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Bro you'd be very non-cerebral to do such a thing!
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That's because he's always washing your balls.
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^ cheap loser
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I prefer to think of myself as frugal and rarely in first place, but you can use whatever words you like.
Sorry OP, but you had to know this would happen.
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Set your expectations and make sure they're being met. That's what matters.
It takes some time to build trust but if it happens it is a real good thing to hold on to.
Probably better to assume she has a similar deal with a dozen other guys for starters then see where the level of trust goes.
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The problem is that one of the parties will start to think it is something more than an arrangement.
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Better nail down what "Semi-Exclusive" means exactly.
Why don't you just stay a regular and forget this added nonsense?
(The only semi-exclusive arraignment I would even consider is where she can sleep with girls, and maybe bring some of them in for 3-somes.)
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As long as you get what you pay for, nothing to complain about. 👍🏻
Malloy, once told me that if you are seeing someone on HX on a regular basis,
you should be able to negotiate a better deal.
Get a clear understanding of the arrangement and
definitely, don't ever put up with any BS.
Generally speaking, many of the ladies with give you plenty of BS to see who
the chumps and suckers are.
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Don’t do it. I just got it if one. A provider I met on here. Failed about two months
Pm me if
You want to talk more
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^ Since you have one in your network I wonder if we can all guess.
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The network add is on 9/17/22, not really a long term.
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It will end badly for one of you and that one will likely be you. My advice would be to avoid what you are considering, but everyone gets to make this mistake once.
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Since women have no comments, it is clear that they won't be reading this blog post.
Women are here because they are not relationship material. They cannot get along with one man or with several men. Every one of them would be better off married. Every one of them has at least a dozen men in her phone to whom she could text, "Meet me at the courthouse tomorrow. You are going to marry me."
Every woman here could get an incredible amount of help from men--enough to live well--if she just stopped treating men like shit. I think that it is hilarious.
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OP will be asking for medical advice next on how to get rid of the herp.
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gilbert33,
No she's not on here anymore and I deleted my account and created a new one when it ended.
NEVER doing that again.
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So many desperate guys here.. 
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semi exclusive is an oxymoron......one is either exclusive on inclusive
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HX is great, but I recommend you do it. Every guy here should try it a couple of times. Sounds like you both know what it would be and its not love.
I say try it for 3 months and see if you want to continue. Maybe it will get better.
There are many women on HX that would love to have some stability and will treat you well providing that stability includes some cash to offset what they would otherwise not earn while spending time with you.
There are many men on HX that would love the stability of a dedicated go to lady as well.
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^ Bad advise. The desperate guy always gets screwed, and not the way he intended...
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^ He knows its not love and will have to pay. So, how is he getting screwed over?
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The desperate guy will think he's in Love, all bad after that. Seen it a couple of times.
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As a female, I will agree that you must be very clear as to what you expectations are
But before that what are the reasons for a "semi-Exclusive" relationship? If its for a "natural experience" with the belief that you are safe from any cooties well......I hate t break it to you but unless its an EXCLUSIVE relationship you run a huge risk whether it be 1 other person or 500 other people. Granted the risk is less but it is still there.
Another question is what are you going to do for her that would allow her the ability to have such an arrangement? Unless you are going to provide for her every wish or need she will always have a reason to do what she knows. Personally for me, If I am going to play house per say I need a long term guarantee....like you need to set up some account with a savings or put a ring on it cause I dont think you fellas understand how much effort goes into building a solid reputation, a client base and so on. You can lose everything you've built from taking a break for exclusivity.
JUST MY OPINION FROM A BUSINESS PERSPECTIVE......
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We if I was going to enter into an agreement like this, I'd have to purchase the extended warranty.
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@Addison Parker thanks for the input, I was hoping more ladies would reply because their input is the most valuable. We are meeting to discuss the arrangement and to have clearly defined parameters. It is going to initially be a short term arrangement and one of the main parts of the initial arrangements is to open her schedule to me when I request time(I must give minimum 4 hour notice), Outside of the obvious it will function much like a normal dating situation, The reason for semi-exclusive is it will be a month to month arrangement until trust is built(minimize losses on both sides). The fiscal arrangement is to be a determined fixed amount. I will be respectful of her time and I do have a life away from the arrangement that puts restriction on my availability, discretion is very important to her and I.
