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LisaBailey2.0
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Why won't they rate back?
Sep 29 2022 02:12PM more by LisaBailey2.0
Tags: Orange County, Technical Site Stuff (All tags)

Please help me understand


1. If a Level 0 and a Level 4 rate each other does Level 4 go down in ratings?

I do not mean, he would go down to Level 3 but if he saw additional (no set amount) of Level 0s at some point it would go down


2. What is the consequence to my level if I rate someone and they don't rate me back?

I have already asked them to rate me via phone and pm
      
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dataheart
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Sep 29 2022 02:19PM     link to this

It never decreases your level, however the problem I have run into now is I’ve rated so many people without them rating me back, HX “auditor” has prevented me from giving any new ratings

Also, when people quit or delete their profile, that removes their rating too

My two cents
Chief
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Sep 29 2022 02:30PM     link to this

Ans as a follow up to Candy's advice, If they do not rate you back after a reasonable request and a reasonable length of time, go ahead an 'un-rate' them so they do not count against you with the HX Auditor, Ana.
Tatiana36dd
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Sep 29 2022 02:41PM     link to this

Thx chief!
daniduran
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Sep 29 2022 03:20PM     link to this

yeah jts messed up when girls say i need recent ratings, but they never rate us back
1972monarch
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Sep 29 2022 03:50PM     link to this

@OP On your home page click the Contact Us/Help! box. Under Help Pages click Network. You will find a very detailed explanation on Network Ratings. It should answer any questions you have.
big1234
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Sep 29 2022 04:00PM     link to this

If I don't rate someone I've met ... it's usually because I have nothing nice to say when people request a reference...so it may just be someone doing you a favor?
Justify
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Sep 29 2022 06:07PM     link to this

Im batting about .500 on ratings received vs ratings issued, used to take it personal but not anymore..If there was one thing I could change in the rating system , it would be a Q if I would book with that provider again...someone with repeat customers tells me a lot about that provider
Sbsurf40s
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Sep 29 2022 06:15PM     link to this

If the the girls don't rate me, I still rate them, though not negatively. But I won't give favorable reference when someone contacts me about their info.

I really don't get the levels thing, there is really no benefits of being level 3 vs level 1 or 2, is there?
rakuen.now
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Sep 29 2022 07:02PM     link to this

"I really don't get the levels thing, there is really no benefits of being level 3 vs level 1 or 2, is there? "

Besides bullying newcomers for specials, I don't really see a point. Which is why if I make it to level 2 or 3, I'm going to stop taking new ratings. I've seen some "interesting" behavior from y'all and I wouldn't want to be associated with that.
IfYouKnew
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Sep 29 2022 07:06PM     link to this

Most newer girls want a rating,,,,,,
To keep my numbers even I always tell them if they rate me I will rate them back otherwise no go,,,,,,,,
classicmonkey
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Sep 29 2022 08:43PM     link to this

I rate girls I see and give them maybe a few weeks to rate me back then I remove mine if I haven’t received one back. It’s a courtesy Thing. You give and you get. Doesn’t mean I won’t see them again. Just means no rating between us. Everybody here knows Any lady or guy that says they’re too busy to rate you is lying. The 2 min rating actually takes like 30 seconds and they have a 2 second rating too. And no one on this site is seeing 50 New people a day where it would take up lots of time.
PeteMalloy
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Sep 29 2022 09:03PM     link to this

^ Truer words have never been spoken my friend



That's the way to handle that scenario...
gilbert33
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Sep 29 2022 09:41PM     link to this

I though the purpose of the whole ratings system was to basically let others know that person is safe.

If you rate someone and the person does not rate you back and you take down the rating you gave them you are being petty. Just because that person does not rate you back does not take away from that person being safe.

qwiksilver
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Sep 29 2022 11:43PM     link to this

That person is just being LAZY! When I first started, I had to beg to get rated. I always rate same day. You need recent rating because woman want to see an active account.
NacNacBoy199
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Sep 30 2022 03:06AM     link to this

the last 3 women who were first time visits didn’t rate me back. the visits are always pleasant and enjoyable but many ladies are just as lazy and inconsiderate as many of the men when it comes to rating. they ask for a rating but don’t return the favor. i’ll send a pm, two at the most requesting a rating. it really doesn’t take muck effort.
uprightfun
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Sep 30 2022 05:44AM     link to this

One thing that you might consider is to send a PM after your meeting, and add a link like this:

https://www.humaniplex.com/network_manage/?h=LisaBailey2.0

To your message. It’s a direct link to your ratings page.

