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don't see her
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Amen
Truer words never spoken.
There are some clubs on HX that make make having points a condition of membership.
Always interesting to see who has lapsed in supporting the community.
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Looks like Longwalker is out of points for mail....
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People book though flirts? This is news to me... I thought it was just for fun...
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What does flirting have to do with booking? It’s just a thing the site added to have fun. If guys are only flirting and never seeing anyone that’s a whole nother issue. I agree why be on here. But there’s nothing wrong with browsing the site and seeing your favs online and sending a flirt to say hi and let them know your still thinking of them til the next time you see them.
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Let me explain. When someone sends a flirt and you flirt back that is usually normal but when they flirt, and you check their profile and it says I am out of mail send me your number and menu.
Is that a better explanation?
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Longwalker, you haven't seen anyone since 2018......so it sounds like "don't see her" is your life motto
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I don't think the issue is flirting, but buying mail privileges on HX.
Some guys will be on the cheap hoping to get a response by way of flirting, which could be annoying to provider because it is time consuming.
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^ correct but it also doesn't support a site that they are using and it just seems fucking lame if I am being totally honest.
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Oops, didn't realize you clarified that at 11:10. . . Too many distractions at work 😂😂😂
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It is ok.....no need to apologize......and get your ass back to work....you are on company time. they aren't paying you to have leisure time!
KIDDING, I am just feeling feisty and a little bit like an asshole
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Actually this broad is right. She made her point pretty clear and it makes sense.
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Are you saying people can just look at someone's profile page, click on the button that says Unlock Mail, and it will say something like this?longwalker can't send mail at the moment, but if you unlock some for them, they would certainly appreciate it!
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Period
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The only time I’ll send a flirt or two is to get a girl to respond or send me a PM if they are not responding.
Ladies, if a dude is using the flirt system, he is interested. SEND him a PM. Not hard.
If you’re low or out of mail, either respond with menu and number to cut to the chase in the first one PM or you need to post that number on your ad or profile.
I’ve been on here a while and see regulars mostly because the wildest thing I’ve seen is new girls spending five hours and 8 PM’s later responding to a direct question of “Let me know your menu gorgeous?”:
They say “how are you?”
Then “what are you interested in?, I’m the best around!”
Then “what are you looking for? I’m super fun!”
Then “I’m available during the day, I’m in California”
Then “haven’t heard from you”
Then “????”
Then “Are you interested or going to flake??”
Me: “Please tell me the menu and rates, thanks”
Then “I rather discuss that in person, I’m the best you’ll ever have!”
And all the while they never said their unem or $$$. Nobody is talking the risk of not knowing those two simple things.
The whole point of HX is to vet people to make sure they are not 👮♀️ or a flake or unsafe and can talk openly to see if they match well. Nobody wants to waste their time or get caught up.
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She's trying to say that if you can spend Mojo points you should be able to spend mail points.
I think, that's what I'm getting.
It makes sense that any kind of point activity is supporting the site though, right ?
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I flirt for fun. If I see somebody is online that I know or want to see, I’ll sometimes send a flirt. Not really your point… I get it.
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Another hx man hater. Unsubscribed.
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I don't waste time with the "flirts", I go straight to PM if I want to learn more about someone and perhaps even meet. But then again, I am not a cheap ass and always support the site. It isn't that much money and if it is, you don't want to meet that person anyway.
Addison, you're worth the investment.
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The wonderful middle ground is to subscribe to Skippy's Custom Flirt Service.
You too can stand out from the crowd who only use the vanilla flirts. I mean how many "Scofflaw winks at...." does the world really need?
PM me with Offer Code FATOLDBALD for a special package discount.
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Now there is a man, not only with a great set of nuts. But a man with auntre pinurial skills.
I'm totally in. And I'm down with the premium package too. Duude as you can see, I need all the help I can get.
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The BIRD above is out of mail also.
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I am out of mail. Largely cuz I don't find this site appealing enough to use it for it's intended purposes. I get those needs met elsewhere.
But having a rant because some dude flirts and does not have mail privileges is silly.
Getting mail access is not expensive so it really isn't about the money. It really comes down to the value of what u can get on HX..... Compared to other sites
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HMMM my mail expires 2053. I guess I am supporting the site LOL
You ladies are great!!!
