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I mean…if people don’t want to pay a deposit, that’s fine, but they should seek people out who do not require them on HX (and there’s plenty since this is truly a “hobbyist” site. Whether for good or bad) they can reach out to.
That’s really the end all be all.
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^Agreed.
If you can’t meet expectations, move on. Don’t waste your time and their time.
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sherkahn = communist
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There’s no right or wrong answer here
Just find someone who fits your needs and policies
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Ty. The only wrong answer is when someone requests a donation and then ghosts the client when they arrive. Unfortunately, that still occurs. Hence, the blog to raise awareness.
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I think we get why a lady would want a deposit. Security, confirmation of meeting and all that.
However, like everything else good, a few shitheads ruin it for everyone.
I did the deposit thing once to someone that was on and off here for a while. She ghosted me.
Lesson learned and now when I get that request I tell them this story. Some are cool and relax the deposit requirement and some don't. I don't get pissy with the ones that don't, I just move on.
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'However, like everything else good, a few shitheads ruin it for everyone.'
I'd say it's more then a few, I'd say it's at least 50%, if not 75%, of the women who get a deposit become Casper when it's time to keep an appointment.
Doesn't matter if they have great reviews and a great rep they still do it.
I know the 1 time I gave a deposit I asked several people about her, checked her reviews etc. and all the feedback was all great. Still got ghosted.
Atticus Finch
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