BTW: It’s my understanding that giving positive safety ratings to people with issue in their network (e.g., negative safety ratings) can actually lower your own network rating.
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SurfMonger
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Sep 30 2022 07:09AM     link to this

I have a solution for OP and several of the men.

OP wants men to rate her back. Several of you men have complained the ladies are too lazy to rate back...

This is really simple, all the men complaining about not getting rated back should go see OP because it seems as though you all want the same thing.

I for one see Ms. Bailey on regular basis and would encourage others to also see her. You will be hard pressed to find better karma or safety anywhere else.
ColossusJones
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Sep 30 2022 08:16AM     link to this


Compare a person’s incoming vs outgoing ratings and if it’s a large difference, chances are you won’t be rated. If it’s a similar number you will be.
yyzed
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Oct 1 2022 10:45AM     link to this

Every time you log on, you agree that this website urges all website users NOT to use the Network Rating system to decide whether to meet any other website User

I don't ask for ratings and no longer give them, if I find a person I click with, I see them exclusively, guys who trophy hunt, are the guys who can't get laid on their own.

Three years, I dated a nympho married woman, when I rejoined this site, I was told by one lady I needed 3 recent ratings, no thanks

Not a smart businesswoman, was telling me to get three quick ratings, spend 900 bucks to see her? lol, nope. I offered to send my id redacted, she still wanted ratings, not bright if you ask me but I wasn't rude, I just moved one.

The lady who said I needed 3 recent ratings, I ckd hers, she gave out none, she had about 20 all new ratings in 2 weeks, a new replacement profile, no history, multiple on the same day and most were from the flamboyant blogging mother fuckers on this side who were rating her, probably trading ratings, she must have had a new profile and used the rating system to show safety, that's a red flag, she might be safe but when telling me that I need ratings and hers are fake, uh...nope.

I understand safety, I was around during the Backpage days, screening can be done without HX ratings, which this site tells you clearly NOT to even use or rely upon, basically telling you that it can be manipulated and obviously it has

This site tells you NOT to trust ratings.

One thing about ratings on a woman's page, when they have hundreds in a few months, that's either false or scary. Ironically, some who have told me I needed recent ratings, they do not or rarely issue them, those who don't know how to screen or basic safety, that's a red flag to me anyway.

Other women say I needed recent ratings, simply went to another site, I've met in public, I'm a photographer so I don't give a fuck about ratings, when I rejoined, I rated two ladies I saw under my old profile, they didn't rate me back, which I understood, different profile, but they didn't tell me to take down.

I'd rather not rate to not have douche bags writing to me asking for info, does she do this...does she do that, is she a kisser, shit I wonder, dude what the fuck, fuck off and jerk off, how creepy is that, conversely, asking are her pictures accurate, is erratic, a time waster, drugs, that makes sense, but how is her bj, dude please.

I imagine and would be surprised that dudes aren't signing up as female just to rate themselves, I swear that a couple of female bloggers are actually dudes, maybe not, when this site has dudes rating each other as "safe", I suppose they are gay because they rate as in-person, meaning, they've sucked each other's dicks? Must be, same dudes who post on the circle jerk political blogs incessantly.

Guys rating each other as "safe", reeks of danger, imagine trusting dudes who tell females that they are safe because some dickhead dude has rated him, yeah right.