H
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Some ladies allow flirts to prove it is coming from the guy who is trying to contact her. If he is too cheap to buy points this gives the lady a way to verify that XXX is really XXX because she can tell him to send a flirt in response to her PM. She could even tell him which flirt to pick. This would be for verification purposes that the guy is really XXX..
There are ladies that post their numbers because they prefer to be contacted directly because it can be faster. But we have all read the alerts/complaints of of a lady being scammed by a guy who is not really that guy. The flirts are a way for the lady to see a guy too cheap to buy points for sending a PM to verify he is really XXX.
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This dude is really smart.
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This blog is about a dude trying to pull a fast one.
1. Claims no mail privileges.
2. Sends his buddies number, so the provider can text.
3. Buddy slides in using an HX account.
4. No one knows the difference.
5. Provider is fooled and put in a dangerous situation.
See, I may be slow, but I just figured this all out by myself.
Moral of the story;
Ladies, don’t fall for the okie doke. The ol' no mail routine. Call me on my beeper bullshit. It just might be DuWuan waiting for you to show up. DuWuan is just waiting to snatch up another pony.
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I sent OP a flirt this morning and did not get a response 
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Hah. I texted a lady on here once to book cause she put her phone number on her ad. Then she wanted me to confirm my identity by sending her a PM but I had no mail privileges, so I offered to send her a flirt -- which accomplishes the same goal. If she was going to be "bothered" that I didn't want to renew a month's mail to send one PM, then she would sound like the type to give me subpar service because I show up in a Prius as opposed to a Rolls Royce. Let's call it what it is. Your donation determines whether someone can afford to see you, not no damn mail privileges. The site charges people for PM privileges. It never said you HAD to PM to communicate. There are better things to worry about in life over brand loyalty.
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I was trying to be cute by sending flirts. I mean you get all those "mojo" points when you buy FX points so I figured I'd try to use them. So now I'm confused, do the ladies like the flirts or just find them irritating? 🤷
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I don't think you guys understand.....
Dude sends a flirt, you send one back, dude sends same lame flirt, you check dudes profile.
Dude says if I sent you a flirt, send me your menu and number because I dont have mail
The other cool thing they do is they go to other sites that may have your number on your ad, they contact you but say they are from HX. Ask them to verify and they don't have mail. I ask where did you get my number They say off another site, but they dont have mail on hx. They also know that the rates are more on the other sites.
They use HX as a "look i am so safe" when really they are too cheap to cover the cost of mail.
Don't mess with a sites integrity. It will be very scary when the decent ones have since closed shop
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Vss4-an adult male with a little red Ninja suit is Silly. If there are such better values at other place then why even have hx period. As for quality, I think that that statement can ring true on the both ends of the stick. I don't think I have ever been asked a for a special or a deal on any other site. Or my favorite. The secret extended menu request......or the menu that is expanded for xx amount more.
The point is if you use something or want to claim yourself a member because HX is known to be safer because it operates as a "community" well support it so it can survive.
If this was your site would want some one to try an cheat the system but still experience the benefits?
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^And btw many hx women are constantly begging for fx points to unlock mail, for pics, etc. So it goes both ways...those cheap ass hx bitches...Why don't they support the site? Women on other sites are so much better...
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I'm basically just kidding; I love hx women, except when they bitch about hx guys. If they only knew how much many of us guys spend on women. Getting fx points, which is a good thing, means having to get a gift card or money order which means having to go to the store or post office which means taking off from work which means less money to spend on women. I don't believe I've ever sent a flirt, but I've read that many women do use them as a way to verify. If you don't accept it, fine. Personally, when I need mail, I buy it, but others may do otherwise.
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Since we’re one the topic, can someone send me points for 30 more days?
Thx
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So far on this blog the following have no points for mail:
Longwalker
Bird
Vss4
Notsofast
Rakuen.now
Sinister1
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^Technically, this is incorrect. Just because you don't use your fx points for mail doesn't mean you don't have points. Many of us see regulars and don't have occasion to use mail.
