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Dascha
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Retaliation rating after exposing my stalker
Sep 16 2022 06:34AM more by Dascha
Tags: San Diego , Random (All tags)

I recently noticed someone rated me red immediately after I shared my stalker story, these ratings have an envelope but I can't see the username/handle of who rated me, it only says it's Male Level 4.

I have not met up with anyone new since the incident and I'm curious to know who it was and why they rated me if we've never met.

This is an intimidation tactic to ensure next time something happens to remain silent about it... Which will not happen.

It honestly brings me down because I only have good ratings from my actual meetings.

Any ideas or tips?
      
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bwana
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Sep 16 2022 06:54AM     link to this

No one really cares about the anonymous ratings, except for the chickenshit that made them. It won't effect your biz. Just accept them as a badge of courage.
YourGirlJane
Sacramento, Bay Area, CA
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Sep 16 2022 07:27AM     link to this

Don't let it get you down.
Addie
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Sep 16 2022 08:49AM     link to this

yeah don't worry about it.
artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Sep 16 2022 09:27AM     link to this

The negative rating is dated back to August 2, 2022. Have you had it since then?
TheMatrixx
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Sep 16 2022 09:41AM     link to this

It's the cost of blogging you can expect more of it
seek899
San Diego, CA
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Sep 16 2022 09:43AM     link to this

Dascha. I know it's annoying because you have a good, network but as others have said, the best thing to do is forget about it. The envelope icon means his contact with you was "Online/By email" so you could check your PMs for recent exchanges with a Level 4 who seemed upset but unfortunately this stuff happens a lot and really won't affect anyone who wants to see you.

On the plus side, you've almost leveled up. Your safety level is already a 1. Only the overall level is displayed on a person's profile page but if you hover your cursor over the level of that member, you can see a pop-up with all the categories that make up the overall level.
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Dascha
OC, CA
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Sep 16 2022 02:11PM     link to this

Thank you all, much love to all 💝
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