LOL I knew I was opening myself up for some BS comments from the bitter mongers on here and some fun razzing from the genuine guys.
let me restate she is not a lady on Hx, and is not found on the other boards. She actually came as referral from a long retired lady I knew from many years ago.(we remained friends after we ended our arrangement lasted 4 years very unique situation). The lady of interest is a foreign student (slightly older than a typical student, is why I am considering it)
Again thanks Addison...
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If you have the $$ to support her, do it. If you feel she is sincere with you, will be accommodating and wants the same, do it.
But understand that like any relationship things will shift, you have to adapt and accept change.
Everyone is on here for different reasons, guys cannot make assumptions about girls and vice versa.
It really is a case by case scenario.
Reading this blog gives insight to the girls about what the men are thinking, maybe that's why there aren't many female replies.
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^ Yes, if you have the money pay her. I have done this type of thing before and I had surprisingly good results.
Most men never see a well behaved woman who also does not game sex, is the ultimate dream of men. So pay her for this and you'll be very happy.
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Don’t do it. You will pay more to get less sex. That is
The nature of a relationship.
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@streetpharmacist
So you had a short exclusive relationship. Deleted your account because you were heart broken. Now you have a handle telling everyone you are a drug dealer. Your an idiot.
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gilbert33,
I was not heart broken, I deleted my account and well as her. We both agreed as a form of trust. The streetpharmacist name was something I heard off a song.
Seriously, get over yourself....
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guys stay on the subject matter.... who cares if he is legend drug dealer in his own little mind.... get over yourselves
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sorry but i do not understand the concept which you mention; semi-exclusive, could you describe in more details?
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Don't
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Probably the only way it Might remain “semi exclusive “. Is if she has a regular job, as her primary source of income, and you (and maybe only you) are merely a supplemental source of income.
But you will really never know, for certain.
I had such an arrangement, with a lady who had retired from the business.
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I've been in one back in 2015/2016. For a year and a half, while the girl was in law school. (she's graduated now, in a committed relationship and is practicing)
The only thing that meant was on the days I saw her, I would be the only one she sees. But I liked it because I got to see her in a different light, and it wasn't at a hotel or anywhere I didn't want to go. For how long it lasted, I had a great time. She liked it because she truly worked less because of it. Some months I knew she wasn't working at all, and when we got together, the sessions would last for hours because she wanted to get hers as much as I wanted to get mine. I got a birthday present, we always went out to eat after. Things were never a rush and it felt very organic for what it was. I'm not sure what your arrangement will be, but I liked it better than just being a regular hourly client. It was much more fulfilling and satisfying.
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Barngaroo gets it....
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I'm currently looking for a new gardener. I understand you may be semi exclusive and only mow certain lawns but maybe we can work something out
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I wish my gardener would be exclusive...
I'm always dealing with outside sources of growth like clover, Bermuda grass, and mushrooms with my gardener.
I'm gonna have him get tested!
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I think its a great idea. I was in about 3 of them over the past many years. It was what we both wanted. My last one was with a seasoned Attorney. We were engaged but unfortunately health issues took him away. To this day he is my soul mate. It was wonderful.
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I will mention this though, a few good men have fallen deeply in lust or something with two of the gals I introduced them to. Those other gals were knock out beauties and definitely could pull a real good scenario on guys. They were not sincere and the guys were ODDLY overwhelming sensitive and fell hard. The beautiful gals ended up taking lots and leaving them broken hearted.
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semi-exclusive like in most marriages???
but seriously, there was a time when I had a standing weekly appointment with an HX lady.
I think it worked well - she had a client she could depend on to show up and I got my brains fuc'd out on a regular basis.
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update...lol.... well the agreement has been reached and so far the testing of the agreement has gone smoothly... proof is in the puddin' or the pushin'
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HH, pm me with an idea of what is reasonable. Something I am curious about..kinda like taking trips and spending 4 days. Those things can be adjusted.
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I"ve had several.
Seeking Arrangement (SA) is a much better site to find someone who wants to be low volume or exclusive.
There are pros and cons for SA, same as here.
RW
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Miss Travel is good too.
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I prefer exclusive arrangements and they work amazingly if both parties are honest and upfront about their needs and desires
If a person can accommodate what you're looking for then go for it. I have had some amazing experiences and would do it again in a heartbeat.
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