Still, this site tells me, you, everyone, NOT to trust the rating system



June.Moon
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Oct 1 2022 11:54AM     link to this

Most of my ratings are from my old profile lol



I always assume guys don't rate me because they didn't enjoy our time, which is okay ... I always ask if they'd like me to rate them before they leave so you know before hand if its ok. But I still write my notes about them accordingly



Sometimes a guy doesn't want a rating because he has a girl on the site that he doesn't want knowing that he sees anyone else . And very few men don't care





Due to safety I require recent ratings and don't care if anyone doesn't like it. If a guy doesn't want a rating then don't give him one but he also can't complain about the lack of network that a provider requires in order to meet.
jimmmyz
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Oct 1 2022 12:18PM     link to this

Agree with June, only give ratings if the person wants a rating.
Also, your compliance rating is only important if you want to vote.
Thirdly, the easiest way to understand the rating system is to think of it as a percentage. If someone has been rated 100 times and they rate you 2 minutes, it’s like they gave you 5 rating points. As opposed to someone with 20 ratings who rates you, you would get 1 rating point, and if they had 1 prior rating, you would receive.05 rating points. That is why someone with 50 ratings from low level people may be a level 1, and someone else with 50 ratings, all from level 4-5 might be a level 4.
And lastly, you only lose rating “points” when someone rates you red. You may go down a level if other people pass you by by accumulating rating points faster. But you don’t lose any rating points. Very confusing, but the rating system is fair and accurate, in my opinion.
Dahg8tcubix
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Apr 22 2023 07:23AM     link to this

Why is it so hard for women to rate back? I would rate them immediately after a meet and text them I have rated and ask for them to do it back but a lot of time the rating never happens. Sometimes I just feel like taking the rating off the women that don’t rate back.

What’s the difference between a 2 second rating vs a 2 minute rating?
ColossusJones
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Apr 22 2023 12:04PM     link to this


Compliance also effects how strong your network rating is. A Level 5 with a zero compliance rating is like stepping into the ring with Iron Mike Tyson but he has two broken hands and a sprained ankle. So a Level 3 with a Level 3 in compliance will rate stronger.

Points are a good way of explaining the network. I tend to think the of the network in terms of spider webs. The folks with the most ratings are the most connected to everyone who is connected to everyone else. A new person who attempts to game the system by starting 10 profiles who all rate each other won’t be connected to anyone else. The strength of your network is determined by the strength of everyone else’s network.

You could probably also think about it like the fabric of space time where the most connected are like the largest celestial bodies bending the fabric far greater than others.

It’s however you can best think of interactions and how best those interactions affect each other.

darthspiker
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Apr 22 2023 02:09PM     link to this

@Dahg8tcubix all kinds of reasons why they don't rate back. Just screen for that. For example one of the ladies you rated but did not rate you back shows that she has 106 Saefty ratings but she has only issued 74 ratings. Either meet with them knowing they might not rate you back or meet with someone else.
vince2001
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Jun 7 2024 01:35PM     link to this

ColossusJones, that was a great explanation. Disney Marvel should hire your to explain thier story lines relating to bending time and the multiverse.

So, I seen a lot of girls that retired over the last decade that rated me and eventually deleted their profiles. Does that bring down my internal score? For example, if I am about to reach Level 3, but two profiles that dated me positively years ago, bit delete their profile today, would that push the finish line to Level 3 further away from me?

Thx,
Zippo_714
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Jun 8 2024 01:52AM     link to this

I always rate, even if the session was negative. The ladies need to understand that there are a lot of reference request conversations afterward. That's where I would blast the girls IF it was a horrible session 😓
Jack
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Jun 8 2024 02:08AM     link to this

Safety ratings are exactly that. Is that person safe to see? Did the person handle the transaction properly?

I don't think it has anything to do with how good a time a person had. If, from your experience, another member could see this person safely, is all it's really about.
AFMadness
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Jun 8 2024 09:58AM     link to this

^ True.

Vince, Yes.
June.Moon
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Jun 8 2024 07:15PM     link to this

I've had 7 handles so most of my ratings are from my past accounts

Lots of people didn't want to re rate me but I don't take it personal. If I rate someone and they don't return the favor I delete it ..also if I haven't rated you please feel free to ask.

Someone the other day asked me to rate them and I did even though we met months ago .



A tip that I have is that you NEED to do your notes as soon as the person leaves. If you wait until the end of the day you will not remember clearly, as you would while it's still fresh... If you can do it while they're in the shower that works but I always text myself everything and anything I can, while I can. I send myself texts about every single detail with their handle, then at the end of the day I can go back and add it to their ratings as needed
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