong.
This schmuck needs help big time, along with a therapist lol

SailorPoon
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Nov 1 2023 04:13PM     link to this

GBD whining again 😂
GoBallsDeep
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Nov 1 2023 06:49PM     link to this

Cool, we working this blog too?
big1234
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Nov 2 2023 07:35AM     link to this

All this for $1,400. And now your Wife is aware of your Whoremongering. You should definitely delete your account. The blogs you started are not in private clubs and can be viewed by anyone who visits the site without any login credentials. Also if you sent her money electronically using a service, she knows your government name, and is only a google search away from your address and known associates and relatives. You might be messing up her business, if she and her associates take this personally, they could make your life miserable with very little investment of time and money. You’re probably right, about everything and she’s a pos. However, sometimes being right comes with a price tag. Sometimes it’s better to be quiet
bwana
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Nov 2 2023 08:29AM     link to this

From what I can tell, OP already killed his trick account, and paid the $25 for this handle to either win back his moneypit or ruin her rep. These threads have done neither. They show that OP doesn't know how to use the posting "preview" button for errors that make his posts difficult to read, and he hasn't moved on.
GoBallsDeep
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Nov 2 2023 03:38PM     link to this

Thank you Big and Bwana!

Tried telling OP that RA is not the correct venue for this bitch-fest.
Everything is on view for the general public here
Should be in a private club, so that only members can see it, but now that Safety Club is gone, not sure where it should be.

bwana
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Nov 2 2023 03:53PM     link to this

A new zero network account wouldn't be in any club, if such a thing existed.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Nov 2 2023 05:20PM     link to this

I think Noobz takes anybody
secretswimer2000
Woodland Hills, SFV, LA, CA
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Nov 16 2023 10:06PM     link to this

Holy crap man. You posted this a minute after you posted the first one. Either you planned out both blogs in advance or you have God level typing skills. Also what is the story behind the her getting you SO info? What was your old handle?
billinirvine
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Nov 17 2023 09:32AM     link to this

Does OP’s SO have a handle?
Asking for a friend.
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