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Chief, since you are one of few good hx guys and so wealthy, not like us poor cheap bastards, why don't you buy us all a round of fx points! You'd be supporting the site! And, not to mention paying back some of the huge amount of tax money I paid to support the firemen and their huge pensions paid for by taxpayers like me!
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@Chief not true I actually do have points for mail from like several years ago. But I just did not use them cuz well for me it's kind of pointless...
As for Addison Parker, u know u love the ninja suit!!!!!!!
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I have also been allowing my mail to expire and go longer and longer before renewal. Mostly due to the BS time wasting with communication that rockitman described above. I think its a cultural shift driven by new people getting into the scene. Other sites like PD are even worse. I just end up defaulting to the asian agencies b/c they are zero hassle.
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jedi is right, It can be very time consuming. To me the flirts section is best used for verifying legit HX members & that is it. Other than that it's useless.
I totally agree with addison... What is this specials horseshit anyway? I'm on numerous other sites appealing to the upper echelon of gentlemen to your average blue collar worker, and everyone in between and not once have I been asked "What are your specials?" by anyone! Except for the HX guys. Why in gods name would I want to lower my prices, especially when every single damn thing surrounding me is getting more expensive by the day? Rent, groceries, gas, utilities, a f'ing big gulp even! I can see offering veterans specials or giving a regular that sees you 3 or 4 times a week a locked in special deal or arrangement but to anyone else... Why?
This is not a flea market, garage sale, swap meet or whatever you want to call it. We are not here to haggle prices. How would you like it if someone came into your workplace and asked you what your specials are, expecting to get a cheap deal right out of the gate? As though your service or products are not worth your asking price. This is insulting & rude!
If it's money you'd like to save might I suggest you cut costs in other aspects of your life, say less Starbucks, maybe one less night out at the bar with friends after work, skip that extra steak over the weekend, suggest to your girlfriend she buy her own Christian Louboutin Kate Pointed Toe Pump, skip that case of imported beer, slow down on the quick picks & scratchers you purchase every week, wash your own car or truck, make meals at home instead of ordering grub hub or door dash every night. Those are just a few suggestions. I'm not in this business for you specials seekers to save money & get a bargain at my expense.
You can all say what you want which I'm quite sure you will, especially all you level 0's.. How about you get up off your asses & off your computers, get a job so you can stop typing & start f@#%ing! Put your money where your mouth is. And for you bargain hunters & specials seekers... Your best bet is taking a drive down Harbor Blvd in Santa Ana or Beach Blvd in and around Stanton & Garden Grove where you can score yourself a real deal. Their everyday donations are far more reasonable than our specials could ever be, and certainly will fit any discerning budget!
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@Cheif, you are not wrong about me not having points for mail. But I have been out of the state for the past few months and not needing to mail anyone. I have no problem buying more points and supporting this site. I actually think AddisonParker has a point.
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@handy_dandy , me and you are on the same page
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@Addison, I couldn't resist. I just sent you the most nastiest (PG13) flirt I could. I'm feeling feisty today too.
@blainefox, thanks for agreeing with me. It's a first for me without it being political.
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This should be banned as well --- Circumventing by flirting and texting !
It's insulting and disrespectful to the site, and the same to everyone who has paid for Fx points and has treated the site as the valuable tool that it is to all of us.
No mail = No Blogging Privileges
Level Zero with no network = No Blogging Privileges
No Fx points = Get some you cheap bastards and even some of you cheap ladies - do some fx albums at a minimum ladies = you'll always have some Fx points.
Do not think and act in ways to circumvent the site !
Think of the site as your own business, and don't fuck it up for everyone else !
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Chief, I do have points for mail, plenty of them. Has it occurred to you that some people may leave their points in the bank until they need them? I'm currently -17 days without mail but can re-up whenever I want but thanks for your concern.
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I just sent this dude a flirt.
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I'm still trying to figure out what a "lame flirt" is
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@AddisonParker
You have taken the exact words out of my head! Thank you. So many times when I get a text asking for info because the guy doesn’t have mail privileges, I usually respond “ if you can’t afford mail, you can’t afford me”.
Come on fellas, this site is one of the better ones out there for you guys to use. Stop being cheap MF’s and buy some damn mail!
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This makes me want to send OP a flirt or two. 😘
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